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Topic: Married Men
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 10/09/09 09:00 PM
I have never been married ,and I only recently decided that I may try to get married one day, but I am not going to have any kids of my own and be paying out money or go to jail for the rest of my life

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 10/09/09 09:02 PM
If a man gets married then has children the wife now a mom detachs from the husband and the love becomes just love and romance fades over time The man then does not recieve the true attention and over time is left feeling empty he then finds a women who is alone and the sex is fresh and wonderful a new beginning thats why people divorce men drift cause they wish they were single again then realize a woman can take them to court and get alot of child support and take alot of money that some and most men work hard to get so they bow down to the beaver power and draw the conclusion"its cheaper to keep her" I dont know why any guy would want to have kids I never have understood that i'm a single father and have full custody of my son.i'm simply stating marriage is a joke and the OP is right i don't get it..meaning marriage I get it. Its having a best friend for life. only people get caught up in the roles and the egotism and lose sight of each other and their friendship.. Disrespect and dishonesty sometimes creep in at that point and ruin things. But for those who understand sharing and how to be a friend,,,its a wonderful thing.

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Fri 10/09/09 09:02 PM
I have never been married ,and I only recently decided that I may try to get married one day, but I am not going to have any kids of my own and be paying out money or go to jail for the rest of my life So you mean to say? Having a kid is like committing suicide?

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 10/09/09 09:03 PM
its simple most marriages end in divorce,so my advice is if you don't want to experience divorce don't get married

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 10/09/09 09:04 PM
I have never been married ,and I only recently decided that I may try to get married one day, but I am not going to have any kids of my own and be paying out money or go to jail for the rest of my life So you mean to say? Having a kid is like committing suicide? I just dont understand it.I need a woman that can't have no more kids

biggerdee Joined Tue 09/22/09 Posts: 4	Fri 10/09/09 09:04 PM
I was in that situation it is not cheaper to keep her i have 4 kids and the wife was like a coworker and we did everything together the 5 of us i was broke then now im single and have a lot more and i still see the kids i just need love again not a mom

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Fri 10/09/09 09:04 PM
If your honest Then its not a problem. I am not talking about the honest ones the liars and cheaters. Do they not relize how many people they hurt trying to find there happiness outside of the home they built together From the ones I have listened to that cheat they don't care. They are bored or see it as a game. The people they use mean nothing to them. The people they cheat with are just collateral damage as are their children or parents and spouses. They figure if you are smart you would catch them way before you do. They think they are entitled.

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Fri 10/09/09 09:05 PM
I have never been married ,and I only recently decided that I may try to get married one day, but I am not going to have any kids of my own and be paying out money or go to jail for the rest of my life So you mean to say? Having a kid is like committing suicide? I just dont understand it.I need a woman that can't have no more kids I'm very fertile.....

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 10/09/09 09:05 PM
its simple most marriages end in divorce,so my advice is if you don't want to experience divorce don't get married That is why I never asked any girl to marry me but I finally decided recently that I might try it one time

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 10/09/09 09:05 PM
its simple most marriages end in divorce,so my advice is if you don't want to experience divorce don't get married most lotto tickets dont win either,,,but im sure many more winners exist with those who take the chance then with those who dont.

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Fri 10/09/09 09:06 PM
I have never been married ,and I only recently decided that I may try to get married one day, but I am not going to have any kids of my own and be paying out money or go to jail for the rest of my life So you mean to say? Having a kid is like committing suicide? I just dont understand it.I need a woman that can't have no more kids it is possible to have kids without going to jail!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 10/09/09 09:06 PM
I have never been married ,and I only recently decided that I may try to get married one day, but I am not going to have any kids of my own and be paying out money or go to jail for the rest of my life So you mean to say? Having a kid is like committing suicide? I just dont understand it.I need a woman that can't have no more kids I'm very fertile.....

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 10/09/09 09:06 PM
If a man gets married then has children the wife now a mom detachs from the husband and the love becomes just love and romance fades over time The man then does not recieve the true attention and over time is left feeling empty he then finds a women who is alone and the sex is fresh and wonderful a new beginning thats why people divorce men drift cause they wish they were single again then realize a woman can take them to court and get alot of child support and take alot of money that some and most men work hard to get so they bow down to the beaver power and draw the conclusion"its cheaper to keep her" I dont know why any guy would want to have kids I never have understood that i'm a single father and have full custody of my son.i'm simply stating marriage is a joke and the OP is right i don't get it..meaning marriage I get it. Its having a best friend for life. only people get caught up in the roles and the egotism and lose sight of each other and their friendship.. Disrespect and dishonesty sometimes creep in at that point and ruin things. But for those who understand sharing and how to be a friend,,,its a wonderful thing. its all blah blah to me..marriage is a joke period,you are entitled to your opinion but how many times do you have to get married until your single and on a dating site...remember its always good in the beginning but never last forever thats why we are on here

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 10/09/09 09:06 PM Edited by MirrorMirror on Fri 10/09/09 09:08 PM
I have never been married ,and I only recently decided that I may try to get married one day, but I am not going to have any kids of my own and be paying out money or go to jail for the rest of my life So you mean to say? Having a kid is like committing suicide? I just dont understand it.I need a woman that can't have no more kids it is possible to have kids without going to jail! yeah,if you pay out a bunch of money I think dudes should be supporting their kids,but Im saying that just aint for me

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Fri 10/09/09 09:07 PM
I have never been married ,and I only recently decided that I may try to get married one day, but I am not going to have any kids of my own and be paying out money or go to jail for the rest of my life So you mean to say? Having a kid is like committing suicide? I just dont understand it.I need a woman that can't have no more kids I'm very fertile..... Yep... yep.. truth be told...

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Fri 10/09/09 09:08 PM
I have never been married ,and I only recently decided that I may try to get married one day, but I am not going to have any kids of my own and be paying out money or go to jail for the rest of my life FYI If you get married and your legal spouse gets pregnant wheather it is your kid or not you can be ordered to pay child support or go to jail; at least in the USA.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 10/09/09 09:08 PM
If a man gets married then has children the wife now a mom detachs from the husband and the love becomes just love and romance fades over time The man then does not recieve the true attention and over time is left feeling empty he then finds a women who is alone and the sex is fresh and wonderful a new beginning thats why people divorce men drift cause they wish they were single again then realize a woman can take them to court and get alot of child support and take alot of money that some and most men work hard to get so they bow down to the beaver power and draw the conclusion"its cheaper to keep her" I dont know why any guy would want to have kids I never have understood that i'm a single father and have full custody of my son.i'm simply stating marriage is a joke and the OP is right i don't get it..meaning marriage I get it. Its having a best friend for life. only people get caught up in the roles and the egotism and lose sight of each other and their friendship.. Disrespect and dishonesty sometimes creep in at that point and ruin things. But for those who understand sharing and how to be a friend,,,its a wonderful thing. its all blah blah to me..marriage is a joke period,you are entitled to your opinion but how many times do you have to get married until your single and on a dating site...remember its always good in the beginning but never last forever thats why we are on here I respect your opinion. I just feel like all relationships happen for a reason, some help us grow and learn. Ive just learned about what doesnt work for me, and I am still eager and hopeful to find that best friend that I can work with.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 10/09/09 09:09 PM
I have never been married ,and I only recently decided that I may try to get married one day, but I am not going to have any kids of my own and be paying out money or go to jail for the rest of my life FYI If you get married and your legal spouse gets pregnant wheather it is your kid or not you can be ordered to pay child support or go to jail; at least in the USA. Thats why I want a woman that cant have anymore kids

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Fri 10/09/09 09:10 PM
I have never been married ,and I only recently decided that I may try to get married one day, but I am not going to have any kids of my own and be paying out money or go to jail for the rest of my life So you mean to say? Having a kid is like committing suicide? I just dont understand it.I need a woman that can't have no more kids I'm very fertile.....

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 10/09/09 09:10 PM
its all blah blah to me..marriage is a joke period,you are entitled to your opinion but how many times do you have to get married until your single and on a dating site...remember its always good in the beginning but never last forever thats why we are on here