he said i was tooo imature for him... b.s....

Angel, It seems that you really don't want all of the good helpful
advice that you have been so caringly given. Good people care about you,
but the problem is that you don't care about yourself, and you are
fishing for attention. Your last post is just setting yourself up for
more pain. I for one have given you alot of advice and I am not trying
to be cold. I know that it hurts, I have been married before. The week
that the marriage started, so did the abuse. There was verbal abuse,
mental abuse physcial abuse, sexual abuse, Angel you name it, I have
been through it. I was beaten when I was pregnant, with HIS child. For
along time I had to work through alot of pain. It took me over 10 years
since I was married. I was too scared about being hurt again to even
think about having another serious relationship. I am SO glad that I
took the time to heal. I hope that I have found the one I have been
waiting and healing for. I care about him so much, and if I didn't take
the time to do the necessary healing that I needed to do, I would have
missed this wonderful man.

Hi Angel

Porcelain is giving you some great words of wisdom that I think you
should heed. Before you try to get him back you need to ask yourself if
you really want to go thru that all that pain again. Because he will
hurt you again. We don't call them ex's for the hell of it. They are
ex's for a very good reason, whether it is something we did or something
they did either way we need to step back and examine why the breakup
happened. If the breakup was something you did like be to needy or to
standoffish, etc, then you need to take this time to find out why you
act or do the things you do in order to change which will lead to
healing which will lead to better and stronger relationships. The same
still applies if the breakup was something that they did. Step back,
examine the reason for the breakup and decide if or why you want to be
with someone like that. So step back, examine, change, heal and move on
to better.

This is just my opinion.

you get in touch with him and tell him he's not worthy of you the likes
of him will never find another woman as good as you were to
him,,,,,,,,,,,,, i don't know just sayin'

Get drunk, waist all your money on stupid **** and get a rebound
relationship.

Wait....wait...... thats what I did.

Yeah, so on second thought I dont recomend that.

I would take some of the better advice on here.

pay some thugs?????

Angel, we don't know each other, but I can sense the pain and fear in
your words....

Is it possible that you want him back so much because you are worried
about finding someone new? My guess is that you realize he was maybe not
so great, but think he is better than a big unknown future?

You will find someone new -- no questions about that! -- but be calm
about it, assess a guy carefully rather than grabbing the first guy who
comes along.... Better to find the right guy even if that means giving
it some time and being patient, than grabbing the next guy and finding
out that once again he is a disappointment.

Feel confidant Feel confidant that you WILL find a good guy as
you learn the patience for it....

OK....?

Choose the friends you confide in thoughtfully, and listen to them,
especially older women who have gone through what you are experiencing
-- the highs and the lows, all of it. You are not alone, and you are far
from the first to feel this way!



Oceans

Put one foot in front of the other and leave him in the dust.

If his eye can not see you as you are he ain't worth you.

There will be someone that can see you.

SIMPLE - Move on
forget him & kiss the nxt one harder.

Angel....

A break up is never an easy thing to get through. I would just see it as
an experience, and hopefully you will be stronger for the next man in
your life.

Joanne

Angel love, I totally know where you're coming from as many of the
people do. The break up is new and fresh so of course you're gonna think
that everything he says was wrong with the relationship was crap. You're
gonna wanna do everything in your power to fix it and just make it
better because that's your baby you love him.

But seriously, you're mad and your hurt and you aren't thinking as clear
as you normally would. Who knows maybe the break up won't be forever.
But don't push things. If he's meant for you, he will come back. Take
this time and just use it to grow as a person. Spend time with those who
love and care about you, do things that make you happy. Dont dwell on it
too much.

And sometimes when you are apart and you think, you realize all the
things that were wrong and you may not now, but later you will realize
that he is the one missing out on a wonderful person. IT's not the other
way around love. Be strong and show this guy that you ain't gonna let
him get the best of you. A guy who hurts you isn't really worth having
you is he?

Just think about it love. Be strong and keep on steppin. You're a great
person and with time a guy is gonna see that and he will be soo lucky to
have you.

:)