If there is anything a man doesn't want, it's a woman who bad-mouths
men. There is a noticable difference in the number of men-bashing vs
woman-bashing threads in here.

Proverbs 21:19
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It is better to live in a desert land
Than with a contentious and vexing woman.
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Do you want to meet a man? Then learn to like men. And why not give an
ugly guy a chance? They will appreciate you more, be more interested in
keeping you happy and be more accepting of your faults.

I love men. I love it that men are different than women (duh).
Otherwise, it would be like dating a woman with a penis.

Get a hold of yourself man.

Not everyone bashes people...

Let him who is not guilty cast the first stone...

OP



nice post

Stones are for the primates. I perfer arrows.

Hi Spider, if a woman bashes a man it is because of bad experiences she
has had with usually more than one man. She gets to a point where after
the first couple of bad experiences she has with men, she figures all of
her experiences will be the same.

You know, that is kind of condescending to ugly people. They will take
what they can get and hold on for dear life? They don't have any
standards?

You say...."If there is anything a man doesn't want, it's a woman who
bad-mouths men."

I say....I don't think that the women here really bad mouth men, but we
can catch their "game" before they can play it through. Men are
threatened by the fact that a woman knows their game.

You say...."Do you want to meet a man? Then learn to like men. And why
not give an ugly guy a chance?"

I say....I love men of all different shapes, sizes, and colors, I have
some preferences, but there are ugly guys here that I have tried to give
a chance to and they "tried" to play "game". So I really don't think
that what a person looks like even matters, it is how they were brought
up to treat women.

rivergirl301,

I am an ugly person, so I know it's the truth. Everyone wants love,
it's just that an ugly guy is FAR less likely to think "The grass is
always greener..."

Well, post a photo and let me be the judge of that!

I agree with Rivergirl. And I can tell you from experience that as an
ugly woman, my standards are just as high as anyone else's, not
necessarily in the area of physical attractiveness; (I'd happily date a
physically ugly guy if he met my other standards for a quality
relationship as we'd be well matched in that area); but as far as my
expectations for honesty, monogamy, decency, intelligence, sense of
humor, etc., etc.. I expect the whole package in a partner and won't
settle for just anyone because of my inferior looks. Most of us less
than attractive people are just like everyone else, we have standards,
too, that must be met for starting and ensuring a quality LTR.

rivergirl301,

I'm off the market and I don't like posting my picture. I can tell you
this: Six years later, my ex-wife still tells me that she can't find a
guy who treats her as good or loves her as much as I did. I'm not
making a general statement that ugly guys are all great men, but I'm
saying that if you are ready to settle down and finding it hard, don't
write off the ugly guy.

Well...Get some more confidence and perhaps there is a woman out there
who will see your inner beauty..Attraction is not about looks...Besides
beauty is in the eye of the beholder...What is ugly to one is not ugly
to another!!!!!!!

Confidence is attractive...Whining and feeling sorry for ones-self is
NOT!!!!!!!!

Or the ugly woman. :)

Native....

All I have to say is BRAVO!!!!!! I could not have said it better. I
have always believed that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder".
Everyone knows deep down what they are attracted to in a person, and the
list varies all the time...

real beauty comes from within...

not in our appearences...

for appearences fade in time...

but a truely beautiful person inside- won't fade away...

JMHO

Native_Grl39,

I like your reply, but it has nothing to do with my post.

I'm not whining or complaining. I don't like for self-confidence. I'm
not unhappy about my social life.

As I said, there are a lot of threads that are about what a bunch of
bums all men are and I think that those women need to get over the fact
that they have had bad luck with dates and realize that not all men are
like that.

There were so many responses to this thread that just scream "I'M
LOOKING TO BE OFFENDED AND YOU ARE THE NEXT ONE ON MY S**T LIST!"

I am NOT insulting ugly people, I'm ugly and I love myself.
I am NOT feeling sorry for myself, I have never had a problem getting
dates.
I am NOT saying that all women bash men.

Oh and FYI, many people who look for love online get sucked into a
fantasy world and start playing games, not just men but women too. I
know from experiance.

i do not feel u were insulting ugly people Op


but the post is a lil" offensive.....


in the way it is presented ...

like we all bash and things of that manner..


if people think im ugly i could care less.

ya know??


but i didnt pay attention to that part of your post..

ur post is screaming hey we suck! meaning the posters and we are all
bashers?????


nada some of us are good peeps



shelly isnt but I am....hehehehehe