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But, "younger women" generally are more beautiful, less jaded, and more submissive than older women with failed marriages, emotional baggage, and droves of "daddy's babies". Wow! I know of many older women on Mingle that are beautiful, who are now single through no fault of their own, they are devoid of emotional baggage or that do not have kids -- and if they do, they don't have multiple kids by multiple fathers. They probably are not, however, submissive. From the tone of your other writings, my impression of you is that you prefer 'submissive' or basically a woman who is not strong emotionally so you can manipulate her. That might be why you are curious in meeting younger women -- so you can control them. Unfortunately, a generalization of anyone is dangerous. Alas, there are older women who are not strong enough to thwart off controlling men; therefore, age is irrelevant. Whatever you seek, good luck. So far, there don’t seem to be any 18-22 year olds on this site who are replying to your inquest so you may have gotten your answer. Again, good luck in your search. Melody, girlfriend, I wouldn't been able to say it better than that! You got it going on girl! thank you on behalf of all the jaded, not submissive older women with failed marriages, not to mention carrying emotional baggage. Anytime, sugar! |
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This has been entirely entertaining. Thank you!
I hope that wasn't too many words... for me, that was hardly loquacious, and not at all garrulous. I must add though... we baggage laden older women tend to be, um, averse to generalized condescension. |
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MelodyGirl:
From your multitude of posts, you have a lot of "free time". I take it you are the Pamela Anderson look-a-like in the photo. You have given me advice on how I should structure my rhetorical question, as distinct from an interrogative question. You have also given me advice on what age demographic is more befitting to a 45 year old man. My post explains the scenario, my situation, and my purpose. The purpose is to generate feedback from "younger" women as to a theoretical scenario, [if they would date an older man like me, or would consider the possibility]. Inherently, the question is directed to younger women, as only younger women can convey their preferences. Try as they might, "Forty-something" women cannot possibly offer insight as to what college aged women, [18-22], might or might not be receptive to. I would add that chronological age and "maturity" are not necessarily intertwined. I have observed youthful women who have displayed a far greater intellectual and emotional maturity which exceeded that of their elders. For your information, I have dated many women who are OLDER than I am. I have done so since high school. Your own post refers to the fact that my profile seeks a woman into her fifties. Fifty-five on my essay, and up to fifty-nine on my e-mail parameter. So, far from being lecherous and preying upon society's youth, I do appreciate older women. I have created an age 18-59 demographic so as not to preclude contact from the majority of women. Obviously, below age 18, they are not of legal age and could not post on this site. Above age 59, that would strain the parameters of my ideal woman. And, as a self-styled philosopher, you yourself might observe, "What could a 45 year old man and a 60 year old woman have in common?". But, I think your proliferation of "responses" validate my observations about older women. Your banter does nothing to aid my empirical quest because you fall well outside of the 18-22 female age demographic. Well, MelodyGirl, I would end by posing a rhetorical query to you which sums up my reflections on dating. All other things being equal, "Would you rather drive a Porsche 911 or a weathered BMW"? |
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Melody, you BMW you.... |
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I am on this site to meet "women". By my definition and the legal definition, a woman who is 18 or older is of legal age. I am not going through a "middle age crisis". But, "younger women" generally are more beautiful, less jaded, and more submissive than older women with failed marriages, emotional baggage, and droves of "daddy's babies". Now, nothing is etched in stone. You can have age parameters or other qualifying factors including or eliminating groups of people. But, in my experience, it is silly to prevent individuals from even speaking to you because they are 1 year too old or too young, or live 10 miles outside of your area. What is important are mutual attractions, similar interests, common values, and common goals. Now, what these garrulous females have overlooked by my seminal question are these issues; (1) My question was directed to YOUNG WOMEN, ages 18-22. I am asking them a rhetorical question; If they would date me, or someone my age with similar looks, etc., and (2), I openly questioned the validity of the e-mail messages I received on "true.com" from these hordes of younger women. I question them because I did not solicit them on my "true.com" profile. With the proper feedback from YOUNGER WOMEN on this blog, I can readily determine if those e-mails are legitimate. |
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Thu 09/10/09 09:15 AM
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Melody, I wouldn't been able to say it better than that thank you on behalf of all the jaded, not submissive older women with failed marriages, not to mention carrying emotional baggage and with kids.
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MelodyGirl: From your multitude of posts, you have a lot of "free time". I take it you are the Pamela Anderson look-a-like in the photo. You have given me advice on how I should structure my rhetorical question, as distinct from an interrogative question. You have also given me advice on what age demographic is more befitting to a 45 year old man. My post explains the scenario, my situation, and my purpose. The purpose is to generate feedback from "younger" women as to a theoretical scenario, [if they would date an older man like me, or would consider the possibility]. Inherently, the question is directed to younger women, as only younger women can convey their preferences. Try as they might, "Forty-something" women cannot possibly offer insight as to what college aged women, [18-22], might or might not be receptive to. I would add that chronological age and "maturity" are not necessarily intertwined. I have observed youthful women who have displayed a far greater intellectual and emotional maturity which exceeded that of their elders. For your information, I have dated many women who are OLDER than I am. I have done so since high school. Your own post refers to the fact that my profile seeks a woman into her fifties. Fifty-five on my essay, and up to fifty-nine on my e-mail parameter. So, far from being lecherous and preying upon society's youth, I do appreciate older women. I have created an age 18-59 demographic so as not to preclude contact from the majority of women. Obviously, below age 18, they are not of legal age and could not post on this site. Above age 59, that would strain the parameters of my ideal woman. And, as a self-styled philosopher, you yourself might observe, "What could a 45 year old man and a 60 year old woman have in common?". But, I think your proliferation of "responses" validate my observations about older women. Your banter does nothing to aid my empirical quest because you fall well outside of the 18-22 female age demographic. Well, MelodyGirl, I would end by posing a rhetorical query to you which sums up my reflections on dating. All other things being equal, "Would you rather drive a Porsche 911 or a weathered BMW"? that was a lot of big college words are you really getting any dates with women in any age group? |
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Robin, is it jist me or does this guy jist remind me of someone we knew, jist a bit ago?
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Edited by
Quietman_2009
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Thu 09/10/09 09:37 AM
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hahahaha they are all starting to blur together to me
I guess he can date any age girl he thinks he can get. my suspicion is that he's not dating any girls and the younger girl thing is just wishful thinking I do know that most of those pay sites employ young pretty women to email and pretend interest in men in order to incite them to pay money and join and then after you join those pretty interested women all seem to disapear. Both match.com and true.com have both been sued mumerous times for that and they keep doing it so it must be cost effective |
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Robin, is it jist me or does this guy jist remind me of someone we knew, jist a bit ago? ohhhhhhhhhhh I just caught that hahaha |
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"younger women" generally are more beautiful, less jaded, and more submissive than older women with failed marriages, emotional baggage, and droves of "daddy's babies"."
Wow. |
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Melody, you BMW you.... OMG! This guy is a real piece of work! I am laughing so hard that I couldn't come up with a retort if I tried. This was ridiculously entertaining. BMW? *pfft* I suppose I should quit my fitness business and apply for those nursing homes ASAP! |
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Naw, just start wearing spandex with pull marks on it and stop dusting the equipment... make the guys wear those old print pants, the wicked baggy legged ones with the animal prints on it.... ohh and bring back the matching terry cloth headbands and wristbands.
By the way, don't BMW's run like new for about 400,000 miles without many issues? I see Porsches in the shop all the time. |
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MelodyGirl
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Thu 09/10/09 10:41 AM
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Naw, just start wearing spandex with pull marks on it and stop dusting the equipment... make the guys wear those old print pants, the wicked baggy legged ones with the animal prints on it.... ohh and bring back the matching terry cloth headbands and wristbands. By the way, don't BMW's run like new for about 400,000 miles without many issues? I see Porsches in the shop all the time. I got images of Yetta Rosenberg, the grandma from The Nanny, with your descriptions! I suppose BMWs are quality but they are just not my style. I'm a gearhead so vroom, vroom, and Covette Z06 is more my style! The Pam Anderson look-alike comment is what got me rolling! Not even close! I can tell he really read my profile. Damn, an ignorant man -- that's HOT! |
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Edited by
mo_muirnin
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Thu 09/10/09 11:08 AM
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I am on this site to meet "women". By my definition and the legal definition, a woman who is 18 or older is of legal age. I am not going through a "middle age crisis". But, "younger women" generally are more beautiful, less jaded, and more submissive than older women with failed marriages, emotional baggage, and droves of "daddy's babies". Now, nothing is etched in stone. You can have age parameters or other qualifying factors including or eliminating groups of people. But, in my experience, it is silly to prevent individuals from even speaking to you because they are 1 year too old or too young, or live 10 miles outside of your area. What is important are mutual attractions, similar interests, common values, and common goals. Now, what these garrulous females have overlooked by my seminal question are these issues; (1) My question was directed to YOUNG WOMEN, ages 18-22. I am asking them a rhetorical question; If they would date me, or someone my age with similar looks, etc., and (2), I openly questioned the validity of the e-mail messages I received on "true.com" from these hordes of younger women. I question them because I did not solicit them on my "true.com" profile. With the proper feedback from YOUNGER WOMEN on this blog, I can readily determine if those e-mails are legitimate. You are being completely Biased!! 18 year old's don't know jack **** about life, nor do they know about relationships nor have they even been in enough to figure out that they want to be a 45 year old. They are just getting out of high school! And to others, could be thought of as being your daughter, LMAO!! Jesus. Yeah they have a better looking body and will always be younger than you. But let me tell you they are no more jaded than a woman your age. No more baggage than a woman your age and Definitely Most of the time more submissive than women your age. Get over yourself, Suave! MMM...that reminds me, I think you've been watching to much porn with "teens" in them....They aren't like porn stars you see on tv and if you can't keep up with an 18 year old - she gonna leave you for someone who can. (Just being honest) LMAO I have to add this in! My ex is 37 and during the course of our relationship he asked me to be younger than what I am. So he wanted me to keep my maturity, but wanted me to dress like an 18 year old - you know the girls he'd watch in his stupid porns. I was like, "wtf!" I'm not dressing like an 18 year old. I'm 26 and dressing the way I want. Idiots!!! I swear to God!! |
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MelodyGirl: From your multitude of posts, you have a lot of "free time". I take it you are the Pamela Anderson look-a-like in the photo. You have given me advice on how I should structure my rhetorical question, as distinct from an interrogative question. You have also given me advice on what age demographic is more befitting to a 45 year old man. My post explains the scenario, my situation, and my purpose. The purpose is to generate feedback from "younger" women as to a theoretical scenario, [if they would date an older man like me, or would consider the possibility]. Inherently, the question is directed to younger women, as only younger women can convey their preferences. Try as they might, "Forty-something" women cannot possibly offer insight as to what college aged women, [18-22], might or might not be receptive to. I would add that chronological age and "maturity" are not necessarily intertwined. I have observed youthful women who have displayed a far greater intellectual and emotional maturity which exceeded that of their elders. For your information, I have dated many women who are OLDER than I am. I have done so since high school. Your own post refers to the fact that my profile seeks a woman into her fifties. Fifty-five on my essay, and up to fifty-nine on my e-mail parameter. So, far from being lecherous and preying upon society's youth, I do appreciate older women. I have created an age 18-59 demographic so as not to preclude contact from the majority of women. Obviously, below age 18, they are not of legal age and could not post on this site. Above age 59, that would strain the parameters of my ideal woman. And, as a self-styled philosopher, you yourself might observe, "What could a 45 year old man and a 60 year old woman have in common?". But, I think your proliferation of "responses" validate my observations about older women. Your banter does nothing to aid my empirical quest because you fall well outside of the 18-22 female age demographic. Well, MelodyGirl, I would end by posing a rhetorical query to you which sums up my reflections on dating. All other things being equal, "Would you rather drive a Porsche 911 or a weathered BMW"? that was a lot of big college words are you really getting any dates with women in any age group? |
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Even though he is not directing the question to the 'old, yammering bags' on this site, what he needs to hear is ....
NO -- an 18-22 year old does not want your flaccid, wrinkled up old sac! I exclusively date younger guys but even I have my cut off point of being too young. |
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Even though he is not directing the question to the 'old, yammering bags' on this site, what he needs to hear is .... NO -- an 18-22 year old does not want your flaccid, wrinkled up old sac! I exclusively date younger guys but even I have my cut off point of being too young. |
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Poor Diligent is getting raped by a wild pack of females.
I wonder what my pal Hugh Hefner would say about 18 year girls and older guys. It's not about the penis at all. It's about money, attention, attitude, and reputation |
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Mmmm..that reminds me. Has any women between the ages of 18-22 actually replied to his question here, since he was aiming it at those ages? LMAO
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