So the last relationship I was in was only for about 3 months and it seemed to be all about sex and going out, I mean it was great at the time but then she ended it because she said she wasn't ready for something serious quite yet. She was suppose to be married only a few months after I started sleeping with her, that came before dating too, but then she broke it off. We still remain friends but with no benefits unfortunately because I think she is one hot *****. One of the reasons she said she ended it was because she thought I was getting to attached to fast. To be honest I just loved being around her all the time and she was the same way, and the sex was great. But before that the last relationship was 3 or so years ago and that only lasted six months, and yet still remain friends with her till this day. I don't know if there is something wrong with me, the way I look, or act but I can never find anyone for me and its killing me. I'm trying to pursue something now, I've known her for 5 year or so and always loved her, but she was in a relationship and so was I, but now they are getting a divorce and they have a kid together; don't get me wrong I love kids, nothing wrong with that but she is in a different city about hour&1/2 away and its hard to see her. Let me know what you think just from looks, not a good picture though

I think you are good looking.


Your problem is, you are insecure, and you keep trying to recycle girlfriends.


There is a world of women out there.. Break your pattern, and experiment with new people.

Ps, howd your hair turn from brown, to blonde?

Good luck.

You sound like a really nice guy. I like your smile. People, in my opinion, always forget how imporatant a smile is.

This line "I don't know if there is something wrong with me, the way I look, or act but I can never find anyone for me and its killing me."

That's very depressing. It also sort of sounds...desperate. That could put off a lot of people (not just women) and it sounds like it was just too much too fast. People need to slow it down, take their time- this desperation for love seems so immediate. It's in the media and it's in our literature, but what's prompt? Lust. Maybe to find someone for you, you just need to take it slow, ease back on the gas...

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Consider taking your AIM name off your profile; that really seems desperate. Why would you want random IMs from strangers? This is a great site to meet and communicate with women within the site.

You are young and that is problematic for dating. Everything is drama -- your story was like reading a soap opera.

Unfortunately, and most of us have been there, you will date the wrong girls for a few years.

Some times there is no rhyme or reason why we attract the wrong person; sometimes we repeat our mistakes; sometimes we have low self esteem and we attract crazy; sometimes WE are the crazy.

Relax and enjoy dating. Don't settle down and learn about life first.

The current picture is my natural hair, the other is from about 3 years ago, I used to dye it alot, but haven't dyed it since then. I'm not trying to come off as desperate, at least i didn't think it was, I guess its just venting, and not at a good time. I'm not looking for a new relationship just new people to hang out with. Friends are always better in my opinion, they last longer. I tend not to get out much except with the people I work with, due to my schedule. But thanks for the advice so far.

Your other pic is 3 years old? Um, current is better!

Good luck!

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