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Topic: First Date Tips...got any?
franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 09/04/09 10:04 AM
first of all pick her up. dont have her pick u up or meet u at your place of rest. No, I do not want you knowing where I live on the first date. second/ bring a gift flowers, always works or chocolates, No, do not bring me a gift. You don't know me. Just be ON TIME. third/ take her somewhere your well known women love a man that knows his surroundings and control the out come with out being controling. like for instence ..hey we should try this.. Meet me somewhere on NUETRAL ground, I'm not interested in a paisan. The main requirement is that it be easy to find. forth/ compliment but never to much when u compliment to much they think your being a kiss ***. be honest i found woman likes a man to be blunt with certain things. for instance....why did you wear soo much make up your beutifull naturally... HELL F-ING NO FREAKING WAY!!!!! This is classic pick-up artist crapola, clearly designed to insult a woman with the impression you are complimenting her. If you denigrade me on a date, I will never see you again. fifth/ and most important never kiss on the first date or have sex make them feel your not that needy. and always be a gentalmen no spitting burping curseing ect.....good luck and be yourself without completely being yourself. I will kiss on the first date. That should be a mutual decision. As for the being yourself without completely being yourself... huh?

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 09/04/09 10:04 AM Edited by franshade on Fri 09/04/09 10:05 AM
What would be a great idea for a first date? How do you break the ice? first of all pick her up. dont have her pick u up or meet u at your place of rest. second/ bring a gift flowers, always works or chocolates, third/ take her somewhere your well known women love a man that knows his surroundings and control the out come with out being controling. like for instence ..hey we should try this..forth/ compliment but never to much when u compliment to much they think your being a kiss ***. be honest i found woman likes a man to be blunt with certain things. for instance....why did you wear soo much make up your beutifull naturally...fifth/ and most important never kiss on the first date or have sex make them feel your not that needy. and always be a gentalmen no spitting burping curseing ect.....good luck and be yourself without completely being yourself. woohooo

tonysosa1 Joined Sat 06/06/09 Posts: 510	Fri 09/04/09 10:06 AM
first of all pick her up. dont have her pick u up or meet u at your place of rest. No, I do not want you knowing where I live on the first date. so i guess old style shivelry is out of style you always pick up a woman at her house you never make her go out the way to meet you she should be treated as a princess second/ bring a gift flowers, always works or chocolates, No, do not bring me a gift. You don't know me. Just be ON TIME. a gift is a gester of apreciation for the woman even considering going out with the man.always except a gift its rude not 2 third/ take her somewhere your well known women love a man that knows his surroundings and control the out come with out being controling. like for instence ..hey we should try this.. Meet me somewhere on NUETRAL ground, I'm not interested in a paisan. The main requirement is that it be easy to find. woman like when you have a plan not when you say where do you wanna go woman uselly get annoyed by that question and always say wherever you want to go.so always plan ahead forth/ compliment but never to much when u compliment to much they think your being a kiss ***. be honest i found woman likes a man to be blunt with certain things. for instance....why did you wear soo much make up your beutifull naturally... HELL F-ING NO FREAKING WAY!!!!! This is classic pick-up artist crapola, clearly designed to insult a woman with the impression you are complimenting her. If you denigrade me on a date, I will never see you again. honesty is always the way to a womans heart if your honest on a date they feel you might be honest in a relaitionship with them BEEE REALLLL FROM THE BEGINNING.... fifth/ and most important never kiss on the first date or have sex make them feel your not that needy. and always be a gentalmen no spitting burping curseing ect.....good luck and be yourself without completely being yourself. I will kiss on the first date. That should be a mutual decision. As for the being yourself without completely being yourself... huh? LOL THEN YOU CALL US SLU.. AND HO.. GET TO KNOW THE PERSON FIRST THERE PROTECTED SEX BUT THERES NO PROTECTION FROM HERPE SIMPLEX1 AND MONOY.....

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 09/04/09 10:09 AM
Good gravy!!! I simply disagreed with your post. I gave my opinion, as you gave yours. First you tell me I must like liars, then you call me a slut because I kiss on a first date? I'm not even quite sure what STD's you are referring to. Do you know? Slow your roll, dude. It's okay for a person to disagree with you. You seem pretty upset as you've posted twice now. Calm down.

IntriguingVictory Joined Sun 08/23/09 Posts: 2206	Fri 09/04/09 10:11 AM
Good gravy!!! I simply disagreed with your post. I gave my opinion, as you gave yours. First you tell me I must like liars, then you call me a slut because I kiss on a first date? I'm not even quite sure what STD's you are referring to. Do you know? Slow your roll, dude. It's okay for a person to disagree with you. You seem pretty upset as you've posted twice now. Calm down. Good Gravy! ? I don't know if I have ever heard that. My goal is to use that today. Good Gravy!

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 09/04/09 10:12 AM
My sister uses good gravy. I stole it from her... she has way more tact than I!

johnboy072472 Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 4874	Fri 09/04/09 10:17 AM
and be sure to show her you can do the "a,b,c's with a visual demonstration with your tongue. Then offer her a 40 oz Schlitz. Where have u been all my life!!!!

mo_muirnin Joined Tue 08/25/09 Posts: 539	Fri 09/04/09 10:19 AM
I haven't had a date in 2 years,but if I remember right a first date you do this: 1. say hi 2. Other person says hi 3. Talk about how good looking they are from the pictures online 4. Laugh at that joke.... 5. Have a good minute of awkward silence 6. Ask them if they'd like to go do something fun 7. Have a drink 8. Have a few drinks 9. Talk and laugh to each other 10. Either go home or go to their place I think thats a pretty good 1st date.

tonysosa1 Joined Sat 06/06/09 Posts: 510	Fri 09/04/09 10:23 AM
Good gravy!!! I simply disagreed with your post. I gave my opinion, as you gave yours. First you tell me I must like liars, then you call me a slut because I kiss on a first date? I'm not even quite sure what STD's you are referring to. Do you know? Slow your roll, dude. It's okay for a person to disagree with you. You seem pretty upset as you've posted twice now. Calm down. MAD NEVER THAT JUST PROVEING MY POINT AND I DIDNT MEEN IT THAT WAY I MEANT WOMAN LOVE TO CALL US THOSE THINGS WHEN WE REPLY IN THAT MANNER ALL IS WELL LILITH

johnboy072472 Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 4874	Fri 09/04/09 10:25 AM Edited by johnboy072472 on Fri 09/04/09 10:39 AM
Make sure you take her somewhere that has good gravy.....

tonysosa1 Joined Sat 06/06/09 Posts: 510	Fri 09/04/09 10:30 AM
U CAN DO THAT 4 ME

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 09/04/09 10:37 AM
What would be a great idea for a first date? How do you break the ice? first of all pick her up. dont have her pick u up or meet u at your place of rest. second/ bring a gift flowers, always works or chocolates, third/ take her somewhere your well known women love a man that knows his surroundings and control the out come with out being controling. like for instence ..hey we should try this..forth/ compliment but never to much when u compliment to much they think your being a kiss ***. be honest i found woman likes a man to be blunt with certain things. for instance....why did you wear soo much make up your beutifull naturally...fifth/ and most important never kiss on the first date or have sex make them feel your not that needy. and always be a gentalmen no spitting burping curseing ect.....good luck and be yourself without completely being yourself. For a first date, it's usually a good idea for both people to meet at the place they're going to. Not sure why it would have to be a place where the guy is well known, though. And no, complimenting a woman by telling her she's wearing too much makeup is probably not a good idea. Also, how do you be yourself without completely being yourself?

tonysosa1 Joined Sat 06/06/09 Posts: 510	Fri 09/04/09 10:45 AM
What would be a great idea for a first date? How do you break the ice? first of all pick her up. dont have her pick u up or meet u at your place of rest. second/ bring a gift flowers, always works or chocolates, third/ take her somewhere your well known women love a man that knows his surroundings and control the out come with out being controling. like for instence ..hey we should try this..forth/ compliment but never to much when u compliment to much they think your being a kiss ***. be honest i found woman likes a man to be blunt with certain things. for instance....why did you wear soo much make up your beutifull naturally...fifth/ and most important never kiss on the first date or have sex make them feel your not that needy. and always be a gentalmen no spitting burping curseing ect.....good luck and be yourself without completely being yourself. For a first date, it's usually a good idea for both people to meet at the place they're going to. Not sure why it would have to be a place where the guy is well known, though. And no, complimenting a woman by telling her she's wearing too much makeup is probably not a good idea. Also, how do you be yourself without completely being yourself? its like the animal kingdom woman are uselly attracted to the more popular and stronger male almost always and when i say be yourself but not completely i mean if some men were to completely be them selves they would say things im sure the woman wouldnt like come on honestly speeking most of the time men have one thing on there mind and im not saying me but you know wat i mean lollol

mo_muirnin Joined Tue 08/25/09 Posts: 539	Fri 09/04/09 10:52 AM
What would be a great idea for a first date? How do you break the ice? first of all pick her up. dont have her pick u up or meet u at your place of rest. second/ bring a gift flowers, always works or chocolates, third/ take her somewhere your well known women love a man that knows his surroundings and control the out come with out being controling. like for instence ..hey we should try this..forth/ compliment but never to much when u compliment to much they think your being a kiss ***. be honest i found woman likes a man to be blunt with certain things. for instance....why did you wear soo much make up your beutifull naturally...fifth/ and most important never kiss on the first date or have sex make them feel your not that needy. and always be a gentalmen no spitting burping curseing ect.....good luck and be yourself without completely being yourself. For a first date, it's usually a good idea for both people to meet at the place they're going to. Not sure why it would have to be a place where the guy is well known, though. And no, complimenting a woman by telling her she's wearing too much makeup is probably not a good idea. Also, how do you be yourself without completely being yourself? its like the animal kingdom woman are uselly attracted to the more popular and stronger male almost always and when i say be yourself but not completely i mean if some men were to completely be them selves they would say things im sure the woman wouldnt like come on honestly speeking most of the time men have one thing on there mind and im not saying me but you know wat i mean lollol Thats rediculous to say women are usually attracted to the more popular and stronger male...dude, this isn't high school...no one cares about popularity. And to meet the guy at the place he is well known, wth does that have anything to do - you always meet the person half way...If women met the guy that they were well known at-that would end up either being their house, their friend's house or the bar. Yeah, I don't think so. No matter what way your meeting anyone you should always be yourself. And yeah, telling a woman she's wearing too much make up isn't a compliment, that's being controlling. You want to compliment, why not tell her how pretty she looks or the fact that she even got off her butt to meet you in the first place. LOL! And a hint of Advice, all women known that men have sex on their mind. In fact you don't have to believe it, but a majority of women also have that on their mind, we're just better at hiding that.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 09/04/09 10:54 AM
What would be a great idea for a first date? How do you break the ice? first of all pick her up. dont have her pick u up or meet u at your place of rest. second/ bring a gift flowers, always works or chocolates, third/ take her somewhere your well known women love a man that knows his surroundings and control the out come with out being controling. like for instence ..hey we should try this..forth/ compliment but never to much when u compliment to much they think your being a kiss ***. be honest i found woman likes a man to be blunt with certain things. for instance....why did you wear soo much make up your beutifull naturally...fifth/ and most important never kiss on the first date or have sex make them feel your not that needy. and always be a gentalmen no spitting burping curseing ect.....good luck and be yourself without completely being yourself. For a first date, it's usually a good idea for both people to meet at the place they're going to. Not sure why it would have to be a place where the guy is well known, though. And no, complimenting a woman by telling her she's wearing too much makeup is probably not a good idea. Also, how do you be yourself without completely being yourself? its like the animal kingdom woman are uselly attracted to the more popular and stronger male almost always and when i say be yourself but not completely i mean if some men were to completely be them selves they would say things im sure the woman wouldnt like come on honestly speeking most of the time men have one thing on there mind and im not saying me but you know wat i mean lollol I can't speak for other women, but I'm not attracted to men based on how popular and strong they are.

johnboy072472 Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 4874	Fri 09/04/09 10:58 AM
Hmmmm.... sex...... What was the topic agian????

mo_muirnin Joined Tue 08/25/09 Posts: 539	Fri 09/04/09 10:58 AM
What would be a great idea for a first date? How do you break the ice? first of all pick her up. dont have her pick u up or meet u at your place of rest. second/ bring a gift flowers, always works or chocolates, third/ take her somewhere your well known women love a man that knows his surroundings and control the out come with out being controling. like for instence ..hey we should try this..forth/ compliment but never to much when u compliment to much they think your being a kiss ***. be honest i found woman likes a man to be blunt with certain things. for instance....why did you wear soo much make up your beutifull naturally...fifth/ and most important never kiss on the first date or have sex make them feel your not that needy. and always be a gentalmen no spitting burping curseing ect.....good luck and be yourself without completely being yourself. For a first date, it's usually a good idea for both people to meet at the place they're going to. Not sure why it would have to be a place where the guy is well known, though. And no, complimenting a woman by telling her she's wearing too much makeup is probably not a good idea. Also, how do you be yourself without completely being yourself? its like the animal kingdom woman are uselly attracted to the more popular and stronger male almost always and when i say be yourself but not completely i mean if some men were to completely be them selves they would say things im sure the woman wouldnt like come on honestly speeking most of the time men have one thing on there mind and im not saying me but you know wat i mean lollol I can't speak for other women, but I'm not attracted to men based on how popular and strong they are. same..sounds like he's got an EGO that never got shot down!

tonysosa1 Joined Sat 06/06/09 Posts: 510	Fri 09/04/09 11:02 AM
well we have are own oppinions but its fun to despute over it and im a performer in clubs i uselly take my dates to the club and they love when they shout me out or everyones saying hi but i guess thats the woman ive tookin out some do not apply

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 09/04/09 11:03 AM
well we have are own oppinions but its fun to despute over it and im a performer in clubs i uselly take my dates to the club and they love when they shout me out or everyones saying hi but i guess thats the woman ive tookin out some do not apply Yes, that's the type of women you go for. I'd never want to go to a club on a first date.

tonysosa1 Joined Sat 06/06/09 Posts: 510	Fri 09/04/09 11:04 AM
and i dont have an ego im actually very shy im going by wat ive seen ive never aproached a woman so there for i dnt intend on gettin shot down nice try tho lol