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Topic: need advice
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Thu 09/17/09 10:22 AM
complicated situation. need to find best way to reconnect with guy i went out with a couple of times. its been about a month since either of us have talked and not sure if i should call, text or add as friend on facebook.

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Thu 09/17/09 10:24 AM
call him

and ask him if he knows where a good place to go do something you both like to do is that you know he is "good" at...

ya know? gotta be good with it though...has to be something he knows you wouldnt know

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Thu 09/17/09 10:25 AM
that way...when he tells you...

say...you are asking him where you should go to view art...

he is like,

"so why you ask?"

you can be like, "oh cuz i am thinking of going there to meet some people"



and then, BOOM....you start talking to him about life

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Thu 09/17/09 10:26 AM
and next thing ya know:wink:


you are going to said place with him

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Thu 09/17/09 10:26 AM
I would say start by adding him as a friend on facebook.
If he accepts, then you can chat there.
If he doesn't, then you have your answer flowerforyou

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Thu 09/17/09 10:28 AM
Edited by 1956CLEO on Thu 09/17/09 10:31 AM
I agree add him to your friends on Facebook to start.

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Thu 09/17/09 10:29 AM
wouldnt he have already added me?

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Thu 09/17/09 10:29 AM
If he was that into you.....he would have hunted YOU down.

I wouldnt bother.....flowerforyou

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Thu 09/17/09 10:30 AM
good advice but doesnt that seem random considering we havent talked recently

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Thu 09/17/09 10:31 AM
Facebook is a great way to reconnect, I swear by it!

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Thu 09/17/09 10:31 AM
if i had the courage to do what i said i wouldnt be here on mingle laugh

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Thu 09/17/09 10:31 AM
sorry new to this site and am replying wrong. here's the reason we're not talking. i kinda told him "youre a great guy and all but i'm bored. hope theres no hard feelings" and missing him

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Thu 09/17/09 10:32 AM

sorry new to this site and am replying wrong. here's the reason we're not talking. i kinda told him "youre a great guy and all but i'm bored. hope theres no hard feelings" and missing him


i still say the best approach is calling him

you're a pretty girl

pretty girls can get away with things like thatbigsmile flowerforyou

heheh

what?! dont look at me like that!

its true!:banana:

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Thu 09/17/09 10:32 AM
i normally very bold and couragous but when i become vonderable thats a whole other story

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Thu 09/17/09 10:33 AM

good advice but doesnt that seem random considering we havent talked recently


As Pat indicated "it is a good way reconnect".

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Thu 09/17/09 10:33 AM
Well in that case, I probably wouldn't talk to you either. If you were bored then, why try now?

Time to move on.

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Thu 09/17/09 10:34 AM
guess i was hoping he'd say something like "well lets spice things up" or maybe "be patient"

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Thu 09/17/09 10:35 AM
You told him you were bored???? Ohhhhhhhhhhh the kiss of death!noway

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Thu 09/17/09 10:36 AM

guess i was hoping he'd say something like "well lets spice things up" or maybe "be patient"


That right there is why men have a hard time with women. They cannot and will not read our minds. Just like we can't read theirs either.

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Thu 09/17/09 10:36 AM
Edited by BillySuvol on Thu 09/17/09 10:36 AM
is the guy cuter than me?

wait lemme change the profile picture

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