How life is so f'd up? You think you have it all figured out and then it bites you in the *** and makes you realize that you are clueless.I joined this site because of one failed relationship. I have been in love only one time and wonder how anyone can withstand the hardships of a breakup on a consistent basis. I question myself why I go on a site and what is my motive? Is it appealing because the majority of the peoople on here have had similar hardships? I dont know. It's crazy to think that so many good people have been burned but it made me think ... are we setting ourselves up to get burned? Sometimes when you want something so bad you convince yourself that you have something that really doesn't exsist.

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/242456

Same as in General?

Apparently he didn't think the point would get across over there.

I guess not.......maybe different people read the threads in here than do in there???

Yes I posted this twice...the more opinions the better

Same people reading both forums, at this time of night though.

Your 25 years old.... WTF.

My 25 year old son is traveling the country, having a blast, meeting people..

Your way too young to be feeling sooo defeated, lighten up.

Wait till your my age and still single then ya have something to b!tch about

Im not depressed by any means. I think its a subject that people blow off and just accept it for what it is. Im just expressing my opinion on the subject... its not a cry for help.

p.s iv'e already traveled europe and look forward to doing it again!

Patience grasshopper