where they at?

Uhm...it's tru-BLU, and yet you seem to be seeing only TRUBL...now who's generalizing here? Did my post threaten you, or make you feel uncomfortable in some way? Did I step on your toe? Such was not my intent.
Did you react to my post thoughtfully, or emotionally?
Did you carefully consider it before you typed?
Don't tell ME your answers...answer them for yourself.
WE ALL keep certain generalizations in mind when we meet each other for the first time.
However, chaos may ensue if we were to respond in a knee-jerk fashion to someone who even so much as fit a single, pre-conceived generalization. For example, I like to wear those form-fitting, tank-top undershirts when I work out in the gym, as I like the feeling when it begins to stretch. However, I was later informed by a woman friend that I might rather not wear these t-shirts, as they are known as "wife-beaters"! Supposedly, this is the shirt characteristically worn by a guy who regularly beats his wife. HE**, IT'S JUST A FRICKIN' T-SHIRT!!! And I'm not married!
Have YOU considered these t-shirts to be "wife-beaters", worn by those men who would beat a woman?
OMG! COULD YOU BE "GENERALIZING"???
What if a guy you were meeting for the first time at a restaurant had parked in the back, his car unseen from the road, and yet there was plenty of parking in front?
Were you to be wise, you would very likely generalize, thinking it was POSSIBLE the guy was married!
What if the two of you were walking toward your car after dinner, yet he stopped to ask you to accompany him to his car, as he had to get a present he had for you. Hopefully, you would generalize, and tell him you would simply wait for him at YOUR car in FRONT (where, hopefully, there might be plenty of potential witnesses with a cell phone).
THESE GENERALIZATIONS MAY BEGIN TO ADD UP, and, after too many had accumulated, you may want to end your association with him. They are meant to be filed away, not simply dismissed, until such point that they are too many in number to allow you to comfortably continue seeing this person.
They are otherwise known as, "red flags".
WE ALL have them, tucked way back in our subconscious.
HERE'S THE DOWN-SIDE OF GENERALIZATIONS:
...if a single generalization causes a person to dimsiss someone at once.
You're right...there were some generalizations in my previous post.
I've always been aware there ARE variables.
I HAVE met women who don't like jewelry.
I HAVE met women who wear gold-band wedding rings.
In a similar discussion, one woman said, "My wedding band is not a symbol of how little my man loves me...it symbolizes just HOW MUCH I LOVE MY MAN."
Very well said.

Where are all the men with really good cheese???? Its so hard to find a really good cheddar man!!!

I've got it right here, between my toes!
Wansum?

will that go with your hairy back???