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| Topic: how do i put my fellings a side for her | |
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girls how do i put my fellings aside for some one i really care about but cant be with i really really could use some help
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Ya can't. You just have to love them enough to want them to be happy... that is real love.
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find some hobbies or interests to keep yourself occupied
you'll never fully stop thinking about her but you can use your time wisely maybe date others you may find someone who can help with similar interests as hers |
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she knows how much i like her and we both agreed that it weill never happen and i cant seem to put my fellings aside
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Edited by
Pink_lady
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Tue 08/18/09 10:16 AM
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Well just keep urself busy....if u really cared about her, u would want her to be happy, whether that is with u or someone else.
Acceptance is the key, then u can open up ur mind to other possibilities. |
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time.... time will heal all. In the mean time find a hobby or something, keep your mind busy. Learn something new.
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thanks for the help you guys im trying but its really hard
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Only a robot can turn their feelings off & on...sorry...but this is something you'll have to endure...lucky robots.
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If you truly can't be with her, I.E. she is married,(or a close realtive
 ) then all you can do is accept the situation. Not knowing all the facts it is difficult to say. If it is something like she is going away to school and there is a chance things may work out on down the road then just keep on working on yourself, make yourself the best person you can be, that will serve you well either way. Hope for the best.
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You cant put your feelings aside, denial doesnt make them go away.
BUT you can choose to do other things and focus your attention else where. Calm down. You have a whole life ahead of you. |
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that you guys for everything i would tell you the whole thing but there are alot of persenal things involved and i dont really want to be juged on the fourms after i wrote and after i talked to you guys about it i started to fell better i just have to have the guts to tell send her what i wrote
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I would just move to hawaii
 
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Only a robot can turn their feelings off & on...sorry...but this is something you'll have to endure...lucky robots. I agree, sometimes feelings can be shut down very quickly, and that is not the way to handle things. Most people just have to hurt, talk if that is possible, and go on. Robots have no heart....but people do. Time will wound an heels, and heal all wounds. |
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Ya can't. You just have to love them enough to want them to be happy... that is real love. That is exactly what I am doing right now. |
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