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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..........you gonna let some idiot treat you like that ??? why??? because you are used to it?????????? fuggggggggggggggggggg that ****!!!! Yeah, Gyps, haven't figured out how to get the "kick me" sign off my back yet, but I am working on it. Thanks for your help, girl. The last one was even better, told me he had just found out he was "sick, very sick, and didn't want to burden me, so isn't talking to me anymore, is going to be alone the rest of his life, and I need a healthy man in my life, etc." yet the lying weasel is online talking to women for hours every day. I swear, they sure do crawl out from under the rocks, don't they???? |
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As a generalization of mine, truck drivers are like loner ship captains. This guy has a dramatic side, to be sure. I don't know your entire situation. I certainly haven't heard his perspective. I can't make any sort of reasonable judgement here. True, you don't know his side. I just know he was getting more and more controlling. I work a 2nd job, typing at home at night. And at times he would call when I was working, I would tell him I was working and had to get the work done and he would get mad when I tried to hang the phone up, that kind of thing. One night he kept me on the phone for over an hour when I needed to be typing because every time I tried to hang up, he got angry, and I stayed on the phone just to keep him from getting more angry, stupid, I know. That is when I knew I was on a dead-end with this guy and he was manipulating and controlling. The name calling was the breaker though. Did he think you were a baby sitting sevice? Sometimes I wondered.... |
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Whats more amazing is why you have continued any type of contact at all after the first go-around.
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Whats more amazing is why you have continued any type of contact at all after the first go-around. Haven't figured that one out myself, maybe boredom, loneliness, wanted to see what he was really like??? Really not sure. But I gave him enough rope and he has hung himself this time. |
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the reasons our lessons are repeated is so we can practice what we`ve learned,..there is no shame in that,.
but give yourself a pat on the back for recognizing that this relationship might not be good for you,.and ending it,.. there is a certain fatal attraction to the kind of behaviour he`s omitting,..probably very exciting,..& maybe a little dangerous,.. and as far as falling for this type,.. realize that this type of attraction may have develped over a long period of time growing up,..if you were surrounded by chaos in life,..it`s becomes an addition of sorts and not only do you respond to it,.sometimes it`s the only thing that makes you feel alive,.. |
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The last one was even better, told me he had just found out he was "sick, very sick, and didn't want to burden me, so isn't talking to me anymore, is going to be alone the rest of his life, and I need a healthy man in my life, etc." yet the lying weasel is online talking to women for hours every day. I swear, they sure do crawl out from under the rocks, don't they???? Sick in the head more like. I "met" one of those on here.............Yet he had the energy to chase after girls half his age! |
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Edited by
earthytaurus76
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Sat 08/22/09 03:58 AM
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uhhh BLOCKKKK!!!!
Some stupid guy emailed me today with some crap about YOU HAVE TO LIKE FOOTBALL or to that affect in the subject line, and then hassled me because in my profile I say I hate sports, and he says I live in Texas so I have to like it.. uhh no thanks, ill date a non-english speaking migrant worker first! And then he envited me to a Buccaneers game... He also lives in Florida, whatever dude, get a life, and spare me the email. *rolls eyes* |
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Oh I'm sorry Marie.....and glad you are getting rid of the arsewipe. This guy has no respect for you at all, as evidenced by the fact that he thinks it's ok to keep contacting you after he's insulted you. He doesn't give a crap about you as a person one little bit.
BTW, thank you for putting this out there on the forums. It reminds all of us that we don't have to tolerated being belittled by any person, including a man. I think there are plenty of us who have let something go on too long due to being lonely or other reasons. Just not all of us are brave enough to admit it. |
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Stay away from him.
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This idiot I have been (was)talking to (well off and on) for maybe 4-5 months, I swear is schizo. He got mad at me maybe 2-3 months ago, called me a "wh*re" and a "loser." Fine, he can stay lost. Then a couple of weeks later he wants to talk again, say what??? So, of course, I am still ticked over the name calling but I hold off saying much, he doesn't apologize, so then I tell him how I don't appreciate the name calling. Then he tells me to "F-off." Disappears for another couple of weeks or so. In the meantime, he sends me little nasty grams with links to dirty picture sites. When I tell him to stop, he claims innocence, of course. Now, today, he contacts me with "how is it going?" I swear, this guy must be just plain unbalanced. Have you ever run into someone like this?? He is totally controlling and jealous, and to act this way??? And, an obvious liar too over the nasty grams he sends, etc. That is not schizo...if anything that is bipolar. I'm a schizo, all we do is have voices in our head. |
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