who you think is atrracted to you once you tell them it seems to feel different and some times strange Or am I the only one

You lose that "not knowing goose bump butterfly" feeling because now you know for sure.

awwww thats not fair and now its hard to even talk as buddies or even look at her

You can still talk to them...you just gotta get over the hump of knowing you like eachother and go from there.

Eh...It's all in your head.


It is like adrenaline. You get pumped when you are about to do something for the first time. Your body races, your pulse is off the charts. You have that rush. Excitement. But once you do it, the adrenaline leaves your body. It's done. Yeah, you may still get a rush out of it, but it isn't like that first time. When it was new to you. When you were unsure about how it would feel to do something to cause that rush.

When you first talk to someone, and you can sense some excitememnt, you feel that adrenaline coursing through your veins. There are unknows and you just love the rush you are getting. But then, you meet that person. Or you find out that he/she likes you. And sometimes, you just lose that rush.

I dunno. I might be off. But oh well. I tried.

Well thanks for trying but now I cant even look at her and I even act like I hate her when she comes near When really I am sooooo attracted to her AHHHHH

It's never bothered me; I feel better after I know they like me back.

Are you 12 or something??

I'm confused. If you like her and she likes you--what's the problem? Is she married or in another relationship? Otherwise--get to know each other better!!!

Where is the Drama in that?????

"Oh I met this really special person a few weeks ago, so I asked her out, she said she was interested in me too. We've gone out a few times now. We get along great and have a lot of fun together"

That is not what internet daters want to hear about.

We want suspense, on the edge of your seat thriller type stuff here...this is no B class group! We demand action in everything, no matter how miniscule!

geesh no she acted like she liked me but wheI told her that I liked her she said she had a girl and she stopped giving me the I want you looks

Oh, well that's a whole different story. Sounds like she was just playing games with you. Some people are really juvenile.

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Is SHE 12 or something??

..sometimes the thrill is in the chase...

Sounds like it.

If you have to tell them they likely aren't that into you. So, telling them makes them feel awkward. You get that vibe and start to feel uncomfortable too.