Topic: why women want men to come to them? | |
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When I meet a guy long distance I want them to come here to meet me. And they want me to go there. Any other women feel the same way?
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It's a natural instinct to want to confront on your own turf.
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It's tradition for the guy to make the first "move". Although sometimes that may not be best.
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Edited by
snarkytwain
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Thu 07/23/09 06:38 PM
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Everyone wants the other to do the work. Plus, Lily's right. It's simply more comfortable to meet a stranger in your own stomping grounds.
ETA: Cy, It's tradition for the guy to make the first "move". Although sometimes that may not be best.
Why not? |
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Cy don't beat the dead horse!! |
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When I meet a guy long distance I want them to come here to meet me. And they want me to go there. Any other women feel the same way? I'm not a female, but I understand the question. Why not just meet somewhere in the middle? It would also be like a mini vacation for a day or so. |
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Yes so true
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LLOLOLLOLOOLOL!!!!!!! Not expecting that! |
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Everyone wants the other to do the work. Plus, Lily's right. It's simply more comfortable to meet a stranger in your own stomping grounds. ETA: Cy, It's tradition for the guy to make the first "move". Although sometimes that may not be best.
Why not? As indicated, it is not a hard and fast rule. However, generally speaking, the guy opens the door for the woman to be polite. This is just another form of door...call it a window of opportunity. |
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SnarkyTwain~
LilyPetal~ I'm Sowwwy Chickayoshi~ |
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Just don't do it!!!!
It's probably all a lie!!! |
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cuz women want to get bonuses for being a female but they want to be equals in everything else.
WHAT THE F DO I GET? |
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LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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I dont mind that at all. Now when it comes to talking, I absolutely cant stand when a girl just wont initiate conversation unless I talk first. If I'm always calling, always mailing, txting, etc., I suddenly feel desperate, stalkish and not-interested in. If she doesnt send me something now and again without me asking because 'a man should take initiative,' I completely lose my desire and interest in pursuing anything further. a little huh?
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I dont mind that at all. Now when it comes to talking, I absolutely cant stand when a girl just wont initiate conversation unless I talk first. If I'm always calling, always mailing, txting, etc., I suddenly feel desperate, stalkish and not-interested in. If she doesnt send me something now and again without me asking because 'a man should take initiative,' I completely lose my desire and interest in pursuing anything further. a little huh? That's how it feels to me, too. If I have to initiate, I feel like a stalker. Pfft. |
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I dont mind that at all. Now when it comes to talking, I absolutely cant stand when a girl just wont initiate conversation unless I talk first. If I'm always calling, always mailing, txting, etc., I suddenly feel desperate, stalkish and not-interested in. If she doesnt send me something now and again without me asking because 'a man should take initiative,' I completely lose my desire and interest in pursuing anything further. a little huh? That's how it feels to me, too. If I have to initiate, I feel like a stalker. Pfft. My shop window is open 24 hours a day for window shoppers |
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That's awesome |
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