I am not one to share terribly personal things on here...this one
has me stumped, and just curious to hear what some of you think.

I had to leave town last weekend, not go to far, about 6 hours way.
So I'm thinking there is a friend on here who lives there, and I'll
call and see if we can meet up...casual meeting no big mushy thing.
We have been friendly, no hot emails, long conversations, nothing
like that. So we talk and arrange to meet up when I get to town..got
there right at the time I thought I would. I call both his numbers,
and leave messages and a cell number to call back....

A few hours later I need to head home and never heard from him, still
haven't heard what happened...why he never called, if something
happened. I have only ever met one from here and we are friends.
I thought it would be kinda cool to actually meet mingle people
like so many have done. Ya know, new friends if nothing else...

Not understanding what happened or why...weird I think.

Dude had something to hide

That's odd. Maybe he changed his mind?

Have to agree with Mirror. Don't know the circumstances...but it sounds like he wasn't being honest with you...especially the no call back since then. I am so sorry.

maybe some thing happened to him!? some one needs to assemble a rescue team.

Well, thanks for the sorry..but it wasn't like a hot hookup..just been friends on here. I wasn't like dying to meet him ya know..just meet a new friend and see what happened...

changed his mind for some reason, just been curious as to what that reason is or was...

im suprised you still get suprised at peoples uncontrolable tendancy to let others down.

he got so nervous, he passed out for a day, then was too embaressed to contact you

if you left messages, and its been a few days. then he has no excuse except being dead. even then, i wouldnt forgive him

I don't get surprised at people letting others down..it just wasn't set up as a hot date. Just a meeting...what made him so nervous..silly men!

I totally agree....

So if one is saying how nice it would be to meet and the opportunity to meet comes along...and they dip out, just pretty much full of chit right..??

totally

Pretty much.

ok...I thought the idea was to meet people..make new friends, get boinked now and then..maybe even find the guy I wanna be with..

hummmmm silly me!

It could have been anything. He could have been lying about some aspect of his appearence,or his life. Maybe he is married. Maybe he just chickened out Who knows

Darling, consider yourself lucky:
the frustration you experienced is much easier taken than a Disappointment! (obviously, he was embarrassed to appear a total opposite to what he's presented himself to you as)!

I agree with this.

Ladylid, sorry...I guess it's gonna happen...listen to the monkey in the mirror...Who knows why? (besides him?) Just be willing to treat the next new guy like the next new guy...not like this idiot's brother! I'd meet with any number of people I've talked with in the forums...some good people. Also, of course, some idiots. Kinda like life!

Another loser self selected to miss out on meeting you face to face.
Weeded out pretty quickly.




NEXT!!!

He was probably nervous and got cold feet...the guy perhaps doesn't want to ruin what he currently has with you..albeit very little from a normal perspective, but to him, probably a lot..maybe he's nothing as he describes in looks/personality....from other peoples postings, 4/5 meetups, women say guys look like fat bastard from austin powers..or even worse..

roko

Didn't want ya to meet the real him?

Hiding something?

Have ya talked to him since?

Hooray for the Internet!!!