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Dont fret, the alternative in my experience is a million emails from people youd never consider. Yeah, those are good too. Especially when they KNOW you'd never consider them, and they want to argue about it. |
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Dont fret, the alternative in my experience is a million emails from people youd never consider. Yeah, those are good too. Especially when they KNOW you'd never consider them, and they want to argue about it. Im at my Moms, and she laughed at that too. |
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It's not you. They cannot reject you because they don't know you. What they are rejecting is what you are saying in your messages. So, think of something differant to say. If the fish aren't biting, change your bait. Find a new hole, change your lure, and keep casting bro. Maybe its you. Maybe you dont know what you are fishing for. Maybe you are trying to catch a monster bass but are using croppie bait. |
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It's not you. They cannot reject you because they don't know you. What they are rejecting is what you are saying in your messages. So, think of something differant to say. If the fish aren't biting, change your bait. Find a new hole, change your lure, and keep casting bro. Maybe its you. Maybe you dont know what you are fishing for. Maybe you are trying to catch a monster bass but are using croppie bait. Or crappy bait. |
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Well, so far I have been on mingle for a while now but I have yet to actually meet anyone. What surprises me even more is that I have yet to really get past the luke warm emails or even worst scammers. Now I am really curious, Am I total bastard or what? I am curious! Now I know I am not advocating driving around squashing little animals or trying to form a group of Manson like nutbags, I am not a cultist or religiously affiliated especially to the extreme where "I love Jesus" or even more extreme a Zealot. I sure have not been spitting on people. I know I am an EOO (Equal Opportunity Offender, I piss everyone off at some time or another without regard to race creed sex etc.). So what is it going to take to actually begin to meet women here? Wrap myself in $100 bills and tell everyone I am Bill Gates? God for as rich as he is he is still a total CHOAD! I'd rather be poor and have a good personality and get along with people! So WTF! What exactly am I doing wrong? Who the heck did I piss off? This has been my morning rant. Thank you for your patronage. IN advance I also thank those of you for playing your tiny violins for me. All sympathy appreciated. All snide comments even more appreciated! |
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Now wait a minute here!!! I thought Dan99 was suppose to be the bastard here!!!! You know like Phuque is the hottie, (well one of them) And Old Sage is the silver fox , Rupunzel is super patriotic and nice , And im the pervert!!! Did I miss a memo being gone so much, or what? Oh and BTW, Dan is not a bastard....he just plays one on Mingle...heehee. |
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Put that picture up of (you) doing the tango.
That has to be your new in. The Tango is going to find you a hot momma |
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Well, I'm sorry but you have to talk to people to ask them out. What are your mails like? Why are they lukewarm? I just got one that said I was the most beautiful woman he'd ever seem. My reply? MmmmK. I'm with you on that, got one today that said "you're drop dead gorgeous" wanna be my LTP...uh hello. It is probably the same guy that hit you up. Sheesh |
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I'm with you on that, got one today that said "you're drop dead gorgeous" wanna be my LTP...uh hello. It is probably the same guy that hit you up. Sheesh Hey, it wasn't me. Why didn't I think of that first? |
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Well, I'm sorry but you have to talk to people to ask them out. What are your mails like? Why are they lukewarm? I just got one that said I was the most beautiful woman he'd ever seem. My reply? MmmmK. I'm with you on that, got one today that said "you're drop dead gorgeous" wanna be my LTP...uh hello. It is probably the same guy that hit you up. Sheesh WHAT!!! You mean they dont really mean it when they say that your the most stunning thing to hit the planet!!! Chit! |
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Well, I'm sorry but you have to talk to people to ask them out. What are your mails like? Why are they lukewarm? I just got one that said I was the most beautiful woman he'd ever seem. My reply? MmmmK. I'm with you on that, got one today that said "you're drop dead gorgeous" wanna be my LTP...uh hello. It is probably the same guy that hit you up. Sheesh WHAT!!! You mean they dont really mean it when they say that your the most stunning thing to hit the planet!!! Chit! I know right! Iceholes |
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Well, I'm sorry but you have to talk to people to ask them out. What are your mails like? Why are they lukewarm? I just got one that said I was the most beautiful woman he'd ever seem. My reply? MmmmK. I'm with you on that, got one today that said "you're drop dead gorgeous" wanna be my LTP...uh hello. It is probably the same guy that hit you up. Sheesh WHAT!!! You mean they dont really mean it when they say that your the most stunning thing to hit the planet!!! Chit! I know right! Iceholes Maybe its a mans payback for all the faked orgasms. |
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I don't think your a bastard
Think your quite funny Just keep trying! |
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Andy, I rather enjoy ur witty posts. Now quit ur whinin an act like u got a pair
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I know whats really going on here...
Andys trying to get a spanking!!!! Sorry babe, im booked till Tuesday ...heehee. |
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Well, so far I have been on mingle for a while now but I have yet to actually meet anyone. What surprises me even more is that I have yet to really get past the luke warm emails or even worst scammers. Now I am really curious, Am I total bastard or what? I am curious! Now I know I am not advocating driving around squashing little animals or trying to form a group of Manson like nutbags, I am not a cultist or religiously affiliated especially to the extreme where "I love Jesus" or even more extreme a Zealot. I sure have not been spitting on people. I know I am an EOO (Equal Opportunity Offender, I piss everyone off at some time or another without regard to race creed sex etc.). So what is it going to take to actually begin to meet women here? Wrap myself in $100 bills and tell everyone I am Bill Gates? God for as rich as he is he is still a total CHOAD! I'd rather be poor and have a good personality and get along with people! So WTF! What exactly am I doing wrong? Who the heck did I piss off? SEE? Here's the thing.... you have never taken a stand on anything. Go ahead, join a cult, punch some bunnies, do whatever it is to make your statement! Most women do not like men who don't let their yeas be yeas and their nays be nays... Oh yah, and lie to them.. tell them you are Bill Gates, what do you have to lose? This has been my morning rant. Thank you for your patronage. IN advance I also thank those of you for playing your tiny violins for me. All sympathy appreciated. All snide comments even more appreciated! |
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I'm with you on that, got one today that said "you're drop dead gorgeous" wanna be my LTP...uh hello. It is probably the same guy that hit you up. Sheesh Hey, it wasn't me. Why didn't I think of that first? |
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Well, I'm sorry but you have to talk to people to ask them out. What are your mails like? Why are they lukewarm? I just got one that said I was the most beautiful woman he'd ever seem. My reply? MmmmK. I'm with you on that, got one today that said "you're drop dead gorgeous" wanna be my LTP...uh hello. It is probably the same guy that hit you up. Sheesh WHAT!!! You mean they dont really mean it when they say that your the most stunning thing to hit the planet!!! Chit! I know right! Iceholes Maybe its a mans payback for all the faked orgasms. Me, fake an orgasm... |
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I don't think your a bastard Think your quite funny Just keep trying! Ditto! |
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Oddly I am clear about my lack of religion because I would vastly prefer to be involved with a woman that was not religious in as much as Spiritual. I get along with Wiccans fine. I got along with people of alternative faith practices better than others of the more established "accepted" faiths mostly because of one issue alone, I will not accept Jesus into my life. I grew up in a Lutheran environment and studied the Bible in detail. Then I went to Catholic High School. Between that and my father becoming a Born Again Christian and not one of the calm sedate ones, he went full on cult 'speaking in tongues' weirdness. I swear given the chance his group would have danced around with rattle snakes too! Then I dated a girl who was Mormon for one month. She wanted me to convert something fierce. I am not saying religion is bad per say, if it makes people happy then it has a positive side as long as they are not out forcing it on others. I honestly could care less if she was a Satanic as long as I get to be ME. I am not out to change anyone. I don't WANT to change anyone.
All I really want is some honesty and a lack of worry and for for a change. Personally I think the one greatest failing of the Family as we understand it is that it takes work to make a happy family. Marriage was supposed to be a life time thing. Now it is just a formality. Family is not paper. It is two people coming together as more than allies in life. Man I could go on about this for days on end and still not sum up how I feel in one sentence let alone a thousand. It makes life easier to take when you are not facing it alone! I think the greatest sin and I have experienced this is being involved with someone and feeling just as alone as when I really am alone. THAT sucks the worst hands down! |
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