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Topic: LOVE
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Tue 06/05/07 11:31 AM
I THINK I POSTED THIS BEFORE,BUT I'M NOT SURE.WELL ANYWAY CAN SOMEONE
OUT THERE TELL ME IS IT POSSIBLE TO FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE THAT
YOU'VE NEVER MET?

socallove12's photo
Tue 06/05/07 11:36 AM
hey i asked the same question and its true u can

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Tue 06/05/07 11:38 AM
I THINK SO TO.I THINK I HAVE.THANKS FOR THE RESPONSE.

NomadicAngel's photo
Tue 06/05/07 11:42 AM
Yes, i think you can fall in love with someone you have never met -- the
downside of that is when your talking on phone or chatting online
sometimes you tend to hear what you want to hear or are told things you
want to hear --- then upon meeting, after a day or so, there can be
inconsistencies in what was said or something that has come up that you
were not aware of --- so what happens you fall in love with the image in
your head --- its almost like reading a good book and then watching a
movie made form the book -- even if the movie is in detail their are
images you have perceived yourself and the movie can then be distorted..
So in my opinion yes you can fall in love with someone you have not met
--- its the meeting that counts.....

socallove12's photo
Tue 06/05/07 11:44 AM
ehhh sometimes i do hate love this guy said that he loves me but i go
and look at the comments he sent other women and i dont think he really
dose i think he's a player and it sucks to get your hopes up for someone

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Tue 06/05/07 11:46 AM
THANKS FOR THE INPUT ANGEL.

socallove12's photo
Tue 06/05/07 11:46 AM
yw

creativesoul's photo
Tue 06/05/07 11:47 AM
Oh my....I have seen this asked several times... been involved in
private discussions also...My answer is NO...not in the aspect of a
permanent partnership type bond...not online alone...I believe one can
find a "friend" type of love much easier online...there is much less at
stake...Enjoying another's person is a definite possibility, as there
are many here with whom I enjoy chatting and talking back and
forth...but truly falling in love?....nah....there is too much more that
goes into it, that is not completely had here... online.

I believe however that one can recognize the qualities that another
has...IF the communication is honest and open...not to mention
longterm...like at least several months...actual phone conversations can
expedite the person's true personality... however, one cannot completely
and truly know another without face to face interpersonal
communications...even then it can be months and months before different
circumstances provide the views needed to "know" someone...let alone
love them...in that way.

I do believe, however, that it can be a beginning...

This being said as my personal belief...IMO

socallove12's photo
Tue 06/05/07 11:47 AM
sorry wrong thing lol

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Tue 06/05/07 11:52 AM
WELL I GUESS WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT OPINIONS,

amandaj1247's photo
Tue 06/05/07 11:53 AM
i believe u can but it might take longer

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Tue 06/05/07 12:00 PM
I'M SURE IT PROBABLY WOULD.

Staynalone's photo
Tue 06/05/07 12:21 PM
MY OPINION ONLY

We never truely know another person unless that person allows us to. And
in order to allow someone to know all of you there must be a sense of
trust and respect and to have trust and respect there must be a strong
sense of faith in that person and unless you have spent time with that
someone, looked into thier eyes and really listened to them speak with
or without words then I would have to say NO you couldn't fall in love
with someone but you could only grow to love who you think they are.

amandaj1247's photo
Tue 06/05/07 12:22 PM
well put

Staynalone's photo
Tue 06/05/07 12:28 PM
Thank you Amanda
It's cuz I was there and he was right there in front of me.Even lived
with me and after 1 1/2 yrs started finding out who he really was and I
lost it. And it took me a very short time to get over it once I realized
that it wasn't him that I loved yet whoo I thought he was.

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Tue 06/05/07 12:31 PM
SORRY THINGS DIDN'T WORK OUT FOR YOU?

creativesoul's photo
Tue 06/05/07 12:32 PM
I agree Stayin.... I have also fallin for who I thought they were...in
person, that is...how much easier is it to fake in the cyber
world...adds a little reality to it for me.

Staynalone's photo
Tue 06/05/07 12:37 PM
Thank you GOODGUY

Creativesoul sorry about that I wouldn't want anyone to go through that
but I agree cyber is real easy for one to manipulate and it sucks to be
soo untrusting toward people but that personal space thing is now what I
rely on and I don't think I could ever give all of me again. Hence the
screen name.

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Tue 06/05/07 12:48 PM
YOU'RE WELCOME,BUT BEING ALONE AINT NO FUN AT ALL.

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 06/05/07 12:49 PM
Well guess that is differnt for each person myself NO I can get attached
to a person and begin to feel something for them but to be in-love I
have to see that person face to face to see if the connection is really
there or not. I have heard of some say they have and not doubting them
but for me NO.

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