Yep, they like to join with a bang, as it were.

I agree with both of you...

good question. I think it is because that we think what other's say does'nt really apply to us

To get some? how should I know why you're here?

yur here cause i feel sexy around you.!!

OMG give me a beer. I think I just talked to the dumbest guy on this site

If it was me, I apologize. I say funny things when I'm really tired.

its like this..people carry bagig...maybe its from previse relationships..and maybe its from childhood..who knows.....what i do know is....that it takes a strong person to burn that away....

I think alot of people that put down the opposite sex...are venting yes..maybe they could find a better way to do this..but i do not think that all that do these things mark all men/women.......as such that there complaining of..

your here..because its fun....its easy....its free..and you have friends that you like to talk to and parsoul free whill with out getting kicked out of course to do what ever and say whatever you like.....

even if some threads and people..can be crewl..

You know, have only been here a few weeks yet have noticed that also. so MUCH drama! Kinda sad tho, I can't fathom where their heads are at but it is very ego centric- and obviously it's understandable why they cry foul at the top of their words. Methinks the louder they protest, the more it points out their problems. You seem to be intelligent from your writings...remember nothing alot of what they say is about you, and be super grateful for it!!!!

If I wanted to " get some "..I could do that in a whole lot easier/better places than this.

The question was more rhetorical than literal.

Oh I know that the crap they spout doesn't ( in most cases, although I do admit to being ' guilty as charged ' on occasion ) apply to me.

But, when someone sees something day after day ( and it's not always just the newbies who post things such as I am referring to ) one starts to wonder, if the opinion of the opposite sex in general is that low, and the ( in my case ) woman is going in with the attitude that " men are pigs " or some such bullshyte, what makes them think that I ( or just about any other guy with any sense ) would want ANY part of that?? We men are behind the 8 ball before the rack is even broken up.

By the way...I appreciate the compliment. :-)

Yep. For some odd reason, I have the innate ability to make the guys around me look better. LMAO

LOL

It is a sorry state that some people get into the mindset of generalizing about everyone being the same. I have acquaintences who do it behind their husbands backs. I bet if they knew (husbands) the marriage would really twist. And single friends also. I have brothers and know that men and women are people first, then the differences kick in. What can you say- yet we all do it about the govt, the (any) president, the car manufacturers. It seems like people always look for the bad to whine about something instead of taking a good look at themselves and walk their own talk. I go and read profiles when seeing something like that and just kinda sigh...what was I expecting? Then again, some profiles you don't need to look up

"if you waste your time judging someon you cant really love them"

I always wonder the same thing...seems kind of pointless to try and get with someone you don't even like in the first place based off the few off tries you had at dating (which I might add, could of very well been your fault in the long-run). But no, they still want to date them.

Do what I did and quit bothering, now I just attract the few instead of the majority...much easier to make intelligent decisions with only a few possibles.

Exactly!



As was previously established...I am just a glutton for punishment...lol

Im hoping to meet Robin Thickes clone,, although I know he isnt likely to be here,,,,

But the people I meet along the way are pretty cool too.