what do girls look for in a guy on a date?

How do u tackle the situation if you are someone who is shy n are very much willing to open up...?

Whatever you do...dont pull your pnats up high around the waist and slick your hair back. This is considered to be "geek" like and doesnt go over well with the women folk.

Also...a little alcohol helps with the shyness, lol.

Don't "try" to be anything you're not.

Go out and talk to as many women as you can. Tell them you are shy and trying to get over it. There is no shame in this. Do not even think about getting a phone number or date at first.

The first few are hard. But, after you have 2 or 3 behind you it gets very easy. That's every time you go out by the way. You'll have to get warmed up.

I'd post a link to my blog for you, but it may be considered spaming. So, if you want to know more send me a mingle mail and I'll hook you up.

I personally look for someone who can communicate with me. Keep a conversation going, so that we both aren't sitting there in awkward silence. If that happens..the date didn't go well at all.

That's what GURLS are lookin for this................. on the other hand NOT sure what woman are lookin for

apparently they don't like geeks

(but don't they get upset when you say "no fat chicks"?)

Shy can work if done in moderation, practice makes perfect. As for opening up, save it for later. If you open up a lot, you will just scare them away.

Alcohol is very bad for my legs..it makes them spread..
so I don't don't drink

Ya & I will pull your HAIR!

Me too! But only if the guy is hot, if the guy is ugly no matter how much I drink, they're staying shut.

My point exsactly...ha ha.

Good one.

That's what you think?

hair pulling %$3*&@#

Damn those double standards.

If a girl is going out on a date with you, then chances are you have some qualities that she likes. Problem is, guys wanna show off. I mean, I can't help it that my dates usually check out my package. I wear tight jeans, so I want them looking there and wondering..."How large is Goof?", "Is that a sock in his crotch?", "Did he really just say that I have a nice rack? Crap. I just said something about his package".

Anyways, be yourself. Yeah. Don't try to show off the package. What were we talking about?

At least be able to hold a conversation. Now shyness isn't a bad thing. Over time that goes away.

Jerks! Jerks get dates all the time

I don't screw ugly guys, drunk or sober, it's not happening.

Wow! You really are shy! It took you two years to make your first post!

I'm working on getting that PKG!