Topic: Outside your league
GRIFFIN_LIZZARD's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:22 AM

Omg...I like Nascar and Beer...surprised rofl rofl


LOL me ALSO

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:22 AM

I'd like to know if you think that there is such thing as "Dating out side your league" In other words, does it matter the background or history of the person you find attractive or sexy? Is there a unwritten law of dating that you never choose the person that is way outside your league? Someone in a different tax bracket, schooling level, Profession?

Just interested in hearing.
:smile: The woman will eventually dump you if she has more education and brings in more money:smile:

Dragoness's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:24 AM


I'd like to know if you think that there is such thing as "Dating out side your league" In other words, does it matter the background or history of the person you find attractive or sexy? Is there a unwritten law of dating that you never choose the person that is way outside your league? Someone in a different tax bracket, schooling level, Profession?

Just interested in hearing.
:smile: The woman will eventually dump you if she has more education and brings in more money:smile:


Mirror that may be true but that doesn't make her better than him. Their differences were too great to bridge.

robert1652's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:24 AM
Edited by robert1652 on Wed 08/05/09 10:33 AM
Read the post and different leagues become obvious if that was your intention to find out.
Interesting though

no photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:26 AM


I'd like to know if you think that there is such thing as "Dating out side your league" In other words, does it matter the background or history of the person you find attractive or sexy? Is there a unwritten law of dating that you never choose the person that is way outside your league? Someone in a different tax bracket, schooling level, Profession?

Just interested in hearing.
:smile: The woman will eventually dump you if she has more education and brings in more money:smile:


She did at first, then I went back to school, and started making more money, then she dumped me and she is still bitter about it.

robert1652's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:26 AM


I'd like to know if you think that there is such thing as "Dating out side your league" In other words, does it matter the background or history of the person you find attractive or sexy? Is there a unwritten law of dating that you never choose the person that is way outside your league? Someone in a different tax bracket, schooling level, Profession?

Just interested in hearing.
:smile: The woman will eventually dump you if she has more education and brings in more money:smile:
I take a bow Mirror

LewisW123's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:30 AM
I know "opposites attract" but I've never thought that attraction would necessarily develop into a good solid relationship.

I think you are better off, forming that with someone you have a lot in common with: similar age, background, morals or ideals, and yes, probably education level, income level, etc.

I don't believe I am "better than" someone who doesn't make as much money, or isn't as educated. I just think those differences can lead to conflicts later on down the line, when the infatuation period is over. Building a relationship and making it last takes effort. Why add a bunch of potential roadblocks?

lilith401's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:52 AM
I like beer too.

Just to clarify, my examples were very stereotyped exaggerations of polar opposites. A dichotomy of extremes.

I simply meant we all want something different and we are all different. But there needs to be a compatability based within those things.

no photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:10 AM


I'd like to know if you think that there is such thing as "Dating out side your league" In other words, does it matter the background or history of the person you find attractive or sexy? Is there a unwritten law of dating that you never choose the person that is way outside your league? Someone in a different tax bracket, schooling level, Profession?

Just interested in hearing.
:smile: The woman will eventually dump you if she has more education and brings in more money:smile:


well thats wimen for ya bigsmile

TxsSun's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:11 AM

Your " league " is nothing more than where you put yourself.


Nicely said!

No one is better or worse than ourselves unless we think otherwise.

Jtevans's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:22 AM
the "billy club" puts them back in our league smokin

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:31 AM

the "billy club" puts them back in our league smokin


noway

franshade's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:40 AM

Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:48 AM
I guess I don't really understand that term very well....
I guess Brad Pitt would be out of my league...
Or like Tyra Banks with Gary Coleman, they may not be in the same league..
The rest of us..were all on here are we not?

newarkjw's photo
Wed 08/05/09 11:52 AM
My mama always told me that I was from a different zip code...smokin

no photo
Wed 08/05/09 12:10 PM


I'd like to know if you think that there is such thing as "Dating out side your league" In other words, does it matter the background or history of the person you find attractive or sexy? Is there a unwritten law of dating that you never choose the person that is way outside your league? Someone in a different tax bracket, schooling level, Profession?

Just interested in hearing.
:smile: The woman will eventually dump you if she has more education and brings in more money:smile:


Shenanigans. I once dated a woman for about 9 months that lived in the Los Gatos hills. I had to leave because she was spoiling me way too much and wouldn't let me pay my own bills and buy my own clothes. She was educated, wealthy, and intelligent.


PacificStar48's photo
Wed 08/05/09 12:13 PM
I would hope that all that league bologne would have gone the way of the caste system but in this country unfortuneately looks, money, and education still seem to create a sense of eliteism for some people.

I will admidt I don't want to go back to peanut butter, commodity cheese, and second hand clothes but for a good companion that makes me laugh I would consider it. Things and status don't mean alot when you get past a certain age.


AdventureBegins's photo
Wed 08/05/09 12:13 PM
I am in a 'league of my own'...

With plenty of room.

bigsmile

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD's photo
Wed 08/05/09 12:16 PM

I guess I don't really understand that term very well....
I guess Brad Pitt would be out of my league...
Or like Tyra Banks with Gary Coleman, they may not be in the same league..
The rest of us..were all on here are we not?


Ok what makes you think Brad Pitt would be out of your league? I think you are wrong but what made you say that?

tngxl65's photo
Wed 08/05/09 12:34 PM
The only person that puts you out of any 'league' is you.