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Topic: WHAT SHOULD I DO?????
HasidicEnforcer Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 10235	Fri 07/24/09 02:10 PM
stop it. if she is not ready to settle down and just be with only you, then you need to leave. I am not kidding. Women like that are bad news. How dare she call you just a friend and then start dating other people and get pissy when you move on. if she moves on, so can you. take it from my ex husband. he hates that I have moved on, but he supports my decision and doesn't step in the way unless he knows the guy is bad news and won't be a good person around our daughter. same as I do for him. you need to focus on you. if she can't handle you dating, but only wants to be friends or puts you through the bullsh!t of on and off dating, you need to quit. she is just trying to keep you in her life just in case she can not find someone "better". she is not happy, you are not happy. Not meaning to sound harsh, just telling you the honest truth. IMHO

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 07/24/09 02:22 PM
awww poor mirror come here I will make it all better.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 07/24/09 02:25 PM
stop it. if she is not ready to settle down and just be with only you, then you need to leave. I am not kidding. Women like that are bad news. How dare she call you just a friend and then start dating other people and get pissy when you move on. if she moves on, so can you. take it from my ex husband. he hates that I have moved on, but he supports my decision and doesn't step in the way unless he knows the guy is bad news and won't be a good person around our daughter. same as I do for him. you need to focus on you. if she can't handle you dating, but only wants to be friends or puts you through the bullsh!t of on and off dating, you need to quit. she is just trying to keep you in her life just in case she can not find someone "better". she is not happy, you are not happy. Not meaning to sound harsh, just telling you the honest truth. IMHO

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 07/24/09 02:25 PM
awww poor mirror come here I will make it all better.

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Fri 07/24/09 02:31 PM
it's <you know who>... isn't it?!

Buttah Joined Fri 06/19/09 Posts: 2382	Fri 07/24/09 05:38 PM
It's time to move on, and not tell her about your dating life.

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Fri 07/24/09 09:08 PM
I'm madly in love with my girlfriendWe have been on and off for 5yrsShe has seen other men and tells me she just wants to be friends,but if I try to date she freaks out and wants me back.So I get weak an take her back everytime What should I do? Cut bait and go fishin' somewhere else. She's obviously got some issues with you that will never be resolved if you keep seeing her. Don't even consider "being friends" with her, as that won't work in the least.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 07/24/09 09:58 PM
it's <you know who>... isn't it?! No, its just a hypothetical question

Engraven_Image Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7798	Fri 07/24/09 11:19 PM
Dude, my ex had just pulled that same stunt the other night. She broke up with me, and then messages me upset because I am on here and on MSN talking with friends. Hell, forget the chick that did that to you. It causes too much grief and you can find someone better. Hell, Mirror, alot of chicks like you on here. LMAO! Even some of the guys, not me in that way, but some of the guys do too! LOL! But in all seriousness, tell your ex to go screw herself while she is passing everything out to all those other guys and find someone who will treat you right. When she tries to come back, tell her she had her chance and blew it! Make a happier life and relationship with someone else.

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Fri 07/24/09 11:43 PM
I'm madly in love with my girlfriendWe have been on and off for 5yrsShe has seen other men and tells me she just wants to be friends,but if I try to date she freaks out and wants me back.So I get weak an take her back everytime What should I do? Modela mirror's head and say...Man, wake up and smell the coconut...Your situation will go on and on and in circle if you keep taking her back! Let her go kiddo!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 07/25/09 01:51 AM
Dude, my ex had just pulled that same stunt the other night. She broke up with me, and then messages me upset because I am on here and on MSN talking with friends. Hell, forget the chick that did that to you. It causes too much grief and you can find someone better. Hell, Mirror, alot of chicks like you on here. LMAO! Even some of the guys, not me in that way, but some of the guys do too! LOL! But in all seriousness, tell your ex to go screw herself while she is passing everything out to all those other guys and find someone who will treat you right. When she tries to come back, tell her she had her chance and blew it! Make a happier life and relationship with someone else.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 07/25/09 10:39 AM
I'm madly in love with my girlfriendWe have been on and off for 5yrsShe has seen other men and tells me she just wants to be friends,but if I try to date she freaks out and wants me back.So I get weak an take her back everytime What should I do? Modela mirror's head and say...Man, wake up and smell the coconut...Your situation will go on and on and in circle if you keep taking her back! Let her go kiddo!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 07/26/09 05:10 PM
I'm madly in love with my girlfriendWe have been on and off for 5yrsShe has seen other men and tells me she just wants to be friends,but if I try to date she freaks out and wants me back.So I get weak an take her back everytime What should I do? Cut bait and go fishin' somewhere else. She's obviously got some issues with you that will never be resolved if you keep seeing her. Don't even consider "being friends" with her, as that won't work in the least.

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Sun 07/26/09 05:14 PM Edited by Ladylid2012 on Sun 07/26/09 05:16 PM
I'm madly in love with my girlfriendWe have been on and off for 5yrsShe has seen other men and tells me she just wants to be friends,but if I try to date she freaks out and wants me back.So I get weak an take her back everytime What should I do? Get a backbone and just say nooooo

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Sun 07/26/09 05:17 PM
bad drama....get away from it......do you have a spaceship? i'd rather date a Clunion or a Draconian......or even a tall grey , for that matter...

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 07/27/09 11:46 PM
bad drama....get away from it......do you have a spaceship? i'd rather date a Clunion or a Draconian......or even a tall grey , for that matter...

35TOO Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 10407	Wed 07/29/09 06:14 AM
bad drama....get away from it......do you have a spaceship? i'd rather date a Clunion or a Draconian......or even a tall grey , for that matter... WHAT ABOUT A KLINGON FROM URANUAS??????????????????

LeAiTàeRiSpEtTo20 Joined Wed 07/22/09 Posts: 161	Wed 07/29/09 07:16 AM
I've had so many girl's like this man. And I always got left in the end. So basicly, if she is not fully with you man, just leave, she is probably going to end up leaving you anyways, and it will hurt badly.

35TOO Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 10407	Wed 07/29/09 07:18 AM
I've had so many girl's like this man. And I always got left in the end. So basicly, if she is not fully with you man, just leave, she is probably going to end up leaving you anyways, and it will hurt badly. PLUS THEY ARE KLINGON SPIES........

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Wed 07/29/09 07:18 AM
Your girlfriend has some real problems And you better run your *** off!! NOW!!!!