I want to Improve mine...thanks for your help.
John

Know yourself & appreciate who are.

thats a start.

do something to make yourself feel good like join a gym, eat healthier,
etc.
then keep telling yourself you are worth it.

Lots of good self-help books out there.
Read 30 min. everyday.
Might surprise yourself.

if i dont look in mirrors i feel fine.when i do i scare myself its to
late for cosmetics. box on reguardless.

I broke every mirror in the house.

FAAAArrrrout greyhound plastic surgery and a good dentist might be the
best help you can get.the red eyes well thats just the cameras fault
.

Self image is a tough one to change but they say it can be done. You
have to change the tapes in your head for starter and the best way to do
that is by doing something physical that makes you feel good about
yourself.. example start running or working out with weights, as your
body changes and you feel good, you say the right things to yourself to
feel better. I know it sounds silly but it really works. Just have to
apply it to whatever it is about your image you want to
change.

First of all...Figure out who you are in your own mind first!!!!! Do you
let outside things such as your job or other things define who you
are??????

Do other people's opinions matter about who you are more than your
own???????

Self-image....self-esteem and self-love go hand in hand...Once you are
confident in who you are and accept who you are flaws and
all......Self-love....Others will too!!!!!!!!!!!

Good Luck!!!!!!!

Dunno still trying.

wow thanks to all of you !!

Go train at an MMA gym, you dont have to be a fighter to train and
chicks dig it.

Reading self help books and listening to tapes is a good start. Also,
there are plenty of good counselors and therapists out there who can
help you to see your good points and build a strong self image.

Good luck to you and best wishes from SheNerd :)

journal thoughts and discover your inner you....



you would be amazed at what you will discover about yourself...


when u do it daily

Well sit and think of what it is that causing the concern. The things
you can change...do it! Such as weight, smoking/ drinking habits. The
things you can not change ...embrace them. They are what make you!

Not to sound like a pessimist but things can always be worse. Thats how
I think and even though times may get tough....I always think "things
can always be worse"...and try to be grateful for what I do have.

I can't say I have good health...

But I can see, I can hear, I can walk, I have my arms, etc.

Give yourself pep talks!

Hi, John.

I just looked at your profile -- nothing there to suggest why you might
be concerned about your self-image....

Can you say more about why you are concerned?

Oceans
Suzuki Bandit 1200S, here.

Get a haircut

Oceans..well ... I am begenning to think that the relationships that I
have been in may have gone bad cause of me. Even though all my friends
say that I am a weirdo magnet.
John

the first thing to do is really like who you are now
then make a deal with yourself to improve on what you can
and accept what you cant improve then you will have inner peace
which naturally improves you when you aint even lookin