Topic: Love them or leave them?
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Mon 11/02/09 06:55 PM
You are dateing someone and the relationship seems to be going really well then a close family member of theirs tells you any way possible they are going to end it for you. Would coninue to love them or leave them.

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Mon 11/02/09 06:57 PM
smokin I would have them dealt with & I would continue on dating hersmokin

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Mon 11/02/09 07:05 PM

You are dateing someone and the relationship seems to be going really well then a close family member of theirs tells you any way possible they are going to end it for you. Would coninue to love them or leave them.
:smile: I would ignore them:smile:

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 11/02/09 07:22 PM

smokin I would have them dealt with & I would continue on dating hersmokin


How would you deal with them?

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 11/02/09 07:28 PM


smokin I would have them dealt with & I would continue on dating hersmokin


How would you deal with them?




I will not incriminate myselflaugh

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Mon 11/02/09 07:35 PM
I would just wait to hear it from them.straight from the horses mouth is always better,then second hand.drinker

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Mon 11/02/09 07:36 PM



smokin I would have them dealt with & I would continue on dating hersmokin


How would you deal with them?




I will not incriminate myselflaugh

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Mon 11/02/09 07:45 PM




smokin I would have them dealt with & I would continue on dating hersmokin


How would you deal with them?




I will not incriminate myselflaugh

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Mon 11/02/09 08:10 PM

You are dateing someone and the relationship seems to be going really well then a close family member of theirs tells you any way possible they are going to end it for you. Would coninue to love them or leave them.


I would get said family member in the same room as my boyfriend, and confront that person with what he or she said to me about their “plan” for our relationship.

I don't believe in doing anything behind someone's back and to fully allow each person the truth -- by avoiding he said/she said -- they need to hear it from each other and at the same time.

I hate drama. If my boyfriend played into the family mind games, I would more than likely leave. I’d give him a chance first though but only one chance to decide his priorities.

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Mon 11/02/09 08:16 PM


You are dateing someone and the relationship seems to be going really well then a close family member of theirs tells you any way possible they are going to end it for you. Would coninue to love them or leave them.


I would get said family member in the same room as my boyfriend, and confront that person with what he or she said to me about their “plan” for our relationship.

I don't believe in doing anything behind someone's back and to fully allow each person the truth -- by avoiding he said/she said -- they need to hear it from each other and at the same time.

I hate drama. If my boyfriend played into the family mind games, I would more than likely leave. I’d give him a chance first though but only one chance to decide his priorities.

Ditto........good advice.....we think alike....lol

DANG,,,WE even look alike, well,,,I'm a bit bigger chested.....





just kidding,,,lol
BUT that was freakin funny!!!!!!:banana: laugh rofl rofl laugh

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Mon 11/02/09 08:18 PM


You are dateing someone and the relationship seems to be going really well then a close family member of theirs tells you any way possible they are going to end it for you. Would coninue to love them or leave them.


I would get said family member in the same room as my boyfriend, and confront that person with what he or she said to me about their “plan” for our relationship.

I don't believe in doing anything behind someone's back and to fully allow each person the truth -- by avoiding he said/she said -- they need to hear it from each other and at the same time.

I hate drama. If my boyfriend played into the family mind games, I would more than likely leave. I’d give him a chance first though but only one chance to decide his priorities.



drinker

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Mon 11/02/09 08:20 PM
That's why it's best to date people who aren't all caught up with their family; I had drama like that years ago with a guy. He chose his cousin over me....loser.

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Mon 11/02/09 09:12 PM
I would find out why the family has a problem with him and I would follow my heart. Families are not always right.

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Mon 11/02/09 09:35 PM
its your won reation ship not theirs/ yepp family is not always right.....why care what others think if you feel its right for you....flowerforyou

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Mon 11/02/09 09:36 PM
I'd stick it out with him..and hope he loves me enough and has the balls to tell the haters to mind their own business. If he can't man up, I'm gone. I need to know he has my back...as I would his.

artman48's photo
Mon 11/02/09 09:36 PM

smokin I would have them dealt with & I would continue on dating hersmokin



yep!

Gator76's photo
Mon 11/02/09 09:41 PM

You are dateing someone and the relationship seems to be going really well then a close family member of theirs tells you any way possible they are going to end it for you. Would coninue to love them or leave them.


Hey, you talkin' to me. I got a guy in Philly, another in Detroit. Hey bada bing bada boom...accidents happen! laugh
Seriously, get it out in the open...all in the room together...no nonsense.

Then, plan B...are rhe boys in Philly and Detroit! Sorry, couldn't resist!laugh

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 11/02/09 09:58 PM
I think the idea of getting everyone in the same room is a good idea but generally these kind of people will deny to the death that they ever say stuff behind peoples back. Most are smart enough not to do it where they can be documented.

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Mon 11/02/09 10:11 PM

I think the idea of getting everyone in the same room is a good idea but generally these kind of people will deny to the death that they ever say stuff behind peoples back. Most are smart enough not to do it where they can be documented.
I respect ALL,,,but if a person in their family tries to disrespect her or me,,and THAT includes my family and her...
THEY,,,or THAT PERSON,,,can kiss my or and her asss...
WE would move on,,,THAT PERSON,,,could do,say,or,act however they want...we wouldn't be a part(family) to them..
Life is to short to TRY and make another LIKE YOU...move on and don't think twice about them..
I could never THINK I found LOVE, if I THOUGHT, any family member fron either side could come between us..
Short of parents....THATS a very fine line of care,wink.
But, even there,,respect needs to be given from and to both sides.
And if it isn't,,then it would be up to how the both of you act on
to what needs to be done between you to make your lives and there's livible,wink