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Topic: im getting a divorce and I am solost as to what to do
Tocheeky4U's photo
Thu 07/23/09 09:50 AM
I have to start my wholelifeover and im just lost

Queene123's photo
Thu 07/23/09 09:52 AM

I have to start my wholelifeover and im just lost


your just starting a new beganing of your life.

when i got divorced 20yrs ago i didnt think at the time i wanted one but i knew it was best. for he wasent going to change, and staying in a marriage because of the kids is wrong. your not happy neither are kids...

newarkjw's photo
Thu 07/23/09 09:54 AM

I have to start my wholelifeover and im just lost


It works itself out over time. flowerforyou

Blackbull222's photo
Thu 07/23/09 09:55 AM
Do everything you have always wanted to do. Life has a lot of pain and sorrow, but it has a lot of joy too. walk the middle path...and dance a lot!

DamnPhule's photo
Thu 07/23/09 09:55 AM
< ----- Phule says: Get yourself a lawyer ... be prepared for it to get ugly ... and never take anything less than what you deserve.

Phules Rule!

shades flowerforyou

franshade's photo
Thu 07/23/09 09:55 AM
I'm sure you're tired of hearing this, but things have a tendency to work themselves out. Be patient and good luck.

lilith401's photo
Thu 07/23/09 09:56 AM

I have to start my wholelifeover and im just lost


Nope.

You have the opportunity to start fresh. Gleen from what the past held as much knowledge as you can. Appreciate that. Know what you DO NOT want.

Try new things.

Meet new people.

You must decide to look upon your life as a positive experience in order for that to be the case.

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 07/23/09 09:56 AM
Give it time & you will be happy

ReddBeans's photo
Thu 07/23/09 09:58 AM
Work thru the emotions, don't be afraid to seek a support group or counselor. Look at this as an opportunity not a failureflowerforyou

RKISIT's photo
Thu 07/23/09 09:59 AM

I have to start my wholelifeover and im just lost
start over?...no, you just continue on....divorce is the reason i won't get married again:smile:

Tocheeky4U's photo
Thu 07/23/09 09:59 AM
aww thanks everyone.Iknow I can make a new start Ijust have to figure out what that will be. First on my list is school forme=)

lilith401's photo
Thu 07/23/09 10:00 AM


I have to start my wholelifeover and im just lost
start over?...no, you just continue on....divorce is the reason i won't get married again:smile:


That's just because we live too far away, dahlin'laugh

RKISIT's photo
Thu 07/23/09 10:04 AM



I have to start my wholelifeover and im just lost
start over?...no, you just continue on....divorce is the reason i won't get married again:smile:


That's just because we live too far away, dahlin'laugh
oh i want a look up..... so bad from youdrool laugh flowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 07/23/09 10:04 AM


I have to start my wholelifeover and im just lost
start over?...no, you just continue on....divorce is the reason i won't get married again:smile:




drinker

TxsSun's photo
Thu 07/23/09 10:04 AM


I have to start my wholelifeover and im just lost
start over?...no, you just continue on....divorce is the reason i won't get married again:smile:


Me too drinker

lilith401's photo
Thu 07/23/09 10:05 AM
:wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:

no photo
Thu 07/23/09 10:06 AM
breast feeding and diapers??????? or starting at a later point????
say...solid food.....???


I have to start my wholelifeover and im just lost

no photo
Thu 07/23/09 10:08 AM
It takes time.. Just go slow and don't let anyone rush you into feeling different.. You have to go through the grieving process.. and only you will know when you are ready.. Surround yourself with good friends.. In time you will heal .. just take this time to evaluate yourself and figure out where you want to be.. I know its scary but the rewards in the long run are great

lilith401's photo
Thu 07/23/09 10:09 AM
Good gravy DO NOT DATE.

Tocheeky4U's photo
Thu 07/23/09 10:18 AM
im so not going to right now!

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