I'm looking for penpals as I always enjoy meeting and writing to new
people. :)

Iam4u, I've read this thread a few times through, and I don't feel that
I understand.

Most of my good relationships in life just seemed to 'happen'.

During those rare instances when I went 'looking' for a relationship of
some kind, thats the only time I've had uncomfortable circumstances.

I can see the online thing making that worse, because you might wait
than you would in real life before you realize the chemistry isn't
there.

Does any of this have anything to do with what you are talking about?

I looked under my pillow but he wasnt there

I think he was an oompa loompa but I will never know

Thanks for looking, Gypsy. Have you found him under your pillow before?
And whats an oompa loompa? Is that gypsy slang?

uhhhhhhhh hahaha oompa loompa.......charlie and the chocolate
factory.....nvm

hmmmm I afraid of the carrots!!!! lol

They're just carrots!

i'm right here under you

OH OH!

I am looking for my last love..I have met some great women, while
searching the dating sites. Only time will tell..
so to answer question. yes, no, no

Im having a karma chameleon moment now......omg Boy George
Nooooooooo!!!!

#1-yes looking for it, not necessarily from here

#2-not looking for that

#3-maybe

Basically here for friends and fun. If I meet someone great, if not that
is fine.

from here just friends.


prolly

I think your only a player if that is your INTENT, you are knowing
meeting people, getting close, talking love, BUT know deep down that
your eye is constantly roving.

Nurjoyce, you have such a strength of character, guys call you a player
because you won't sleep with them. You have your goals set & won't
compromise.

Our society has taught us to DEMAND what we want & DEMAND it right
now. We don't know PATIENCE, we don't know EARNING what we want BEFORE
we get it. Look at all the credit card debt.
Same with love, we DEMAND it NOW. Sex/NOW Kids/NOW
How often do we hear "Babies raising Babies?" And (not picking on
ladies/guys are 1/2 the blame) how many young single mothers? How many
kids growing up with multiple dads?
Is this part of the problems our society is having?
Getting off subject.

I am not looking for a relationship.
If I find one, I will handle that as it comes.
I NEVER say NEVER.
Best advice I can give is;
Go Slow
If it doesn't work, BE FRIENDS
Always think things thru, BEFORE you do it.

Get off my soap box.

Sage, I couldn't agree more. Your name is truly appropriate, as you are
very wise and give good advice. :)

ima4u: I e-mailed you, you answered me, I wrote back and that was the
end of it. I don't know how anyone can call this a site where you make
friends. I try, no response.

sex is a phone call away..I'm here for other reasons..

I agree it doesnt make you a player.. I too am looking for love..

here for friends..