Has anyone else noticed this? Whenever you are notified that you have a mutual match person interested in you, they never contact you in anyway, message, IM, or nudge. They have clicked on either yes, or maybe too & have received a private email or notation in My Account where your profile name is mentioned as match.

Why would a person click yes or maybe when they see another's profile if they're not interested enough to even send a nudge when they find out the other person may be interested in them?

I've sent nudges, even mails to a lot of my matches & usually they never reply.

Mutual Match is a spectacular feature if it would be used for the purpose it was designed.

and Mutual Match is the best feature of the site!!



ba da bump! Tssssssss.....

I've had them contact me.

You're not missing much, LOL

I just got use to them not responding!

I think of it as "Mutual Ignore."

I have found that most people, no matter why you message them do not reply. I just think they do not have the b***s to acknowledge and say no, or that they are not interested. I have sent a message to every mutual match, about 90% not reply.

It should be called Mutual not

you should suggest that, LOL

This is a true story!!!!

Whether it's Mutual Match or my random emails, I rarely ever get replies from those I have contacted.

Those BAS-tards! They're the same ones killed Kenny!!

LOL

All mine have written me first

Some were. Ok. Most not

So I just put them all in my fabulous MM collection!! LOL

I nearly terminated the entire concept of MM w/a poem that I wrote in the past.

I have had all of mine write me as well. I have responded to each email. I'm not rude, usually lol

I pay no attention to mutual match at all. It might as well not even be there.

They collect their matches... .

I do not look at Mutual Match, I did at first by never received any emails.

Everyone that is in your area and age range is going to be matched with you. Wether they even viewed your profile or not. So new people get all these matches.