I'm having a rough night Dan..how are you hon

doing good hon sorry to hear that. Need some comfort?

Yes Chick I know..thats why I'm doing a whole bunch of talking to my
angels about finding my lonely behind..not just A MAN..but MY man..lol

*sigh* I'm slowing down for a number of reasons,

(Not that I should have to explain myself but I will)

1.) I am beginning to wonder who I can trust

2.) I lost "friends" last night for speaking the truth

3.) I'm getting too attached to people I will never truly KNOW

4.) Not many of my friends are here anymore

5.) I have been working more and need my rest.


All can be cast off as hormones but I don't see that as why I'm not here
as much. I know right and wrong I haven't lost my mind.

I still love the site,the concept of what once was and probobly never
will be again is only part of what JSH is. JSH is an AMAZING site and
that cannot be questioned.

We just need to step back and realize that we CAN hurt ppl just because
this is not face to face doesn't mean your words won't harm anyone.

That's what I keep telling myself "Wait patiently on the Lord"

He's has a will and plan for you. Your mate is a part of that.

Every SINGLE time when I tried to take matters in my own hands i go the
crappiest results. LOL

I approached a cute guy freshman year that JUST got another girl
pregnant with a baby on the way O_o

One guy was a pothead and a drunk

yay songbird came through. ~Hugs a million~

"I still love the site,the concept of what once was and probobly never
will be again is only part of what JSH is. JSH is an AMAZING site and
that cannot be questioned."

So true! :)

I like it here and I have made some good friends. I don't plan on
leaving anytime soon. :)

The guys that are usually attracted to me are the ones that look at my
wheelchair and see dollar signs..like I'd take care of a guy even if I
could..lol..and Chick..stay away from guys that just get girls preg and
move on and move on from them..cuz first off they could do that to
you..and secondly..you dont need "baby mama drama" from their exes..lol

As for when I leave..that is undetermined at this time but I do not
foresee my self staying here forever...in time everyone will leave and
new people will come in..it happens all the time..very much like the
cycle of life and death

Lady here's to ya for your courage babe and may you feel better and
always see the bright side of things!

LOL umm Lady you don't have to worry about that girl.

Shoot I didn't talk to either one of those guys to make a point that is
an example of what I don't want.

I don't want kids anyway

Thank you Dan..you're a sweetie

Let me first say: song I'm still here...

Van and Mike you have a great site!

I have been here only a short period of time and have seen all

kinds of turbolance in here. It will pass as it has before.

We are all here to make friends and meet someone so-

shall we continue to do just that...



Some will come and go- there is a life outside also...

i'm only leave in 4 conditions
1 WHEN i'm married with the right lady
2 when everyone on my friends list decide to leave me or the site
3 this site kills me from the boredom
4 other then that i'll probably stay

im mad.

someone just deleted my topic.

yes kill boredom

GGGRRRRRR

Beachbabe it is still there..scroll down

which one are u talking about?????

I just posted on your thread..look again its right under this one