holy cow

okay theres one answer to previous question

thank you houselover with red shoes

and no..i am not saying that...i am saying that is the STEREOTYPE

hence...

the topic of this thread

I think I am pretty hot

Know why? because I know how to treat a woman with respect

That is hot

in this guy's opinion

Calleigh..Im allowed a day off! I have to deal with all those stupid prayers about peoples sisters husbands aunty's friends dogs bad breath prblems, and it wears me out.

Not that i get worn out, being god, but still i want a break sometimes.

And now im gonna sleep(not that i need it). All prayers for the next 7 hours will be futile!

goodnight dan

we will still be here...and be single...and i will still be hot....just not according to that buff guy over in 1221's thread

You are hot Billy.

Keep doing what you are doing, and be patient.

Pink_Lady is pretty much my first ever girlfriend. Im not single now, but i understand, fully.

night

I agree with you. I also find that guy's that treat people in general with respect are more attractive, again...regardless of looks.

treating yourself with respect is hot too!!

Respect is earned

not given

that is where we will disagree, which is fine.

I see respect more as an action. I tend to respect most everyone until they give me a reason not too...

and then generally, I can respect their choices...I do not have to interact with them, nor do I have to like them or their choices.

The way someone stops to listen to someone, or the way they treat a stranger shows me that they respect another persons ideas, or space, or need...

That is just how I look at respect...

I hear that respect has to be "earned" quite a bit though...

Well let me explain the "Respect is earned" thing...see what ya think?

I without a DOUBT respect everyone's choices and wishes

I without a DOUBT respect everyones body and mind and their views

I without a DOUBT respect a woman enough to open the door and let them walk in first

Is that what you mean????

I meant my respect, that is what needs to be earned, not given away

And there are many many folks on Mingle who have my respect...and some who do not. So I don't need to "meet" someone to have them earn it.

oh ya, dont get ya too far in my book...neither do comments that have nothing to do with what i am talking about

My apologies for getting off topic.

I agree with your previous post. Thank you for the clarification.

ure still confused

but thanks for apologizing


that moves ya up to level 7

When I see a photo of a guy shirtless with his arms crossed over his chest, hands parked in his armpits and a look on his unshaven face like he slaps women around I figure he will meet up with a gal who posted a cheap cleavage/sultry expressioned pic taken in her bathroom.

"Hotness" in my book has NEVER been about a mans body nor his outter appearance. I cant stand when someone "judges a book by its cover" so to speak. I swear..A man can weigh 600 pounds and if he treats me kind, and loves me for who I am..why wouldnt I love him for who he is too? Why would a woman want a guy with a bunch of muscles but has no IQ, no sense of humor, no respect for anyone but himself? There happen to be alot of men that I find attractive that many women dont..and do I care???? Hell no!!! Hes loving, honest, caring, kind, sweet as hell, and loves me...why would I care about his "imperfections" then?

No truer words could be found here. Right on.

Thank you Katzenschnauzer :) Things are most often truthful when they come from the heart

I thought weed was supposed to make you peaceful.

dude relax,the threads are only for fun,dont takeit all so serious