I feel very lonely. Someone has left me for valid reason and i feel thats the end of my life.. is it wrong to feel like this?

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Tammy

Yes.

Well, its not a HEALTHY way to feel. Feeling like crap is common in your situation.



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well, your not lonely ... ur here aren't you,,, and there's a lot of people here with u ... cheer up ...

It's called Grief. After losing something or someone significant
you have to go through this stage in order to heal and grow.

It sucks but it is part of life. Just sit with it, try not to
avoid it and it will go away quicker. Avoiding it just postpones
it and then it seems bigger than it really is.

exactly

lonely must be awful, i've never experienced it so i guess i'm lucky

Depends on WHY they left you. Maybe you deserved it, maybe you didn't. If you did, you shouldn't feel lonley, but if you didn't, it's normal to feel that way.

I am with you its hard to feel like crap and understanding why and what if. In my situation he wants to eat his cake and have it too. Its very hard but keeping busy does help beleieve it or not but when you slow down its still there unfornatialy.

Meeting someone knew will help the pain slowly go away. IT will be okay:}

it's not the end of your life...you're still here...learn to love yourself and if the "valid reason" is something you did, it's been a learning experience to grow from

It really helps to go to places where you're around alot of people like a walmart in your free time, when I'm lonely, I usually go grocery shopping or something like that, seeing little kids goofing around, and just so many people can make you feel less alone. But its only a temporary thing, the farther away you get in time, from whatever hurt you, the easier it will get, trust me, from one indian to another, just hang on somehow and try to laugh at yourself if you can, each month will be easier. p.s. (also, always doing something really helps too, if you let your mind wander, it'll just go back to her) Good luck bhai ji

Your relationship might have ended but yes it is wrong to feel that your life has ended.U are still here.

just give your self time to grief .

It's not the end of your life... it will get better.
Big hugs to you and welcome

I don't know if this will help you but my heart is with you:


I ask to first forgive myself for my sins and cleanse me from any area where I have allowed hurt to enter my life. I renounce any involvement with the works of sadness. My heart i now cancel every hurt within myself. I ask myself to forgive the people who have spoken who have hurt or who i have hurt unintentionally. I thank myself that those will no longer affect me today and that i released the feelings and emotions out of my soul. I ask my own self to cover my heart and hold it tight and Know I am a good person, I just sometimes forget it!.

I hope this will help to show you that everyone on this site thinks your a wonderful person. And we are all here for you!

Your life is not ending because someone left you, it just that you are grieving at this point. Stay and join the forums and cheer up. Life does go on.

Welcome to the site...and very well said.

Welcome to Karmicfilly, Carmindy, and melissamartin too.

Never make someone a priority if they're only willing to make you an option.

Learn it, live it, love it.

Ya know...I have found that ' lonely ' is mostly just a state of mind.

If you are doing things that don't allow you to think about being lonely, your mind simply won't go down that path.

it's when you allow yourself to sit there and think about it, that you actually get lonely.

Loneliness is very common to most of us who are single. But, it really depends on how you handle your loneliness in life. Some people go out and meet friends or do something they love to do to fill the void of that loneliness they are feeling right now. I hope you will bounce back to normal so soon.