Topic: How do you not think the worst...
ledi180's photo
Mon 08/17/09 08:51 AM
of people? My b/f sent me some pictures of him in a tux at a wedding a couple of years ago. He's at my house, has been for a few days but was up way earlier than me today. I saw the email / pics on my phone and asked if he intended to send them to me, as I already had them (he'd sent them a while back). He said of course. My next thought was 'who else did he send them to' but I didn't ask. I'm worried that my first thoughts were negative - is this just a concious thing I have to work on?

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 08/17/09 08:55 AM
I'm worried that my first thoughts were negative - is this just a concious thing I have to work on?


yep... ya get what ya expect..I think. You get what you think about whether you want it or not.

countrybelle6471's photo
Mon 08/17/09 09:02 AM
HUh well I say go with your 1st instinct.I have found that it usual turns out to be true or never fails ya,at least 9 out of 10 times,and ask him what you want to know,don't let those questions fester,It will only lead to a worse blow later,when more things happen or come out..

ledi180's photo
Mon 08/17/09 09:04 AM
Thanks - I"m gonna talk to him in a few after I've had some coffee :smile: