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I THINK I POSTED THIS BEFORE,BUT I'M NOT SURE.WELL ANYWAY CAN SOMEONE
OUT THERE TELL ME IS IT POSSIBLE TO FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE THAT YOU'VE NEVER MET? |
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hey i asked the same question and its true u can
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I THINK SO TO.I THINK I HAVE.THANKS FOR THE RESPONSE.
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Yes, i think you can fall in love with someone you have never met -- the
downside of that is when your talking on phone or chatting online sometimes you tend to hear what you want to hear or are told things you want to hear --- then upon meeting, after a day or so, there can be inconsistencies in what was said or something that has come up that you were not aware of --- so what happens you fall in love with the image in your head --- its almost like reading a good book and then watching a movie made form the book -- even if the movie is in detail their are images you have perceived yourself and the movie can then be distorted.. So in my opinion yes you can fall in love with someone you have not met --- its the meeting that counts..... |
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ehhh sometimes i do hate love this guy said that he loves me but i go
and look at the comments he sent other women and i dont think he really dose i think he's a player and it sucks to get your hopes up for someone |
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THANKS FOR THE INPUT ANGEL.
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yw
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Oh my....I have seen this asked several times... been involved in
private discussions also...My answer is NO...not in the aspect of a permanent partnership type bond...not online alone...I believe one can find a "friend" type of love much easier online...there is much less at stake...Enjoying another's person is a definite possibility, as there are many here with whom I enjoy chatting and talking back and forth...but truly falling in love?....nah....there is too much more that goes into it, that is not completely had here... online. I believe however that one can recognize the qualities that another has...IF the communication is honest and open...not to mention longterm...like at least several months...actual phone conversations can expedite the person's true personality... however, one cannot completely and truly know another without face to face interpersonal communications...even then it can be months and months before different circumstances provide the views needed to "know" someone...let alone love them...in that way. I do believe, however, that it can be a beginning... This being said as my personal belief...IMO |
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sorry wrong thing lol
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WELL I GUESS WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT OPINIONS,
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i believe u can but it might take longer
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I'M SURE IT PROBABLY WOULD.
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MY OPINION ONLY
We never truely know another person unless that person allows us to. And in order to allow someone to know all of you there must be a sense of trust and respect and to have trust and respect there must be a strong sense of faith in that person and unless you have spent time with that someone, looked into thier eyes and really listened to them speak with or without words then I would have to say NO you couldn't fall in love with someone but you could only grow to love who you think they are. |
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well put
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Thank you Amanda
It's cuz I was there and he was right there in front of me.Even lived with me and after 1 1/2 yrs started finding out who he really was and I lost it. And it took me a very short time to get over it once I realized that it wasn't him that I loved yet whoo I thought he was. |
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SORRY THINGS DIDN'T WORK OUT FOR YOU?
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I agree Stayin.... I have also fallin for who I thought they were...in
person, that is...how much easier is it to fake in the cyber world...adds a little reality to it for me. |
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Thank you GOODGUY
Creativesoul sorry about that I wouldn't want anyone to go through that but I agree cyber is real easy for one to manipulate and it sucks to be soo untrusting toward people but that personal space thing is now what I rely on and I don't think I could ever give all of me again. Hence the screen name. |
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YOU'RE WELCOME,BUT BEING ALONE AINT NO FUN AT ALL.
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Well guess that is differnt for each person myself NO I can get attached
to a person and begin to feel something for them but to be in-love I have to see that person face to face to see if the connection is really there or not. I have heard of some say they have and not doubting them but for me NO. |
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