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a woman i know broke up with her BF a few weeks ago.. we been talking alot... ive just been playing it cool.. but how long should i wait to ask her out or should i wait for her to do the asking....
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Ooh! Good question...but frankly, I don't have an answer. Some can "fall in love" right away after a break-up & for some, it takes a loooooong time to get over it...& then you run the risk of being delegated to The Friend Zone...sorry I couldn't be much help...
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How long was she with the guy? How long have you known her?
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Ooh! Good question...but frankly, I don't have an answer. Some can "fall in love" right away after a break-up & for some, it takes a loooooong time to get over it...& then you run the risk of being delegated to The Friend Zone...sorry I couldn't be much help... thats exactly what i mean...and if i try and be respectful and give her time some one might ask and i be left out in the cold so to speak... and thats ok i use to women being no help...JK JK JK ( only humor ) |
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Do the asking wasking and start wart the love bove or whatever...just do it dude.
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How long was she with the guy? How long have you known her? ive known here about 1 yr... she with him bout three months |
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Ooh! Good question...but frankly, I don't have an answer. Some can "fall in love" right away after a break-up & for some, it takes a loooooong time to get over it...& then you run the risk of being delegated to The Friend Zone...sorry I couldn't be much help... thats exactly what i mean...and if i try and be respectful and give her time some one might ask and i be left out in the cold so to speak... and thats ok i use to women being no help...JK JK JK ( only humor ) I will say beware of ANY person who can break up & go after someone else in a very short time...I wouldn't trust them or their judgment... |
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Tell her how you feel. You might already be friend only material. Hurry!
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Don't ask her out, just tell her how you feel.
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I am not good at giving the "time period" advice, however, rebounds are never good!!!!!
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I agree with Miss Liilith
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Don't ask her out, just tell her how you feel. i think i gonna go with that.. open cant hurt... unless she freaks..LOL |
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Rebounds are very very bad. I agree with Lilith on this one also. Talk to her and tell her you are interested in more than just friendship if she is willing and if she hesitates or says she is not ready, then leave it be.
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It depends
My man could be considered a rebound But our love was there for a loooong time yet we never acknowledged it |
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She may have not really been into the guy, which would mean no rebound involved.
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It depends My man could be considered a rebound But our love was there for a loooong time yet we never acknowledged it well your very nice so you deserve it... |
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She may have not really been into the guy, which would mean no rebound involved. yea i kinda feel she was grasping for what she wanted more than what he gave her.... |
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She may have not really been into the guy, which would mean no rebound involved. yea i kinda feel she was grasping for what she wanted more than what he gave her.... go for it my man, love shouldn't be about a strategy, express how you feel. should your heart get broken in the process,well... some one will come and mend it. just hope that the "some one" gets there before time does. |
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She may have not really been into the guy, which would mean no rebound involved. yea i kinda feel she was grasping for what she wanted more than what he gave her.... go for it my man, love shouldn't be about a strategy, express how you feel. should your heart get broken in the process,well... some one will come and mend it. just hope that the "some one" gets there before time does. thank you .... |
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do you want to be the rebound guy????
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