Feeling the strain of not being in a relationship its been way to long since i have had the true love of that one person, and i am beginnging to think that she is not out there, and if she is where in the flippin world do i find her....

Sorry i have been under a lot of stress lately and i am just venting some frustrations, plz dont take anything i say personally i am just having one of those days

Cheer up hun, she's out there

Strain of NOT being in a relationship??

Dude...to me that says you have to work on yourself a bit and get comfortable with being alone.

JAG hunny don't judge, loneliness effects us all differently

I know, Myka.

I get lonely too.

Just seems that if he's feeling strain because of not having someone, he may depend on having someone a bit too much.

* shrug *

No judgment here. Just an observation.

Some people, like myself for example, do very well single.... others need to constantly give and receive love to feel normal... hope that makes sense

actually you are not that far off, i have been looking at myself in a different way over the last several months, just was going through a tough phase when i lost my job, but i feel like i have turned the corner, i have one prospective with someone, i have a date next week, am extremely nervous

Legalize prostitution for this man. PLEASE

Rude much?

LOL no i dont need that, it cheapens the passion

I agree.

Dude, I will find you some women and send you the links to their profile I have tried to do that before for you

Good luck on your date. Perhaps that will be the beginning of the end of your search...

i can only hope, and mirror dont frighten me like that

I am often reminded of the phrase "More trouble than it's worth"....

I think relationships to be more stressful....

All that compromising and such. Its easier to be single.

Personally...
I am ok by myself, but tend to do better when I have someone in my life that I can "do for" because it's that act that makes me happy.
This may be viewed as weak... and well, to some I imagine it is, but I know myself best, and I really Shine the brightest when I'm in a relationship.
Yes, Gypsy, I agree with you... Relationships can be, and usually are stressful on some levels... but I'd rather be in one than without one.

Currently I feel as tho I Am and am Not in one at the same time... The Man I love is too far away for me to do anything for, with, or beside... yet I love him, and will not stop any time soon... so where does that leave me?

yah..she's out there, in fact she's right here next me **** my ***, i'll return her to you once i finish

roko