You obviously have way too much energy to qualify as a card-carrying "nice guy"....

I guess all the ladies are busy rubbing one out.

Im nice till provoked.....

Not caring about what others think, has it's draw backs but I see no other way to live.

If you go through life always worried if someone likes you, you will not ever live for yourself. Disclaimer: This is not saying that doing kind and considerate things for others with no expectations in return is not the greatest thing in the world either.

I see most "nice guys" as passive aggressive which is a whole mess to deal with anyway.

Now on the flip side of that a narcissistic jerk is no picnic and the woman needs to have a strong disposition so she can put him back in his place when needed. They get way out of control with all their "constructive critism" that really isn't, it is them being an ******* and expecting you to just take it.

I would kinda like to meet someone in the middle somewhere. With enough balls to do what he needs to do in life to obtain his dreams but not so ballsy that he cannot be tender and loving with no fear.

Okay my one cent about it.

DAMN YOU Dragoness!!!!

You see right through me!!!!!

LOL

Myspace is on a downward spiral, have you seen their new homepage? It's beyond awful.

Haven't been there in ages. Once I discovered there was no one worth stalking there, what was the point?

I'm tired of hearing that stuff, only to find out they're nothing like they say they are and are far, far from a nice guy.

Exactly. "Law of Opposites." A really nice guy won't have to drone on and on about what a nice guy he is.

I sometimes wonder, when these people get into their elaborate self-assessments, just who it is they're trying to convince.

I have to agree with sweet on this. When most of us women hear I am " REALLY A NICE GUY" the first thing we hear is oh great here we go again. If a person was really a nice Guy/Girl why would they have to say so? This should be apparent.
I have met some really "Nice Guys" not one of them had to tell me they were "Nice Guys".

I knew a guy who always told me the kind of guy he was. He always said he was the kind of guy that would do the right thing no matter what. Whether it was the easy thing or not. He turned out to be nothing like that.

So, it isn't all nice guys. Just guys that give you these lines, yet turn out to be nothing like what they say.

I'm just there to stalk the celebs,

Sweet this makes my point exactly.. I dont' need a person to tell me that they are a "Nice Guy", "Honorable", or for that matter any of the great qualities that most of us are looking for it will show glaringly if not right off the bat with in a few emails or dates.

I guess I must be getting jaded, in my old age. I dont' want a guy to tell me how great he is I want to find that out all by myself. I have a saying I live by "time will tell me what I want to know".

Show me what kind of man you are, words are almost worthless. Unless you write and get paid for it...lol

Yep, exactly. If the actions don't match the words, the words don't mean a thing.

Whenever someone lists what a nice guy they are I lump it in the same category as guys stating what good Christians they are. If I here that comment it sends up a red flag immediately. Let's not even get me started on "good Christian" married men that hit on me.

I put on my profile that I can be feisty when provoked and may be blunt at times but honest. I require someone that is my match. Not some yes honey guy that will go along with whatever I say. That doesn't mean that they are a**holes. It just means that they have their own opinions and viewpoints and we don't have to agree on everything.

I always watch actions. Some people can be really good at words and it can hook us in. Actions speak volumes about the type of person you are. Pay attention to actions and not words. So I want a man that stands up for his convictions, whatever they may be. He also needs to respect that I stand up for mine. That to me, is hot, and something to be attracted to.

No, his name is Phil....