Earthy is "complex".

She's do just fine.

So will you.

She is another Texan. 'Nuff said.

LOL I wasnt born in Texas,Im a New Yorker by birth, but I got here as fast as I can. Howdy Joe.

Howdy Earthy

Been there--done that!


You are lovely!

Yeah, I was wondering about that, too. How could he take your best years away? They're in the past, they are fallen wayside, with no regard to whom you spent them with. Be the man this hubby or any hypothetical other. A year, or years, best or worst, are taken away by time, and time only. If there were no time, you wouldn't have had the years. So time hath given and time hath taken away. The years were neither given nor taken away by your no-good cheating-lying naughty man.

Your boobies on your pic look very attactive still, but they are covered with clothes.

If you ask if your attractive than you will be at the will of public opinion instead of your own....if you know your attractive than its fine,but if you need everyone elses opinion than u depend on everyone else,and are at the mercy of everyones influnce both negative and good...but by my "opinion" yes u are.So just strut it and take yourself out in the world as u deem fit,with positive influence

u look very sweet , wanna get together and send him some pics of us in comprmising positions im game .!!

Another thought occurred to me.

Say he has been saying to you toward the end of your marriage, "you are not good looking", etc., just to hurt you. So he says you're not good looking. And it's really up to each observer to judge. Maybe to him you were not good looking. You can't argue with taste.

You know what you can say to the next guy who criticizes your looks? This is what you can hiss at him: "Yes, buster, I know, but beauty is only skin deep."

Although I usually tend not to go along with the crowd, I have to say that the multitudes are correct here. What that doofus "hubby" of yours did had absolutely nothing to do with your physical (or other) attributes, it had to do with what a moron he is. Take some time to heal; don't jump into anything else too quickly, or you'll likely find yourself in another bad relationship down the line. Get to know your kid(s) better. Do some things for yourself. Hopefully, you'll get to a point soon where you realize that being in a relationship is not only NOT a requirement to be happy, but that many times it can actually be a hindrance!

The other emphatic sentiment from the majority of the posters is correct, as well. He definitely did not take your best years away. Your best years are most assuredly in front of you.

God bless you as you move forward ...

I agree...Your best years are ahead of you. So much to see and experience. The ride has just begun! Lookin forward to 80.

LOL best response I read all nite!

even though men are simple and you would think that because looks lure them in, that it is looks that send them into the next yard, humping the canine (for lack of a better word) next door...Men just don't think, and women don't seem to care either. A woman will throw herself on a guy and he will accept. even if he rejects the first advance, if it continues, he will cave. they always do.

It's obvious i have also had a winner for an ex. and i felt the same as you. Trust, there wil be other guys, the hard part is going to be trying to trust them, or at least give them a chance to mess up, because your brain is already saying..."this WILL NOT happen to me again."

I'm sorry I'm a guy so I'm not real brite do this meen you do want have sex with me or no.

He's a Loser!

you are beautiful... dont let what he did to you bring you down.... i learned that the hard way!!!! i think i am attractive and if no one else does oh well.... i just hope they do

Wow. Nice generalization.

Also completely full of ****...but hey....it happens.