I'm totally a nice guy, but the problem I have getting women to notice me is this; I have very low self worth and no self esteem. Those two mixed together will hinder any progress I make with any woman.

yeah probably....

I have so many mental issues that it would take a whole thread to post them all

ut oh, that might make women interested, we like men with "issues"

It's not always about being a nice guy that matters, girls like confidence in a man. Although a lot of girls digs the jerks,that's because they are confident in being an *** that comes natural.


I'm a nice guy and the ladies my age are more into having fun and going to parties etc. I don't care about parties, right now I'm more concern in my career and working on life.

So in a way nice guys sorta do finish last. :P, but being last isn't always a bad thing.

Wow.

Just read posting history.

WOWSERS.

I usually find the "nice guys" to be the true jerks

Nice Guy thread

this was for Calleigh12 comment:

lol, because woman love drama :P

how so?

They are never what they appear to be as you find out in the later part of the relationship.

Most guys that go around calling themselves "Nice Guy" usually turn out to be not very nice at all

Exactly

I keep a handy dandy old post in my docs for such threads, as they appear often. This post is not referring to you, but rather goes towards generalities of such discussions. Here is my stance, and a summary of these type threads:
1. If a guy isn't into a girl, he says he is not looking for a relationship.
2. If a girl isn't that into a guy, she says he is too nice.
3. Nice doesn't really mean nice.
4. All men and women are different, not to be lumped together.
5. If you keep meeting the same types of girls and guys.... it's not them, it's YOU.


To add onto number 3: That was an understatement.

well I was a real jerk till I met my doll, she turned me into a church goer, good deed doer, And I thank her for it!!!

i like that lol. reminds me of a movie i saw :P