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The way I look at it is this: If I have a crush on someone, I will wait to post anything until the person is AWARE I have a crush. Not so much that I am embarrassed, but I don't want to embarrass the crushee!
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The way I look at it is this: If I have a crush on someone, I will wait to post anything until the person is AWARE I have a crush. Not so much that I am embarrassed, but I don't want to embarrass the crushee! So....when do I expect that email confirming your crush on me?  
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The way I look at it is this: If I have a crush on someone, I will wait to post anything until the person is AWARE I have a crush. Not so much that I am embarrassed, but I don't want to embarrass the crushee! So....when do I expect that email confirming your crush on me?
You mean you didn't get it? hmmm
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I'm the one who said it would be embarrassing to admit such a thing to someone and then find out they didn't feel the same way. I stand by that statement. I wasn't aware that a person's ability to become embarrassed lessened or disappeared over time, once they became an adult, I'd be very interested to know how some of you reached this point. If there's a pill or something, yeah I want it. I've told men I had "crushes" on them in the past. I've told men I loved them in the past. Each time I was rejected it was embarrassing and it hurt. I don't like to be embarrassed and I really don't like to hurt. So if keeping my feelings bottled up inside prevents me from experiencing any of those emotions by my own fault (because duh, I know you can't prevent hurt or embarrassment all the time, but you don't have to be the cause of it) then by all means, I will keep my mouth shut, I will keep my feelings to myself, and I don't mind missing out on "the one" because I didn't take a chance. My pride/ego/whatever is more important than the possibility of "love/like." I admire those of you who are able to "put yourselves out there" perhaps it does make you a stronger person. I'm content not needing to define myself that way. Carry on with your disparaging comments about those who feel the same as I do. 
(((Calleigh))) what you say makes perfect sense and there's nothing wrong with it.. I don't put myself out there.. Ego is part of it, protection is part of it and well I've found there is always something that ends the crush or love at some point so rather than play the record over and over again, I choose to stand back and chill.. Being with someone does't complete me so I can wait and if someone right for me comes along it will happen or not and I'm cool with that too... |
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Good post!
Anyone having a crush on me, email me!!! (Why do I hear crickets chirping?????..... )
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The way I look at it is this: If I have a crush on someone, I will wait to post anything until the person is AWARE I have a crush. Not so much that I am embarrassed, but I don't want to embarrass the crushee! So....when do I expect that email confirming your crush on me?
You mean you didn't get it? hmmm
Damn! Rejected again.
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I told mine. Guess we shall see.
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nicepost.. good to know the crush :)
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hi evryone
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I told mine. Guess we shall see. 
Good Luck! |
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 My crush is no secret!
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I told mine. Guess we shall see.
Good Luck! Thanks Heather |
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I have a crush on................................
Patsfan
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I have a crush on................................ Patsfan
Me too! 
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I told mine. Guess we shall see. 
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I love orange crush...
Don't you?? 
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I have a crush on................................ Patsfan
Me too!
 
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I have a crush on Hugh Jackman, but I know that'll never happen, so I keep it to myself. LOL! Seriously though. It may also be that they enjoy the crush, but don't want to be disappointed finding out the person isn't what they were crushing over. Good in the mind, but the person may be a brainless twit, or drunkard that you aren't aware of. I definitely think you are on the money there. Sometimes the fantasy is a whole lot better than the real deal. No greif, no lies, no waiting until they get around to playing their cards. Then when it wears off you don't have to try and run them off either. |
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I have a crush on................................ Patsfan
Me too!
  
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I told mine. Guess we shall see. Good luck. Suppose that works but for me I don't think I would tell someone I had a crush. Maybe that I was interested but that would be about it. He is too vague to cue up on it and step up his game oh well. |
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