Topic: general poll
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Sat 11/07/09 04:33 PM
He should have decided who to commit to before he used the word "love." NEXT!

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Sat 11/07/09 04:33 PM
Edited by ncfor1 on Sat 11/07/09 04:37 PM
thanks for all the advice so far. and thanks for the compliment outkastboss . this makes me feel so much better and not like it's just me who thinks this is wrong..

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Sat 11/07/09 04:44 PM
Definitely not acceptable.

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Sat 11/07/09 05:05 PM

ok people give me your opinion about this situation... man says he loves you sleeps with you but won't commit. yet he meets women on a few sites and "hangs" out at their houses and gets calls like every day or at least every other day..and says they are just friends. would this be acceptable to you women out there?? or would it make you a little crazy???


Cut his wee wee off and then see how much time he spends at these other chicks' homes.

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Sun 11/08/09 10:15 AM


ok people give me your opinion about this situation... man says he loves you sleeps with you but won't commit. yet he meets women on a few sites and "hangs" out at their houses and gets calls like every day or at least every other day..and says they are just friends. would this be acceptable to you women out there?? or would it make you a little crazy???


Cut his wee wee off and then see how much time he spends at these other chicks' homes.

NOOOOOOOO!!!!noway
Seems just a touch excessive

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Sun 11/08/09 10:37 AM

I think this come down to how you feel about this man. Maybe he is seeing other women and maybe he is telling you the truth. If he is do you feel he brings enough value into your life to allow it? If you "kick him to the curb" do you think you can attract a better man?

He hasn't said he'd see you exclusively. Perhaps he is trying to figure out which one of these women he is willing to commit to.

Or maybe you should just call cheaters and see if you can get on TV.


How hard could it be for her to "attract a better man"? This guy has told her he loves her, yet is still meeting with other women from dating sites. That's not sounding like love to me. I think I would rather be single than pondering on the amount of value he brings into my life. You don't play around with the L word unless you are a player, IMO.

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Sun 11/08/09 10:53 AM

I think this come down to how you feel about this man. Maybe he is seeing other women and maybe he is telling you the truth. If he is do you feel he brings enough value into your life to allow it? If you "kick him to the curb" do you think you can attract a better man?

He hasn't said he'd see you exclusively. Perhaps he is trying to figure out which one of these women he is willing to commit to.

Or maybe you should just call cheaters and see if you can get on TV.



laugh laugh laugh laugh you don't use the "L" word when dating multiple people and attracting better men is not so hard to do... You make it sound like he's great and she's lucky to deal with his BS... I don't think so...

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Sun 11/08/09 10:53 AM
He also thinks that I am being totally outrageous about the whole thing.."they are just friends" he says...

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Sun 11/08/09 10:55 AM
yeah and I'm sure if you did the same thing he'd be fine with it.. hey light bulb.. why don't you... if nothing else you'll get to know other people whilst proving him a hypocrite...

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Sun 11/08/09 10:57 AM

More than a little crazy, that's just nuts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I would drop him so fast his head would come off....and I don't mean the one on his shoulders...lol
L O L

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Sun 11/08/09 10:58 AM
Dwight Eisenhower? George Patton? Ulysses S. Grant? Oh, hell...not REALLY a General Poll!
laugh BTW, Drop this guy like a three-foot putt!

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Sun 11/08/09 11:00 AM
A yet "another" man saying it's BS... This is where you see the "quality" of people...

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Sun 11/08/09 11:08 AM
drinker

Don't be afraid to say...No that's not acceptable to me. You will end up in the same place anyway. Quicker to say no and be done with it.

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Sun 11/08/09 11:25 AM

ok people give me your opinion about this situation... man says he loves you sleeps with you but won't commit. yet he meets women on a few sites and "hangs" out at their houses and gets calls like every day or at least every other day..and says they are just friends. would this be acceptable to you women out there?? or would it make you a little crazy???


is there something wrong with you? it's just that you are way to pretty to stay with a loser.


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Sun 11/08/09 11:27 AM

ok people give me your opinion about this situation... man says he loves you sleeps with you but won't commit. yet he meets women on a few sites and "hangs" out at their houses and gets calls like every day or at least every other day..and says they are just friends. would this be acceptable to you women out there?? or would it make you a little crazy???


No, I would tell him bye bye.

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Sun 11/08/09 11:34 AM

ok people give me your opinion about this situation... man says he loves you sleeps with you but won't commit. yet he meets women on a few sites and "hangs" out at their houses and gets calls like every day or at least every other day..and says they are just friends. would this be acceptable to you women out there?? or would it make you a little crazy???
flowerforyou Stay with him.flowerforyou Maybe he is just a friendly guy.flowerforyou The other women will back off after they see you are with himflowerforyou

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Sun 11/08/09 02:04 PM


ok people give me your opinion about this situation... man says he loves you sleeps with you but won't commit. yet he meets women on a few sites and "hangs" out at their houses and gets calls like every day or at least every other day..and says they are just friends. would this be acceptable to you women out there?? or would it make you a little crazy???
flowerforyou Stay with him.flowerforyou Maybe he is just a friendly guy.flowerforyou The other women will back off after they see you are with himflowerforyou


I don't know about that some of them do know about me still doesn't stop them.. thanks though

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Wed 11/11/09 08:39 PM




laugh laugh laugh laugh you don't use the "L" word when dating multiple people and attracting better men is not so hard to do... You make it sound like he's great and she's lucky to deal with his BS... I don't think so...


We don't know anything about this guy. Is it possible to love one person and still want to have sex with others? Of course it is. If this is a man of very high value to her she may choose to wait and see if he comes around. The last thing you want to do is give him an ultimatum.

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Wed 11/11/09 08:41 PM





laugh laugh laugh laugh you don't use the "L" word when dating multiple people and attracting better men is not so hard to do... You make it sound like he's great and she's lucky to deal with his BS... I don't think so...


We don't know anything about this guy. Is it possible to love one person and still want to have sex with others? Of course it is. If this is a man of very high value to her she may choose to wait and see if he comes around. The last thing you want to do is give him an ultimatum.



You have a good point... Although, I do what works for me so if I needed to give an ultimatum I would...

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Wed 11/11/09 08:42 PM


ok people give me your opinion about this situation... man says he loves you sleeps with you but won't commit. yet he meets women on a few sites and "hangs" out at their houses and gets calls like every day or at least every other day..and says they are just friends. would this be acceptable to you women out there?? or would it make you a little crazy???
flowerforyou Stay with him.flowerforyou Maybe he is just a friendly guy.flowerforyou The other women will back off after they see you are with himflowerforyou


Pfft, women are vicious when it comes to men, they don't care if he's with someone, they don't even care if he's married. Like my cousin said, they'll **** your man with you in the next room if you're not careful.grumble