I'm 30 years old and feel like my sex drive is depleting. I tend to lose my erection if my gf and I try having sex again right after a first time we have sex... at times it seems I'm not as hard as I should be. I love sex and I'm worried about my drive, am I losing it?

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Only you can know if you are in good health. Are you feeling strong over all or is something amiss.

Might be time for a self inventory. Most Americans know if they are eating, exerciseing, resting well, and copeing with stress. Maybe it is time to clean up your act a bit. What you could get away in your teens won't cut it at 30.

I would at 30 have an annual physical with a good General Practicioner or Family Practicioner. Try to select one friends might refer you to or someone you would feel most comfortable with.
Developeing a relationship with a Primary Caregiver is essential to best care. Seeing them before you are rageing ill is not a bad plan annually because then they have a point of reference.

Go with a list (and a pencil notepad to not answers) of basic lifesyle facts and your top three to five concerns. It is natural to be nervouse but your talking to your Doctor so skip trying to create an impression and communicate.

Good possibility you will be examined, referred for standard blood tests and maybe even sent to a Urologist since they are the ones that deal with your specific concerns. I would advise asking for the first appointment of the day and not eating (fasting) from midnight the night before except for a glass of water so you can give a urine specimin.

My guess is if you don't think the plumbing is working up to par the sooner the better you see a doctor. Statiscly one in four men have some form of STD you definitely want to catch early and if you are diabetic or hypertensive (both which give that kind of symptom in younger men) you may be saving your life or greatly enhanceing your quality of life later on by controling these conditions. Be honest about what you drink and any drugs you might use recreationally includeing "energy" drinks and highly caffinated beverages. He is not the cops but lying, or leaving out important information is not going to get you a good result.

A healthy 30 something generally should not need Viagra or risk it's side effects for "extream sexual performance".

Best of Health!

Well you're not a teenager anymore. It's all down hill for you now. That's the problem for boys, you hit your pique too early.I kid but truth is, you won't be the same love machine jackrabbit you were when you were younger.

What you describe is pretty normal. When you get older, it's not so easy for men to do marathon sex.

The great thing about being a woman is we hit our pique later in life. That's why the older guys can't handle us.

BTW, be careful with viagra, I hear the erection could last a very long time and be painful. Too much of a good thing I guess.

Really? I'm 36 and my junk works just as good as in my teens. Can't say the same for the rest of my body, but whatcha going to do? You can't have everything.

Are you in poor health? I would say 30 is very young for that type of problem! I'm no doctor, but I'm 39 & don't have those problems.

Great post and advice!!!