Well stay on them. Whatever else you are going through you don't need to let your body chemistry being off making it worse.

You are lucky your folks are there for you & haveing kids to do right by now have more reasons to do right than wrong.

hang in there.

That sucks! And don't start drinking(Thanks Ya Arse Holes!)! Grow the F up! Sorry CReilly, I am not here to give you hope. Only you can do that. It takes time, and taking your children into account. It's a mess.

I agree with the NOT getting drunk. Stay on your meds. Check into some counseling if you can. Work out your issues through talking, either to a counselor, or with friends. Drinking is a dead end, especially if you are on meds, a really DEADLY MIX.

You do need to grieve the end of your relationship as you would
any death. It will get better with time, but think about your kids, they need you and love you, put them first and do it for yourself and them. It will be worth it in the long run.

So sorry this happened.

I know just how u feel.I think I will start drinking and just keep on it until i pass out and don't feel anything anymore.Its better then feeling the pain that i feel now.

I dont have any friends and that is why i'm on here

There are good people on here, you can make some friends on here. I seriously would check into counseling too though. There may even be some men's groups in your area. Any kind of support will help you through this time. Local hospitals have social workers, they have lists of resources and can sometimes do short term counseling too. Hang in there and just keep thinking about your kids, how much you love them and they love you, and you will get through this time. Take care.

Hmmm I never really noticed a smell to it. Did I miss something?

Being single is tough..the longer you have been with someone the more difficult it is to change our routine. I was married for 11 years and when I became single the first 6 months I was lost and very lonely. In time your heart heals and you move on. And then someday that special someone will catch your eye and your routine will change again....But Good luck and enjoy the site

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GluCM_ggMvw

They say it stinks too.

I better get my sniffer checked out

Well your gonna need them now that your living here...

It doesn't stink

It just sucks


Give yourself time

Hope things get better for you

Sorry, I know this is tough, hang in there

You shouldn't drink with depression/anxiety meds, you'll only counteract what they're supposed to do. I can't say I know how you feel, cause I've never been with anyone that long, never been married, never had kids, however, I've been dumped, so I get that it hurts. Just try to accept that not everything lasts forever, and you guys were just in different places. It happens. Try to be there for your kids, I'm sure they miss mom. Good luck.

You have friends here..I'm only an hour south of you and I don't have many friends here either.

Tennis insult!

Yep it hurts, and its going to hurt for quite a while.
Don't drink, do not find a rebound thing-that will hurt too.
Take time to heal.
Take care of you, like you would take care of a very fragile friend.

"LOVE STINKS?"
Not!!
What stinks is when love dies or love never found.

I don't believe she left because she loved you so much.

You said she decided she don't want a family,
Does that mean that you have the kids??