Since my ad on here doesn't seem to be having the desired effect (I.E.
I don't log on to a plethora of hotties, of which I need just pick one
lol ) I'd like to enlist the lovely ladies of JSH.

Fix my ad please!

After taking a critical look at it, I can see where mentioning my ex
might be a bit of a strike. However, it seems like questions 1 and 2
when ladies find out I'm divorced are always "Are you still in contact
with her?" and "Are there 'issues" I should know about?" (paraphrasing
on both of those). I'll be getting new pictures in a week or so and I
believe all of my important qualities and hobbies are included. All
that's required is that you ladies make me a wanted man... no, not like
that.

I'm not female but a better pic up close is one idea.
Another is to add more of your personality to profile.
And lastly post in forums so the ladies can learn more about you.

i agree a different picture

well derf it sound like your a nice man you havent been on long


do u mingle in the forums.....


oh there are only freaks here I forgot someone told me that..


well keep trying derf!

I disagree with the picture thing, you look great, totally happy and
free, trust me as a guy with a girl, chicks dig that.
It must be in you approach, how about a sample of what you,re doing, or
saying to them.

I am new to this sight, but i think your profile and pic is fine. Maybe
you could add what you are looking for in a woman, might weed out a few
who wont work out- other than that who knows- I'm not swamped with mail
either! good luck!

freaks, Tulip? Is that what we are?lol

I just moved back to Columbus * and I'm in the process of getting my
life back on track after a train wreck of a marriage. I don't have any
unresolved issues with her and I'm an open book otherwise so if you want
to know something about me ask. *

I think you need to take out what I put in between the stars there. I
know you are trying to be honest, but really, no one wants to hear about
your past bad relationships. We have all been there, or else we would
not be on this site, lol, so it is a given.

You're a cute guy. You will snap up a great girl in no time!

Hey I think the picture is fine unless you are not fine with it? I do
think you need to work on the wording of your profile. NEVER mention the
ex...that makes people think that you still care...UMMM do you?
I would just touch up your wording and then go from there! One of my
favorite sayings is this....never look back just look
ahead
Good luck I hope you find what you are looking for

hey derf, yeah more photos will work plus you can post on the thread
"Matchmaker's Corner..."

<<<--- Official Matchmaker

OK ladies I've re-written my ad deleting and adding per your
suggestions and the new pictures should be up in a week or so.

To answer some of the questions: Yes I do mingle in the forums but I
may not be quite the familiar face as some are since I don't participate
in any threads that like "How hot am I?" or "(fill in the blank) person
above you." No, I don't care for my ex in "that" way anymore. I hope
she does well in her life (and that her BF contracts a schorching case
of herpes) but she's not a part of mine.

Thank you for your input and if there're any other changes please let
me know.

Just so you know, although the name on the topic may not appeal to you,
they are so easily derailed and go off in another direction, so you may
find it fun to chime.

"chime in"