" A whole bunch of phonies trying to get laid "???

Well...if that's the case, then, pray tell, exactly what are YOU doing here.

Oh wait. I get it. You are one of the phonies as well.

Good job letting the women know you are a fake.

Well done.

they seem to want to come on here and post for some reason

You know, I remember when I went this phase. Does it make sense, no. Is it fair, no. But the sooner you get over it, relax, and stop trying so hard, the sooner love will find you.

Peace and Love, dude!

I know what I'M doing here. I'm hanging out because I'm bored. I gave up on trying to find a date here a long time ago.

I am going to stick up for the MIngle guys here. Yes there may be some phonies here but there are also some very intelligent, sincere and interesting men here.

But they never post in the forums.

They are too smart to. :P

buy a biker jacket + break somthing = BADBOY!

*pfft* Way to generalize!

All women are shallow and all men cheat! Did I cover it?

Win.

but melody you forgot men cheat on their women with women so really how shallow can they be

It's shallow if they don't invite their partner to watch or join! Come on now, I thought you knew this answer!

wow i am totally not what i was in the past...so uh wanna set an example for the clueless

Ok...honestly...

And I mean...brutal honesty...

Men (and women) typically get put into a few categories before they even get out of high school.

Jocks. Nice guys. Geeks. Bad boys. (etc)

Most people (women included) hold onto these titles because it's what defines them during the "growing up" phase of life. It takes a lot of soul searching to get out of the rut of being told who you are for a good part of your life.

Men who are told that they are "nice guys" are the guys who spent most of their puberty years being the friend to most of the pretty girls who were being hit on by douchebags. These same guys were being indoctorinated that it's not ok to tell a girl like it is, they were taught that it's not ok to tell a girl she's being a moron for sticking with the guy who treats her like ****.

Just like we teach girls that they'r meant to be looking for their Prince Charming because no princess has ever made it on her own, we're teaching the "nice guys" that they have to let a woman walk all over them.

Guys...listen up....we don't want to walk all over you. Grow a back bone. Grab yourself by the sac and remember that even though the feminist movement won us the right to vote, buy property, and burn our expensive Victoria Secret bras...that it doesn't mean that you can't take a little control.

I'm not saying that you need to start treating every woman like crap. Instead don't lay it all out there and be over the top nice. Women enjoy the thrill of the chase as much as men do.

So...in all reality...most men who complain that they're the "nice guy" who never gets a date...are still living in their parents house, have a crappy job, play video games way too much, and let women walk allllll over them. "The Nice Guy" excuse is getting old...it's all about putting yourself out there and actually engaging a woman in intelligent conversation instead of starting at her chest and thinking about what she might look like naked wearing only your official Darth Vadar helmet. (Woops...that's what I do...hahahha)

Seriously...nice guys do finish last...but it's a crutch. Stop leaning on a lame excuse.

wow where is all these intelligent women coming from....i'm horny

Spoken like a real woman,take note sissy boys

Hahahah...Thanks guys!

I have a good friend who uses the 'nice guy' crap with me all the time...and I told him one day that he can't get a girl because women just assume that he's being "nice" because he's not interested in them in a romantic sort of way. Duh.

He called me a b*tch and then one day he realized what I was talking about.

It's funny cuz it's TRUE!