Topic: Trying too HARD? | |
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well I'm ok with being alone but I do get lonely at times. It depends
what you think a man will bring you in a relationship. It seems you are looking for a man to fulfill you but I think only you can do that and learn to love yourself first. Then, when you have all that you won't just settle for someone just because you are lonely |
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Gypsy...
I think for some reason there is a part of me that thinks a man will "fill a void". There is a definate longing for someone. Lex... I was only married for 2 1/2 years because I settled. He was not what I wanted, and he was not willing to compromise. To me, a relationship takes work, when it is one sided, it won't last, and it didn't. Thanks for listening... -Joanne |
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i always try too hard..if ididnt try hard enough it would be alot
worse...desperate no because it would make me feel weak and sad you dont need a date/relationship in desperation u need for improvements in reality...even if u r lonely just control yourself its much better dont put words like desperate in your head it hurts no? "comb your hair ey" hahah |
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Sean...
Believe me when I tell you....that I am definately trying NOT to feel desperate....anymore. Thanks for the advise |
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i'm not desperate I dont need a date till say next week
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