I hear from a lot of guys that they like women who know what they want. However, when those of us come along who DO know what we want, yet our expectations aren't in line with theirs (or God forbid, higher than theirs), we're labeled as stuck-up, high-end women. Why is this?

All men have excuses

ur right about that

I dont think us men really want a Woman that knows what she wants Unless its the Guy himself. Deep down inside. Guys like to be in control somewhat and if a girl is that way, well, We can get frustrated and just say "she is stuck up, or a biatch" Just keepin it real.

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Six here, half dozen there...take your pick. Sure, some guys do that...but there are others that actually want that. Again, six here...half dozen there.

It's been my experience that people have a hard time recognizing any validity in standards other than their own.

Or, to put it another way, sure, I would love to meet a woman who knows what she wants. What they want, unfortunately, never seems to mesh with what I want (although the general procedure is that they PRETEND to want the same things I want until the relationship has gone on for a few months, at which point they suddenly feel an overwhelming need to CHANGE me into someone else!).

I don't think of them as stuck-up, though. I just think of them as dishonest and misleading, which is another thing entirely.

whats wrong with being stuck up and high end, sounds like an elite niche lol

Probably for the same reasons women run the other way when they find a " Nice, honest etc...man " when he shows up in her life.

Nobody is good enough for me

Or they say they want someone who's smart and funny, but then when he shows up, he's too "intimidating" and "complicated." Make up your damn mind already.

It's called insecurity...on both sides.Can't be secure in others if you're not secure in yourself.Not to mention trust.

well mostly I do know what I want..On life,from myelf,in a man or from a man..I try to understanding..kind patient..all that ..but I can only take so much..as anybody..So when I finally get enough.And take a stand..thats when I become the Bi*ch..so to speak..I can take & a lot.listen to a lot..let a lot roll off of me..like it didnt happen was never said.ETC..but hey..those days are done..i will no longer settle for anything less then what I want & who I'm searching for..Ihave plans,dreams,hopes,all that >.and I plan & pray to see that as many of the come true as possible..

And just what would your response be if some stuck-up high-end man told you that you did not even come close to his much higher expectations?

Good goin' Motown ya scared her into deactivation land...

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