Topic: So if your guy or girl
Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:40 AM
Yea Cali

I agree

Clingy and smothering I can't deal with

But that's me. IMO

no photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:40 AM

Yea Cali

I agree

Clingy and smothering I can't deal with

But that's me. IMO


drinker

auburngirl's photo
Wed 09/09/09 02:30 PM

Are they just visiting each other? Do they live together? Perhaps they both need some alone time?



Uh....the scenario I gave was that one was at the others place. That would infer not living together. If they needed alone time, they wouldn't be over is my guess.

auburngirl's photo
Wed 09/09/09 02:31 PM

I can surely be on Mingle, have the tv on listen to music and give my love one (one day hopefully) a good back massage at the same time.


Not because your on the net thats the rest of the world as to stop.


laugh laugh laugh Yeah, let us know how THAT works for ya.

auburngirl's photo
Wed 09/09/09 02:35 PM
"Clingy" has nothing to do with it. noway


Mr_Music's photo
Wed 09/09/09 02:35 PM

I don't know. Is this a real or imaginary girlfriend?


According to the OP, one could only surmise that the other person is real.

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Wed 09/09/09 03:09 PM


I don't know. Is this a real or imaginary girlfriend?


According to the OP, one could only surmise that the other person is real.



In that case, the computer would be off. If she felt the need to mingle while visiting I'd consider it rude and suggest that she should go home where she could feel free to begin the search for a new boyfriend. It would be an indication to me that I'm not keeping her interest. Why make her suffer?


auburngirl's photo
Wed 09/09/09 03:10 PM


I don't know. Is this a real or imaginary girlfriend?


According to the OP, one could only surmise that the other person is real.


laugh laugh laugh Yes...in MY example the b/f,g/f are REAL.

earthytaurus76's photo
Wed 09/09/09 03:18 PM
Sometimes for me, its just cool to be together in silence.


Just chill, and be in company.

Not there to entertain oneanother, but if you do wanna talk, or do something, everyone feels free.


Eww ya know, I dont do clingy either..


Getting to know you is all well and good, but after that, i like to get on with life, and have a mutual respect with space. I dont talk on my phone all the time either.


I mean.. so when were apart were sposed to be talking all the time after you get to know oneanother?

I enjoy good conversation, and activities as much as the next person, but silence is nice. I know when I can sit in the same room with someone, and not have to convince them of something, we have a thing or two which is good.

auburngirl's photo
Wed 09/09/09 03:20 PM
Oh I completely agree E.T. When you hit that groove it's very nice. I'm just speaking of people who seem to be online constantly, when a b/f, g/f is over at their place. My thinking is, if you've waited soooo long for this, then go be with them.

RKISIT's photo
Wed 09/09/09 03:50 PM

Is right there with you, over at your place, Why would you be on the internet? Just very curious.
there are other things i enjoy doing besides her....:smile:

auburngirl's photo
Wed 09/09/09 03:52 PM


Is right there with you, over at your place, Why would you be on the internet? Just very curious.
there are other things i enjoy doing besides her....:smile:


laugh laugh As well there should be! I just meant when spending time together. laugh laugh

no photo
Wed 09/09/09 04:15 PM


Are they just visiting each other? Do they live together? Perhaps they both need some alone time?



Uh....the scenario I gave was that one was at the others place. That would infer not living together. If they needed alone time, they wouldn't be over is my guess.


Well, if they're just visiting for a bit, then yes it would be strange for them to be online.

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 09/09/09 04:29 PM
It depends on the couple

The two individuals who make up that couple

Every couple is different

Some need
Some want

To be constantly with each other

If that works. That's good for that specific couple

Some do their own thing seprate from each other
Even while in the same surroundings

If that works for them that's good for that specific couple

That's why they are a couple

Cause things work
The flow is good

Every couple is so different

auburngirl's photo
Wed 09/09/09 04:30 PM
right

Mr_Music's photo
Wed 09/09/09 04:34 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Z5IIps2Ha0

auburngirl's photo
Wed 09/09/09 04:35 PM


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

no photo
Wed 09/09/09 06:22 PM

Sometimes for me, its just cool to be together in silence.


Just chill, and be in company.

Not there to entertain oneanother, but if you do wanna talk, or do something, everyone feels free.


Eww ya know, I dont do clingy either..


Getting to know you is all well and good, but after that, i like to get on with life, and have a mutual respect with space. I dont talk on my phone all the time either.


I mean.. so when were apart were sposed to be talking all the time after you get to know oneanother?

I enjoy good conversation, and activities as much as the next person, but silence is nice. I know when I can sit in the same room with someone, and not have to convince them of something, we have a thing or two which is good.


SEEEEE!!!!!!! AGREED.

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 09/09/09 06:25 PM
I think she means

Being in the same place

One is on the internet

One is doing whatever

I think

That's how I took it

Maybe not

Quietman_2009's photo
Wed 09/09/09 07:14 PM

i guess it would depend on whether i lived with him or not.

i couldn't, and wouldn't, want to spend every possible moment just with a guy (any guy) and do absolutely nothing else.

even when i'm visiting robin and he's still asleep, i've logged into my email on occasion and there've been times where we've both made a few posts on a site.

however, if i were strictly dating someone and invited him over for dinner one night, there's no way i'd be logging on to any site; that's just poor manners.


or we'll be sitting around making out and I'll stop and say "I just had a good idea for a thread!"

but she just smacks me so the idea goes away and we keep makin out