Topic: Hi, I'm so new to this.... and need guidance:
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Mon 09/14/09 12:10 AM
Edited by SexyBoyInTheCloset on Mon 09/14/09 12:12 AM
Hi, I'm James (I have plenty of pictures of myself but I will only upload them once I get to know you better), and I'm really new to this online singles thing.. and Yes, I'm still in the closet, and it sucks..lol! although a few of my closest friends know about it. I'm recently divorced.. haha.. obviously that did not work out.. lol. um ..yeah.. I really am looking for other people like myself to talk to.. I desire friendship online.. then, possibly a meet-up. But I'd like to get to know you online first okay. Just hit me up and we'll talk. =)

- James

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Mon 09/14/09 12:14 AM



welcome to the :tongue: family and join in the laugh and the :cry: and have a drinker flowerforyou

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Mon 09/14/09 12:16 AM
welcome to the family hun!drinker flowerforyou

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Mon 09/14/09 12:16 AM
welcome to mingle, i hope you find what you want.

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Mon 09/14/09 12:18 AM
are you in the supplies closet?


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Mon 09/14/09 12:30 AM
howdy

HOOK'EM HORNS

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Mon 09/14/09 12:55 AM
Hi James,
Welcome to the wonderful world of online dating. Where the people are lonely and some kinda horny. I have been on here for a couple of weeks and in that time I have learned a few things. So all ears attention while I pass on these pearls of wisdom.....LOL I'm sorry I can never keep a straight face with that line.
So seriously here is what I suggest.
1) It's OK to have no pic on your profile page- it helps weed out those out there looking for sex. Plus anyone who contacts you will have an honest interest in you based on what you have provided (so make it good).
2) Of those who have an interest in you....like 70% will be older...like much older...That's great if your looking for a sugar daddy or maybe you inherit some junk when they pass.
3) Putting up a pic of yourself will draw more attention to your profile, even if it is hideous! Trust me!
4) Do be active in your time here. Seek out others. Don't just wait for them to contact you.
5) Have Fun! Chat with as many peeps as possible. You can usually tell if either party is interested based on a live chat.
Good Luck!

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Mon 09/14/09 12:58 AM

Hi James,
Welcome to the wonderful world of online dating. Where the people are lonely and some kinda horny. I have been on here for a couple of weeks and in that time I have learned a few things. So all ears attention while I pass on these pearls of wisdom.....LOL I'm sorry I can never keep a straight face with that line.
So seriously here is what I suggest.
1) It's OK to have no pic on your profile page- it helps weed out those out there looking for sex. Plus anyone who contacts you will have an honest interest in you based on what you have provided (so make it good).
2) Of those who have an interest in you....like 70% will be older...like much older...That's great if your looking for a sugar daddy or maybe you inherit some junk when they pass.
3) Putting up a pic of yourself will draw more attention to your profile, even if it is hideous! Trust me!
4) Do be active in your time here. Seek out others. Don't just wait for them to contact you.
5) Have Fun! Chat with as many peeps as possible. You can usually tell if either party is interested based on a live chat.
Good Luck!


drinker

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Mon 09/14/09 01:28 AM
Hello James. Welcome and good luck.flowerforyou

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Mon 09/14/09 11:15 AM

Hi James,
Welcome to the wonderful world of online dating. Where the people are lonely and some kinda horny. I have been on here for a couple of weeks and in that time I have learned a few things. So all ears attention while I pass on these pearls of wisdom.....LOL I'm sorry I can never keep a straight face with that line.
So seriously here is what I suggest.
1) It's OK to have no pic on your profile page- it helps weed out those out there looking for sex. Plus anyone who contacts you will have an honest interest in you based on what you have provided (so make it good).
2) Of those who have an interest in you....like 70% will be older...like much older...That's great if your looking for a sugar daddy or maybe you inherit some junk when they pass.
3) Putting up a pic of yourself will draw more attention to your profile, even if it is hideous! Trust me!
4) Do be active in your time here. Seek out others. Don't just wait for them to contact you.
5) Have Fun! Chat with as many peeps as possible. You can usually tell if either party is interested based on a live chat.
Good Luck!



Thanks Naked Skin, I will definetely follow those guidlines. I appreciate all of the friendly welcomes as well. I am having a hard time with this as it took me a hell of a loooong time to figure me out. So, I'll prob. stay in the closet for awhile.. lol.. sorry. =)

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Mon 09/14/09 08:35 PM
Hello and Welcome waving