Topic: ladies, do u know the real deal when u see it
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Fri 11/20/09 09:28 PM
Then why do women get all dressed up before they go to the bar?

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:30 PM
Perhaps b/c we like to look our best before we go out of the house.. I also put on my makeup and make sure I look decent when I go to work, the store, lunch with friends... Does this mean I'm trying to find love in those places? It's so hard to believe that women take pride in looking good in general?

Updawg's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:30 PM

so what do men want when they go to bars??? Sorry but I go to bars and I'm not hardened, easy or even looking to meet the man of my dreams or even a hook up there.

I go to have fun and enjoy myself and I'm sure I can't possibly the only woman that is this way

Most men want what you know they want, plain and simple. Many women go for more than just "fun" and "dancing" too. I dont look in bars for a Lady or anyone, in fact if I go I dress way down to keep the ladies away. You will see me in cowboy boots, a ball cap...

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:31 PM


so what do men want when they go to bars??? Sorry but I go to bars and I'm not hardened, easy or even looking to meet the man of my dreams or even a hook up there.

I go to have fun and enjoy myself and I'm sure I can't possibly the only woman that is this way

Most men want what you know they want, plain and simple. Many women go for more than just "fun" and "dancing" too. I dont look in bars for a Lady or anyone, in fact if I go I dress way down to keep the ladies away. You will see me in cowboy boots, a ball cap...


I'd still nudge my gf and say look at that hottie.... :wink:

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Fri 11/20/09 09:34 PM
Ironic that a man would generalize about a woman looking for immediate gratification. The generalization is usally the other way around.
But, yes, I'm pretty darned good at knowing the real deal when I see. He's such a rara avis and usually already taken, leaving me to sift through the pond scum via the internet!! laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Mayhem_J's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:34 PM
I work at a bar 3 nights a week...and I can tell you for fact....that not every woman goes in there looking for love or anything more than to have some drinks and have a good time with their friends. And I find this to be even more true with women that or over the age of 35.


MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:35 PM

Then why do women get all dressed up before they go to the bar?


Really with this question? slaphead

Because I have pride in my appearance! :thumbsup: winking

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:35 PM

I work at a bar 3 nights a week...and I can tell you for fact....that not every woman goes in there looking for love or anything more than to have some drinks and have a good time with their friends. And I find this to be even more true with women that or over the age of 35.




:thumbsup:

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:36 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Fri 11/20/09 09:37 PM


so what do men want when they go to bars??? Sorry but I go to bars and I'm not hardened, easy or even looking to meet the man of my dreams or even a hook up there.

I go to have fun and enjoy myself and I'm sure I can't possibly the only woman that is this way

Most men want what you know they want, plain and simple. Many women go for more than just "fun" and "dancing" too. I dont look in bars for a Lady or anyone, in fact if I go I dress way down to keep the ladies away. You will see me in cowboy boots, a ball cap...


Cowboy boots and a ball cap? You seriously wouldn't wear a hat to a club?

Most clubs don't allow hats, athletic shoes or jeans.

Updawg's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:38 PM



so what do men want when they go to bars??? Sorry but I go to bars and I'm not hardened, easy or even looking to meet the man of my dreams or even a hook up there.

I go to have fun and enjoy myself and I'm sure I can't possibly the only woman that is this way

Most men want what you know they want, plain and simple. Many women go for more than just "fun" and "dancing" too. I dont look in bars for a Lady or anyone, in fact if I go I dress way down to keep the ladies away. You will see me in cowboy boots, a ball cap...


I'd still nudge my gf and say look at that hottie.... :wink:

nudge all you want, i like nudges.

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:38 PM



so what do men want when they go to bars??? Sorry but I go to bars and I'm not hardened, easy or even looking to meet the man of my dreams or even a hook up there.

I go to have fun and enjoy myself and I'm sure I can't possibly the only woman that is this way

Most men want what you know they want, plain and simple. Many women go for more than just "fun" and "dancing" too. I dont look in bars for a Lady or anyone, in fact if I go I dress way down to keep the ladies away. You will see me in cowboy boots, a ball cap...


I'd still nudge my gf and say look at that hottie.... :wink:


Oh yeaaa! We are still on eye candy alert! pitchfork

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:38 PM

I work at a bar 3 nights a week...and I can tell you for fact....that not every woman goes in there looking for love or anything more than to have some drinks and have a good time with their friends. And I find this to be even more true with women that or over the age of 35.




Have I told you that I love you today? flowerforyou

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:39 PM




so what do men want when they go to bars??? Sorry but I go to bars and I'm not hardened, easy or even looking to meet the man of my dreams or even a hook up there.

I go to have fun and enjoy myself and I'm sure I can't possibly the only woman that is this way

Most men want what you know they want, plain and simple. Many women go for more than just "fun" and "dancing" too. I dont look in bars for a Lady or anyone, in fact if I go I dress way down to keep the ladies away. You will see me in cowboy boots, a ball cap...


I'd still nudge my gf and say look at that hottie.... :wink:

nudge all you want, i like nudges.


You know I'd nudge ya any time.... winking

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:39 PM


so what do men want when they go to bars??? Sorry but I go to bars and I'm not hardened, easy or even looking to meet the man of my dreams or even a hook up there.

I go to have fun and enjoy myself and I'm sure I can't possibly the only woman that is this way

Most men want what you know they want, plain and simple. Many women go for more than just "fun" and "dancing" too. I dont look in bars for a Lady or anyone, in fact if I go I dress way down to keep the ladies away. You will see me in cowboy boots, a ball cap...


I know there are some women that go there looking for a relationship, hook up or whatever. But not all women do. I don't always get dressed up myself. I prefer to be comfortable. And I go to one bar that everyone knows me at.

My point is that not all women go for reasons. some go to just hang out.

Mayhem_J's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:39 PM



so what do men want when they go to bars??? Sorry but I go to bars and I'm not hardened, easy or even looking to meet the man of my dreams or even a hook up there.

I go to have fun and enjoy myself and I'm sure I can't possibly the only woman that is this way

Most men want what you know they want, plain and simple. Many women go for more than just "fun" and "dancing" too. I dont look in bars for a Lady or anyone, in fact if I go I dress way down to keep the ladies away. You will see me in cowboy boots, a ball cap...


Cowboy boots and a ball cap? You seriously wouldn't wear a hat to a club?

Most clubs don't allow hats, athletic shoes or jeans.


Dang...you must go to some high class clubs. Lol. The ones around me all allow those things for the most part.

Updawg's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:40 PM



so what do men want when they go to bars??? Sorry but I go to bars and I'm not hardened, easy or even looking to meet the man of my dreams or even a hook up there.

I go to have fun and enjoy myself and I'm sure I can't possibly the only woman that is this way

Most men want what you know they want, plain and simple. Many women go for more than just "fun" and "dancing" too. I dont look in bars for a Lady or anyone, in fact if I go I dress way down to keep the ladies away. You will see me in cowboy boots, a ball cap...


Cowboy boots and a ball cap? You seriously wouldn't wear a hat to a club?

Most clubs don't allow hats, athletic shoes or jeans.

I dont go clubbing, I go to a bar play pool, watch game, good eats and drinks, listen to band....You aint from Oklahoma are you...hats are requiredlaugh laugh laugh

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:40 PM




so what do men want when they go to bars??? Sorry but I go to bars and I'm not hardened, easy or even looking to meet the man of my dreams or even a hook up there.

I go to have fun and enjoy myself and I'm sure I can't possibly the only woman that is this way

Most men want what you know they want, plain and simple. Many women go for more than just "fun" and "dancing" too. I dont look in bars for a Lady or anyone, in fact if I go I dress way down to keep the ladies away. You will see me in cowboy boots, a ball cap...


Cowboy boots and a ball cap? You seriously wouldn't wear a hat to a club?

Most clubs don't allow hats, athletic shoes or jeans.

I dont go clubbing, I go to a bar play pool, watch game, good eats and drinks, listen to band....You aint from Oklahoma are you...hats are requiredlaugh laugh laugh



No ... :angel:

My mom was born in Shawnee though. winking

Updawg's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:40 PM



so what do men want when they go to bars??? Sorry but I go to bars and I'm not hardened, easy or even looking to meet the man of my dreams or even a hook up there.

I go to have fun and enjoy myself and I'm sure I can't possibly the only woman that is this way

Most men want what you know they want, plain and simple. Many women go for more than just "fun" and "dancing" too. I dont look in bars for a Lady or anyone, in fact if I go I dress way down to keep the ladies away. You will see me in cowboy boots, a ball cap...


Cowboy boots and a ball cap? You seriously wouldn't wear a hat to a club?

Most clubs don't allow hats, athletic shoes or jeans.

I dont go clubbing, I go to a bar play pool, watch game, good eats and drinks, listen to band....You aint from Oklahoma are you...hats are requiredlaugh laugh laugh

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:41 PM




so what do men want when they go to bars??? Sorry but I go to bars and I'm not hardened, easy or even looking to meet the man of my dreams or even a hook up there.

I go to have fun and enjoy myself and I'm sure I can't possibly the only woman that is this way

Most men want what you know they want, plain and simple. Many women go for more than just "fun" and "dancing" too. I dont look in bars for a Lady or anyone, in fact if I go I dress way down to keep the ladies away. You will see me in cowboy boots, a ball cap...


I'd still nudge my gf and say look at that hottie.... :wink:


Oh yeaaa! We are still on eye candy alert! pitchfork



And he's very special eye candy...

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 11/20/09 09:42 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Fri 11/20/09 09:45 PM




so what do men want when they go to bars??? Sorry but I go to bars and I'm not hardened, easy or even looking to meet the man of my dreams or even a hook up there.

I go to have fun and enjoy myself and I'm sure I can't possibly the only woman that is this way

Most men want what you know they want, plain and simple. Many women go for more than just "fun" and "dancing" too. I dont look in bars for a Lady or anyone, in fact if I go I dress way down to keep the ladies away. You will see me in cowboy boots, a ball cap...


Cowboy boots and a ball cap? You seriously wouldn't wear a hat to a club?

Most clubs don't allow hats, athletic shoes or jeans.


Dang...you must go to some high class clubs. Lol. The ones around me all allow those things for the most part.


Pretty much, yeah. My group of friends prefer the VIP areas in the clubs so we aren't slammed against every other club goober! laugh

Also, certain logos are not allowed like Ecko or Baby Phat -- hip hop wear mostly.