public forums comes with lots of ladies with strong opinions.

yeah bro, no problem. all guys get themselves in **** like this sometime in their lives. women just dont understand it.

I don't think the majority of women on this site are ruthless. Those who are here to possibly meet someone are, however, in search of independent, intelligent men who can stand on their own two feet with their spine fully intact.

If asking for a public opinion causes a person to get defensive then they should NOT ask for a public opinion; said opinions are not always what we want to hear.

The comments made usually come from a tough love perspective though.

Sure it happens that way no doubt about it but then why try to use the weight issue as the problem why just not admit that it was not what one wanted and move on. Why make the other look bad in the long run?

yeah i know but have you seen the show cheaters and tool academy,im ready adopt 5 cats and be happy by myself lol

Quit lookin for free sex go to the local HO corner, pay ur money an u won't have no problems.

The worst is yet to come, I'm sure my cells battery will run out of juice tonight from her texts lol.

What is to understand about someone not being proactive and making good decisions in their life? How many lessons does one have to learn before they start to smarten up?

My comment is made in general to your general statement that "women just don't understand".

and crab lice!heya red!

It's not about bein ruthless Hun. We're bein straight forward an honest with him.

Wasn't it Jack who said....You can't handle the truth

yeah, i get where your coming from. alongside everyone else whos contributed to this convo. yours just stood out with the emote + your hot, so you know i have to return the favor.

No. Move on if you don't like it

Oops--looks like I arrived late to this party!

Hey Bee!


I'm gonna be really blunt here so pull up ur britches boys. When u go to the bar lookin to score, U buy the gurl u got ur eye on a few drinks right? Or u take her out for dinner right? Save urself the aggravation u seem to encounter with this behavior an just go find urself a prostitute. Ur gonna spend the money anyway. Then there's no hassle. Ain't no such thing as "free sex"

That's been my philosophy for years!!!!

You do not pay a hooker for sex.....You pay them so they will leave when you're done.....

pull up your britches and get a spine..word

What amazes me is to say women don't understand but when women give their opinion on a situation from their perspective of the issue which involves a woman and most likely how she would feel. Then we don't understand.............hummmm so pray tell I guess now men are going to tell women how they feel as well. Shshshsh why even ask a question wanting feed back if ya'll already know how we feel???

your seeing everything one sided. not everyone is the same and not everyone is going to make the same choices. judging someone for doing what they do isnt right. has nothing to do with smartening up, because everyone makes mistakes as an imperfect being each and everyday. he just chose a different route by asking for help on a public forum. and you should know what i meant by women dont understand, because thats a proven fact - women dont understand men and why they like what they like or why they do what they do. same goes for women - unless your trying to say each sex is the same in all aspects.

Most major cities have escort services. For what u pay on drinks or dinner, U could just get urself an escort, get u some sex an hey! She leaves when ur done an u never have to hear from her again. It ain't rocket science.

i mean geebus!if your werent attracted to her then why did you even ask her out for a second date.point is you dont like her that way leave have the balls and the spine to break it off with her in a mature way.then get a hooker and have fun with the crab lice!

this isnt about me, just like you and everyone else i put in my 2 cents. however it was what appeared to be him getting ragged on by 3-4 angry women. (i love women, dont get me wrong) and no, i would never put myself in that type of situation and yes i do have the guts to tell any women off because i speak my mind no matter what anyone thinks or says. back to the topic at hand, dude if your still out there i never did answer your question, but like the women have said, id just tell her how it is. your not attracted to her, your sorry you waste her and your time and move on.