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Topic: why women want men to come to them?
mendy2's photo
Thu 07/23/09 06:34 PM
When I meet a guy long distance I want them to come here to meet me. And they want me to go there. Any other women feel the same way?

Lilypetal's photo
Thu 07/23/09 06:35 PM
It's a natural instinct to want to confront on your own turf.

metalwing's photo
Thu 07/23/09 06:37 PM
It's tradition for the guy to make the first "move". Although sometimes that may not be best.

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Thu 07/23/09 06:37 PM

snarkytwain's photo
Thu 07/23/09 06:37 PM
Edited by snarkytwain on Thu 07/23/09 06:38 PM
Everyone wants the other to do the work. Plus, Lily's right. It's simply more comfortable to meet a stranger in your own stomping grounds.

ETA: Cy, laugh

It's tradition for the guy to make the first "move". Although sometimes that may not be best.


Why not?

Lilypetal's photo
Thu 07/23/09 06:39 PM




Cy don't beat the dead horse!! tears

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Thu 07/23/09 06:40 PM

When I meet a guy long distance I want them to come here to meet me. And they want me to go there. Any other women feel the same way?


I'm not a female, but I understand the question.

Why not just meet somewhere in the middle?

It would also be like a mini vacation for a day or so.


mendy2's photo
Thu 07/23/09 06:41 PM
Yes so true

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 07/23/09 06:42 PM




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metalwing's photo
Thu 07/23/09 06:51 PM

Everyone wants the other to do the work. Plus, Lily's right. It's simply more comfortable to meet a stranger in your own stomping grounds.

ETA: Cy, laugh

It's tradition for the guy to make the first "move". Although sometimes that may not be best.


Why not?


As indicated, it is not a hard and fast rule. However, generally speaking, the guy opens the door for the woman to be polite. This is just another form of door...call it a window of opportunity.

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Thu 07/23/09 06:53 PM
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Chickayoshi~laugh flowerforyou

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Thu 07/23/09 06:54 PM



Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 07/23/09 06:58 PM
Just don't do it!!!!

It's probably all a lie!!!

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Thu 07/23/09 06:59 PM


Slyther83's photo
Thu 07/23/09 07:01 PM
cuz women want to get bonuses for being a female but they want to be equals in everything else.


WHAT THE F DO I GET?

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Thu 07/23/09 07:02 PM






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CKeef's photo
Thu 07/23/09 07:20 PM
I dont mind that at all. Now when it comes to talking, I absolutely cant stand when a girl just wont initiate conversation unless I talk first. If I'm always calling, always mailing, txting, etc., I suddenly feel desperate, stalkish and not-interested in. If she doesnt send me something now and again without me asking because 'a man should take initiative,' I completely lose my desire and interest in pursuing anything further. oops a little offtopic huh? tongue2

snarkytwain's photo
Thu 07/23/09 07:22 PM

I dont mind that at all. Now when it comes to talking, I absolutely cant stand when a girl just wont initiate conversation unless I talk first. If I'm always calling, always mailing, txting, etc., I suddenly feel desperate, stalkish and not-interested in. If she doesnt send me something now and again without me asking because 'a man should take initiative,' I completely lose my desire and interest in pursuing anything further. oops a little offtopic huh? tongue2


That's how it feels to me, too. If I have to initiate, I feel like a stalker. Pfft.

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Thu 07/23/09 07:32 PM


I dont mind that at all. Now when it comes to talking, I absolutely cant stand when a girl just wont initiate conversation unless I talk first. If I'm always calling, always mailing, txting, etc., I suddenly feel desperate, stalkish and not-interested in. If she doesnt send me something now and again without me asking because 'a man should take initiative,' I completely lose my desire and interest in pursuing anything further. oops a little offtopic huh? tongue2


That's how it feels to me, too. If I have to initiate, I feel like a stalker. Pfft.
stalk me any time you like
My shop window is open 24 hours a day for window shoppers

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Thu 07/23/09 07:33 PM







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