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Topic: Lets go topicless... - part 33
delilady Joined Fri 07/24/09 Posts: 23825	Mon 08/03/09 04:41 PM
Ok here's my story. I have been separated since June 1st after many years of being separated but living under the same roof. He wouldn't leave and I can't blame him. i took care of everything. He was also a gambler so that made it hard financially to split up. he knew i wanted a divorce so he stayed out of spite. I would never cheat on him cause i was raised that when you make a vow or promise you keep it. Anyway, after I turned 50 I started doing less and less for him-no laundry, no presents for his grandkids etc. This past Spring I told him that he moved out or I would. My son did not want to live with his Dad and my husband did not want the day to day responsibilities of a teenage son. He left me in debt, a house that needs a lot of work and a 17 year old boy to watch over. With all of that I have not been happier in years. My family always liked my husband but they say he drug me down and they can see a differene in me. i will work to pay the bills, I will repair the house and I will send my son to college. At this time in my life i do not have time for the drama that I see so many women my age going through with men they are dating. So i am in a different place than you are. I feel like a bird just released from a cage and I don't want anyone clipping my wings.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Mon 08/03/09 04:46 PM
yeah , after you have been on awhile you just learn to ignore the nonsense ones. Okay lol think its going to take another year at least we keep it fun

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Mon 08/03/09 04:47 PM
Hey ya'll go answer the new guy in hellos....he posted in spanish! Do you speak spanish VI

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Mon 08/03/09 04:48 PM
yeah , after you have been on awhile you just learn to ignore the nonsense ones. Okay lol think its going to take another year at least we keep it fun I know...but practise makes perfect.So they say!

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Mon 08/03/09 04:50 PM Edited by BettyB on Mon 08/03/09 04:52 PM
Jayne looks like you have been through at lot.I am glad you are happier now. What is it you want for now? Just remeber nobody can clip your wings without you giving them the scissors and holding still. Its all up to you!

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Mon 08/03/09 04:50 PM
Hey ya'll go answer the new guy in hellos....he posted in spanish! Do you speak spanish VI I answered him in spanish....did pretty darned good too!

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Mon 08/03/09 04:51 PM
Ok here's my story. I have been separated since June 1st after many years of being separated but living under the same roof. He wouldn't leave and I can't blame him. i took care of everything. He was also a gambler so that made it hard financially to split up. he knew i wanted a divorce so he stayed out of spite. I would never cheat on him cause i was raised that when you make a vow or promise you keep it. Anyway, after I turned 50 I started doing less and less for him-no laundry, no presents for his grandkids etc. This past Spring I told him that he moved out or I would. My son did not want to live with his Dad and my husband did not want the day to day responsibilities of a teenage son. He left me in debt, a house that needs a lot of work and a 17 year old boy to watch over. With all of that I have not been happier in years. My family always liked my husband but they say he drug me down and they can see a differene in me. i will work to pay the bills, I will repair the house and I will send my son to college. At this time in my life i do not have time for the drama that I see so many women my age going through with men they are dating. So i am in a different place than you are. I feel like a bird just released from a cage and I don't want anyone clipping my wings. I was like that for 4 years and starting to look but don't want drama.

delilady Joined Fri 07/24/09 Posts: 23825	Mon 08/03/09 04:51 PM
Hey ya'll go answer the new guy in hellos....he posted in spanish! Do you speak spanish VI No Spanish here, Send me the French ones!!!

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Mon 08/03/09 04:52 PM
yeah , after you have been on awhile you just learn to ignore the nonsense ones. Okay lol think its going to take another year at least we keep it fun I know...but practise makes perfect.So they say! so they say

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Mon 08/03/09 04:53 PM
Hey ya'll go answer the new guy in hellos....he posted in spanish! Do you speak spanish VI I answered him in spanish....did pretty darned good too! show off!

delilady Joined Fri 07/24/09 Posts: 23825	Mon 08/03/09 04:55 PM
Jayne looks like you have been through at lot.I am glad you are happier now. What is it you want for now? Not sure. Was fooling with my Blackberry one night and put in dating sights, Mingle2 came up. Decided to sign up to see what these sites were like since I was never on one before. Saw the 50 and over site. Start reading your threads and wanted to meet all of you cause you seemed like my kind of people. Real people who were having fun sharing their lives. So here I am and i look forward to talking to all of you. In a short time you have become my friends.

delilady Joined Fri 07/24/09 Posts: 23825	Mon 08/03/09 04:56 PM
Hey ya'll go answer the new guy in hellos....he posted in spanish! Do you speak spanish VI I answered him in spanish....did pretty darned good too! Well when he joins our thread you will have to interpet for the rest of us

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Mon 08/03/09 04:57 PM
The way I see it Jayne....M2 is not just a dating site...It's a place to make friends with both men and women...I've been where you are...but trust me, even working, even with your kid and the house..you will get lonely. This is a good place to be...good people, good friends. Every man on this site is not like what you say...Look at Don, Tim, Sno, Mo, Wayne and the others...we're just an extended family that will not judge you and we will support you.

burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Mon 08/03/09 04:59 PM
The way I see it Jayne....M2 is not just a dating site...It's a place to make friends with both men and women...I've been where you are...but trust me, even working, even with your kid and the house..you will get lonely. This is a good place to be...good people, good friends. Every man on this site is not like what you say...Look at Don, Tim, Sno, Mo, Wayne and the others...we're just an extended family that will not judge you and we will support you. and ME!!!

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Mon 08/03/09 05:00 PM
Jayne looks like you have been through at lot.I am glad you are happier now. What is it you want for now? Not sure. Was fooling with my Blackberry one night and put in dating sights, Mingle2 came up. Decided to sign up to see what these sites were like since I was never on one before. Saw the 50 and over site. Start reading your threads and wanted to meet all of you cause you seemed like my kind of people. Real people who were having fun sharing their lives. So here I am and i look forward to talking to all of you. In a short time you have become my friends. well we are crazy bunch for sure! I love this site, made lots of good friends. Hope you are having fun too!

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Mon 08/03/09 05:00 PM
Jayne looks like you have been through at lot.I am glad you are happier now. What is it you want for now? Not sure. Was fooling with my Blackberry one night and put in dating sights, Mingle2 came up. Decided to sign up to see what these sites were like since I was never on one before. Saw the 50 and over site. Start reading your threads and wanted to meet all of you cause you seemed like my kind of people. Real people who were having fun sharing their lives. So here I am and i look forward to talking to all of you. In a short time you have become my friends. Were glad you found us. It does make you think how many out there just reading glad you joined in :)

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Mon 08/03/09 05:01 PM
The way I see it Jayne....M2 is not just a dating site...It's a place to make friends with both men and women...I've been where you are...but trust me, even working, even with your kid and the house..you will get lonely. This is a good place to be...good people, good friends. Every man on this site is not like what you say...Look at Don, Tim, Sno, Mo, Wayne and the others...we're just an extended family that will not judge you and we will support you. and ME!!! Our Poet, been noticing you writing more.

delilady Joined Fri 07/24/09 Posts: 23825	Mon 08/03/09 05:01 PM
Ok here's my story. I have been separated since June 1st after many years of being separated but living under the same roof. He wouldn't leave and I can't blame him. i took care of everything. He was also a gambler so that made it hard financially to split up. he knew i wanted a divorce so he stayed out of spite. I would never cheat on him cause i was raised that when you make a vow or promise you keep it. Anyway, after I turned 50 I started doing less and less for him-no laundry, no presents for his grandkids etc. This past Spring I told him that he moved out or I would. My son did not want to live with his Dad and my husband did not want the day to day responsibilities of a teenage son. He left me in debt, a house that needs a lot of work and a 17 year old boy to watch over. With all of that I have not been happier in years. My family always liked my husband but they say he drug me down and they can see a differene in me. i will work to pay the bills, I will repair the house and I will send my son to college. At this time in my life i do not have time for the drama that I see so many women my age going through with men they are dating. So i am in a different place than you are. I feel like a bird just released from a cage and I don't want anyone clipping my wings. I was like that for 4 years and starting to look but don't want drama. If I find any good ones in my travels I'll send them your way. My boss is getting ready to leave her husband in a few months. He is a good guy. Cooks, takes care of all the outside stuff but he is a the outdoors type and she has become a business woman and they have outgrown each other. He is around 57.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Mon 08/03/09 05:01 PM
The way I see it Jayne....M2 is not just a dating site...It's a place to make friends with both men and women...I've been where you are...but trust me, even working, even with your kid and the house..you will get lonely. This is a good place to be...good people, good friends. Every man on this site is not like what you say...Look at Don, Tim, Sno, Mo, Wayne and the others...we're just an extended family that will not judge you and we will support you. and ME!!! No not you ! Just kidding and you! hi BRY how are you ?

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Mon 08/03/09 05:02 PM
Hey ya'll go answer the new guy in hellos....he posted in spanish! Do you speak spanish VI I answered him in spanish....did pretty darned good too! show off! Honey child....I can talk to you in several languages....I have a great translator on my tool bar!!