No, I don't think MsBrittany and I want the same thing.....lol

Well, it didn't start out that way. It started with her taking in a litter of kittens....and then another......and then another....

I just picture having to get up at 4:30 am with a newborn that just woke me up an hour before I got up. Plus, I can't tell you how many couples I know that stay together just for the kids! I just don't want that.

I have two children...they are teenagers...and I will say children are over rated

I would think that there are a lot of guys that don't want kids but wind up getting someone pregnant. For women, I think it's a biological urge.

I dont have or want any children- I LIKE kids....they just ARENT for me- (I LOVE my nieces and nephews) & I found the "perfect" guy for me who doesnt want or have children

what a long search its been! so dont give up- I'm sure she is somewhere out there for you

Obviously there are women who don't have or want children, just as there are men who don't have or want children. The trick is to find one with whom you are compatible, and hopefully you will have a good relationship. I don't have children, nor do I want any, but I'm not looking to date anyone online, so I'm unavailable.

Good luck in your search!

Thanks for the encouragement, ladies! :)

Not a thing wrong with a person that knows what they want. Heck at my age my kids are grown do you realize how hard it is to find someone my age that don't have small kids talking under 10? Tougher then I thought. Even though I would not turn my back on the idea but would rather meet someone that has kids already grown or darn near it.

yeah, i just wanted to say that you have every right not to want kids, at it's fantastic that you are old enough, and smart enough to know you dont want any.

much better than to have one that you didn't want one in the first place.

and it has been said already that it narrows down the search...but perhaps for the better. i am sure you will find who you are looking for!

i belonged to a forum years ago called one, none or never i think it was called, and i'm telling you there were tons of women that did not want to have anything to do with kids or as some called it breeding.

keep looking, it will happen!

Thanks! I'd appreciate a link to that forum if possible.

Ditto!!

Thanks! I'd appreciate a link to that forum if possible.


hmmm....lemme see if i can find it, it was like 5 years ago...give a lil time

no problem! Thanks!

here you go...
just keep in mind that discussions can and do get really heated in that forum..it's a touchy subject for some...and a passionate for other...you will find extremes of ppl absolutely hating kids to ppl that just simply dont want any....



dephi forums and nice array of different sections too...have a looksie!

Thank you VERY MUCH!

you are welcome, but where is the link?

It was there before. The moderators must have removed it. It's a good thing I got it in time. Thanks again!

What if your Mother hadn't wanted kids??


After 7 of my own.. I wouldn't have another for anything.

I don't think there is anything wrong with not wanting kids.

lol. I simply wouldn't know! :)

Finding someone without kids is tough, even at my age.. most women have kids at home.
some moments are just not possible with kids running around the house.

I guess it would be worth giving them $20 and send them to a movie