Topic: new to online dating
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Wed 07/22/09 03:15 AM
:smile: hi can anyone tell me what to do next i am new to online dating and have just met someone do i give her my private contact details and what do i do if she wants to meet up how do i know shes not a scammer?

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Wed 07/22/09 03:34 AM
i wouldnt give any personel details for a long while
this site has email, and its free
scammers reply with short messages and are very vauge. ask questions and think about the answers, they`re prety easy to spot.
chat for a few weeks before even considering giving out any details

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Wed 07/22/09 08:58 AM

:smile: hi can anyone tell me what to do next i am new to online dating and have just met someone do i give her my private contact details and what do i do if she wants to meet up how do i know shes not a scammer?


I agree with lonetar.

If she is really interested, the private mail on here or the IM facility should be enough for a couple of weeks.
If then you feel comfortable you can move on to private IM.
Always be wary that someone trying to get you off this site after just making contact could be a scammer.