hey i like my vampire lovers!

that being said you cant force yourself to be attracted youll be miserable and resentful and mean!

in other words, she'll end up just like me, and i don't wish that on anyone. :)

meh... ok.

* heads to post office to begin process to get passport so I can go chew on Gypsy *

perv

If they want out, they can leave. If they mess up, they're out- they only get one shot. End of story.

seriously though, it sounds you like this person in spite of the physical attraction, maybe if you continue to spend time with him, the attraction will grow. i wasn't attracted to my first bf- i thought he was weird and ugly- but eventually i thought he was freaking fantastic. go figure.

It's unfortunate that he wants all or nothing right now. I've seen a lot of relationships that did not start with attraction blossom into something really great. Putting a time restraint on developing that relationship does make you feel like you have to "force" attraction and that certainly wouldn't work. Then again, look at arranged marriages where the parents pick your mate. I've met a lot of women in these marriages and they all say the same thing. "My parents didn't choose him because of lust or how he looked but because they believed he was right for me" (and our parents who know us tend to look out for what's best for us). "The love and attraction grew after marriage." And arranged marriages have a higher success rate than ours! If he's forcing you to go all in right away and your parents have not approved, wish him well.

Nuh uh.

you can fix a lot of things about someone but ugly is to the bone

ahahahahahhaahahaaa

omg you're evil .

he's not ugly at all, i just have particular tastes .

don't we all....

Trying to build physical attraction would be like building and out house. It might be functional but living in it would stink to high heaven.

wow, i'm stealing that metaphor.

what was the question again???

beauty is only a lightswitch away

I would screw them ....just to make certain.....