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Yea Cali
I agree Clingy and smothering I can't deal with But that's me. IMO |
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Yea Cali I agree Clingy and smothering I can't deal with But that's me. IMO |
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Are they just visiting each other? Do they live together? Perhaps they both need some alone time? Uh....the scenario I gave was that one was at the others place. That would infer not living together. If they needed alone time, they wouldn't be over is my guess. |
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I can surely be on Mingle, have the tv on listen to music and give my love one (one day hopefully) a good back massage at the same time. Not because your on the net thats the rest of the world as to stop. Yeah, let us know how THAT works for ya. |
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"Clingy" has nothing to do with it.
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I don't know. Is this a real or imaginary girlfriend? According to the OP, one could only surmise that the other person is real. |
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I don't know. Is this a real or imaginary girlfriend? According to the OP, one could only surmise that the other person is real. In that case, the computer would be off. If she felt the need to mingle while visiting I'd consider it rude and suggest that she should go home where she could feel free to begin the search for a new boyfriend. It would be an indication to me that I'm not keeping her interest. Why make her suffer? |
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I don't know. Is this a real or imaginary girlfriend? According to the OP, one could only surmise that the other person is real. Yes...in MY example the b/f,g/f are REAL. |
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Sometimes for me, its just cool to be together in silence.
Just chill, and be in company. Not there to entertain oneanother, but if you do wanna talk, or do something, everyone feels free. Eww ya know, I dont do clingy either.. Getting to know you is all well and good, but after that, i like to get on with life, and have a mutual respect with space. I dont talk on my phone all the time either. I mean.. so when were apart were sposed to be talking all the time after you get to know oneanother? I enjoy good conversation, and activities as much as the next person, but silence is nice. I know when I can sit in the same room with someone, and not have to convince them of something, we have a thing or two which is good. |
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Oh I completely agree E.T. When you hit that groove it's very nice. I'm just speaking of people who seem to be online constantly, when a b/f, g/f is over at their place. My thinking is, if you've waited soooo long for this, then go be with them.
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Is right there with you, over at your place, Why would you be on the internet? Just very curious. |
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Is right there with you, over at your place, Why would you be on the internet? Just very curious. As well there should be! I just meant when spending time together. |
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Are they just visiting each other? Do they live together? Perhaps they both need some alone time? Uh....the scenario I gave was that one was at the others place. That would infer not living together. If they needed alone time, they wouldn't be over is my guess. Well, if they're just visiting for a bit, then yes it would be strange for them to be online. |
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It depends on the couple
The two individuals who make up that couple Every couple is different Some need Some want To be constantly with each other If that works. That's good for that specific couple Some do their own thing seprate from each other Even while in the same surroundings If that works for them that's good for that specific couple That's why they are a couple Cause things work The flow is good Every couple is so different |
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Sometimes for me, its just cool to be together in silence. Just chill, and be in company. Not there to entertain oneanother, but if you do wanna talk, or do something, everyone feels free. Eww ya know, I dont do clingy either.. Getting to know you is all well and good, but after that, i like to get on with life, and have a mutual respect with space. I dont talk on my phone all the time either. I mean.. so when were apart were sposed to be talking all the time after you get to know oneanother? I enjoy good conversation, and activities as much as the next person, but silence is nice. I know when I can sit in the same room with someone, and not have to convince them of something, we have a thing or two which is good. SEEEEE!!!!!!! AGREED. |
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I think she means
Being in the same place One is on the internet One is doing whatever I think That's how I took it Maybe not |
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i guess it would depend on whether i lived with him or not. i couldn't, and wouldn't, want to spend every possible moment just with a guy (any guy) and do absolutely nothing else. even when i'm visiting robin and he's still asleep, i've logged into my email on occasion and there've been times where we've both made a few posts on a site. however, if i were strictly dating someone and invited him over for dinner one night, there's no way i'd be logging on to any site; that's just poor manners. or we'll be sitting around making out and I'll stop and say "I just had a good idea for a thread!" but she just smacks me so the idea goes away and we keep makin out |
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